Cheating on a partner

[Ikagura]

There are many many good reasons to not be unfaithful.

Of course but what I mean is that it shouldn't be just because a book told so.

 

[DragonMals]

You're in a happy relationship. Everything seems fine, but your partner has cheated on you with someone else. How would you react?

I won't be shocked, and I'll wait patiently until someone else views me as someone to actually hang around me and whatnot. I can't help but to not feel much when it comes to losing people since I lose them a bit more than finding new people to engage with. It's to a point where I just put myself out there doing my own thing, and wait to see if someone will look at me, and wonder how things are going or something.

 

[Boo Man]

Of course but what I mean is that it shouldn't be just because a book told so.

of course you don't need religion to teach you good morals
but i would beware of religions that support polygamy

 

[Retro Doomer]

Even the thought of having a Girlfriend is already mind boggling for me,
I am a Gamer you know so the thought of having a female specimen being interested in me is a Alien concept for me.

But in the fantastical scenario where I would have a Girlfriend and she would cheat on me,well it would be a break up directly without hesitation I would be hurt and could not forgive her for playing with me like that break my trust and we are over I am quite firm on this.

I would remove her from my life and delete her contact information there are no second chances with me and no apologies that would work.

 

[Pandaprewmaster325]

But in the fantastical scenario where I would have a Girlfriend and she would cheat on me

Thats why you hit first , don't be the one that gets cheated

BE THE CHEATER

 

[_Axl]

I hope this topic won't derail into some kind of sexist rhetoric about how "women are all superficial/gold diggers/opportunists" but I trust this forum members to be mature enough to not go that way thankfully.

This; everyone is like "what if her"... Mate, gender does not matter at all when it comes to this stuff.
Love is a universal thing, and if it's broken, played with and thrown aside just for the hell of it... Everyone suffers, no matter what or who they are.
Besides, it's probably far more common for men to do so, after all, men are far less trustable for me, but I digress.

Cheating is just as universal as everything, it does not sees gender, and it only shows that the loyalty to the other was never there to begin with.
As I said, we as civilized people are capable of communicating our feelings to others; so just not doing that exact thing is just... So immature and ridiculous.

 

[Retro Doomer]

Thats why you hit first , don't be the one that gets cheated

BE THE CHEATER

I hope this is a pun I despise NTR and any kind of cheating.

I am a very loyal person and I don't cheat on my future Girlfriend if I date I date with Marriage in mind I may be considered quite traditional in that regard.

 

[Pandaprewmaster325]

I hope this is a pun I despise NTR and any kind of cheating.

I am a very loyal person and I don't cheat on my future Girlfriend if I date I date with Marriage in mind I may be considered quite traditional in that regard.

Honestly to me it depends whether I want to have marriage with said person or not , that's why you get to know her well

See if it's that special someone , if not I'm bailing out of there or a more sinister approach would be staying with that person until you find someone better and ditch your original GF now that would make you a cheater

 

[Retro Doomer]

Honestly to me it depends whether I want to have marriage with said person or not , that's why you get to know her well

See if it's that special someone , if not I'm bailing out of there or a more sinister approach would be staying with that person until you find someone better and ditch your original GF now that would make you a cheater

Well I go into Dating always with marriage in mind why else would you even date a person in the first place otherwise,

If you don't wanna marry just stay friends or go your separate ways like I said I am quite traditional on such issues and see dating as a tool to get to know your future wife on a deeper level and see if it hits of romantically or not and if not break it off like civil people.

I am vehement against hock up culture and easy fluff moral degeneration does destroy social coherence on the long turn we should strife to life up to high morals I am not saying we should all become saints but at least have a high moral compass.

 

[Pandaprewmaster325]

Well I go into Dating always with marriage in mind why else would you even date a person int he first place otherwise,

If you don't wanna marry just stay friends or go your separate ways like I said I am quite traditional on such issues and see dating as a tool to get to know your future wife on a deeper level and see if it hits of romantically or not and if not break it off like civil people

Exactly my thinking

I am vehement against hock up culture and easy fluff moral degeneration does destroy social coherence on the long turn we should strife to life up to high morals I am not saying we should all become saints but at least have a high moral compass.

Hook up culture is a piece of trash anyone who says otherwise is just a hedonistic fuck

The fact that it exists alone is a mistake

 

[Retro Doomer]

Hook up culture is a piece of trash anyone who says otherwise is just a hedonistic fuck

The fact that it exists alone is a mistake

Precisely its a disease and destroyed enough people as it is.
And that this is even a thing in the first place shows that our society is morally dying which needs to be corrected and I hope it will soon.

 

[Pandaprewmaster325]

Precisely its a disease and destroyed enough people as it is.
And that this is even a thing in the first place shows that our society is morally dying which needs to be corrected and I hope it will soon.

I don't think this will be fixed honestly , humanity always was degenerate so yeah it's just more clear now than ever

 

[Megarockman _1987 Megarockman _1987]

You know what really pisses me off? That these situations don't just happen because your partner knows someone else or because they "chose" to cheat on you, but sometimes it's just out of morbid curiosity, to make you suffer on purpose, to torture you. Also, it's reaching younger generations. When I hear stories from a friend's younger sister about her school, they come out with stuff like this crap. And lastly, I remembered that a long time ago, a classmate of mine was cheated on by his partner, and in revenge (I guess) he decided to become a damn womanizer. LIKE, WHAT?????
(Hi guys good morning)

 

[Sheepy765]

I hope this topic won't derail into some kind of sexist rhetoric about how "women are all superficial/gold diggers/opportunists" but I trust this forum members to be mature enough to not go that way thankfully.

