Alright, finally thought of something. When talking about this, I'm trying to bring attention to reasons why people feel the need to do what they do and not actually justifying it in anyway. I'm old-school, and personally I'd date to marry.
With that being said, I know a few people who have been cheated on by their partners not out of genuine malice, but because they are unhappy, and decide to choose the absolute worst way to handle that. Like I know someone who cheated because they just couldn't bring themselves to break up with the person and that sucks, why would you do that to someone?
Also, I feel like certain adult corners on the internet have really added to this phenomena, like, that stuff really idolizes hook-up culture, and quick and easy release, rather than connecting with someone and working up to that point.
Not to mention, there's also the men and women and others that don't understand boundaries, and they get a kick out of it. Some people are just genuinely excited by the prospect of going behind someone's back, it makes it more invigorating for them.
Speaking on boundaries, I saw someone say they hope it doesn't get to that point where it's just straight misogyny, I agree. But I think that side comes out because men (and others it happens with anybody these days) can't understand that someone has standards for themselves and you aren't always gonna meet someone's standards. The one relationship I was in, they just couldn't handle my disability, and I didn't want immediate sex, so we parted ways and that was that, She had her boundaries, and I had mine. Gotta respect peoples standards for themselves.
Jeez that was a lot. Might be my biggest post so far. Brain short circuiting now. Hope you all find the one and all that corny jazz.
RageBurner