Stole the words out of my brain, it seems too often that people boil women down to incredibly shallow and one note people who want nothing from a guy unless he has something physical they want (money, looks, status, etc.). This also applies to men as well, I’ve heard many claim that men only want a woman because she looks appealing to them or has some other physical characteristic that they find “sexy.”

If either of these were the case I think everyone would be cheating on everyone else, no one would be faithful in the least.

 

[Deleted member 908994]

You know what really pisses me off? That these situations don't just happen because your partner knows someone else or because they "chose" to cheat on you, but sometimes it's just out of morbid curiosity, to make you suffer on purpose, to torture you. Also, it's reaching younger generations. When I hear stories from a friend's younger sister about her school, they come out with stuff like this crap. And lastly, I remembered that a long time ago, a classmate of mine was cheated on by his partner, and in revenge (I guess) he decided to become a damn womanizer. LIKE, WHAT?????
(Hi guys good morning)

Good morning!

 

[Megarockman _1987 Megarockman _1987]

Good morning!

hi gastd how are you today?

 

[Deleted member 908994]

hi gastd how are you today?

I'm doing well and how are you?

 

[Ikagura]

But i would beware of religions that support polygamy.

I'm sorry but I don't see what you mean.

This; everyone is like "what if her"... Mate, gender does not matter at all when it comes to this stuff.
Love is a universal thing, and if it's broken, played with and thrown aside just for the hell of it... Everyone suffers, no matter what or who they are.
Besides, it's probably far more common for men to do so, after all, men are far less trustable for me, but I digress.

I don't know if one is more common than the other but yeah, let's not say that one gender is worse than the other with that subject.

I am vehement against hock up culture and easy fluff moral degeneration does destroy social coherence on the long turn we should strife to life up to high morals I am not saying we should all become saints but at least have a high moral compass.

Okay, while I understand marriage being sacred adult people are free to do what they want with their bodies as long as they're consenting.

And sorry but talking about "moral degeneration" can be a slippery slope subject because being more "conservative" about it used moral as a way to control women.

Hook up culture is a piece of trash anyone who says otherwise is just a hedonistic fuck. The fact that it exists alone is a mistake.

I'd argue that it's a video game forum and that gaming is a form of hedonism.

Can we just let adult (and consenting) people have one night fling without the need to have long term relationship and/or only doing thing for procreation?

Stole the words out of my brain, it seems too often that people boil women down to incredibly shallow and one note people who want nothing from a guy unless he has something physical they want (money, looks, status, etc.). This also applies to men as well, I’ve heard many claim that men only want a woman because she looks appealing to them or has some other physical characteristic that they find “sexy.”

If either of these were the case I think everyone would be cheating on everyone else, no one would be faithful in the least.

I also feel like there's some oddly toxic culture online like rating a woman's beauty out of 10 or even unironically calling her previous relationship a "bodycount" (why that word? She's not a hitwoman) and calling her derogatory words if she's not interested in them (with that fabled "friendzone" even if that word is a bit silly because female friends that are just friends are a thing and it's fine).

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I don't think this will be fixed honestly, humanity always was degenerate so yeah it's just more clear now than ever.

Okay, I don't think you have bad intentions but the term "degenerate" has been used by people that I cannot recommend.

From the point of view of the 19th Century people from the early 21st would also be called degenerate for various reasons because they got an antiquated point of view of the world and lived in a different society.

 

[Retro Doomer]

Okay, while I understand marriage being sacred adult people are free to do what they want with their bodies as long as they're consenting.

And sorry but talking about "moral degeneration" can be a slippery slope subject because being more "conservative" about it used moral as a way to control women.

Jesus man a slippery slope everything is a dog whistle nowadays I say how it is its moral degeneration and its not about controlling Woman jeez I hold Man and Woman up to the same moral standard not just one Sex.

And no just because you are a Adult does not meant you should be free to do everything just because you want to. We outlaw Murder Rape Zoophilia and Necrophilia all outlawed and rightfully so and nobody is allowed to do it just because they are muh 'Adults' being a Adult also means being responsible and well actually act like a well Adult and not like a childish teen who rebels against its parents.

 

[Megarockman _1987 Megarockman _1987]

I'm doing well and how are you?

fine, thanks for asking

 

[Xenocloudarius Xenocloudarius]

Simple, i'd tell the person to fuck off and I would end the relationship.
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And to make it clear by people (I'm referring to male, woman, and non-binary people)

 

[_Axl]

Jesus man a slippery slope everything is a dog whistle nowadays I say how it is its moral degeneration and its not about controlling Woman jeez I hold Man and Woman up to the same moral standard not just one Sex.

And no just because you are a Adult does not meant you should be free to do everything just because you want to. We outlaw Murder Rape Zoophilia and Necrophilia all outlawed and rightfully so and nobody is allowed to do it just because they are muh 'Adults' being a Adult also means being responsible and well actually act like a well Adult and not like a childish teen who rebels against its parents.

Uh, could you please tone down a bit?
We're on a friendly forum that many people talk in, so there's no need to... you know, talk about all that horrible stuff.

 

[Retro Doomer]

Uh, could you please tone down a bit?
We're on a friendly forum that many people talk in, so there's no need to... you know, talk about all that horrible stuff.

Well those may have been harsh but those comparisons had to be made to bring my point acroos.
Also I was mildly annoyed with the muh slipery slope stuff.

 

[iamthemilkman]

The worst thing about cheaters is that they often do it without realizing everything they're destroying in the process. Years of people's lives including your own, establishing a relationship with someone, perhaps having kids, or even animals that love both of you, buying a house, etc., hurting those you claim to love, and you throw it all away because you want some random sex. Everyone has to start over which can be incredibly difficult depending on the ages of those involved. It's just so reckless and dumb.

 

[ZEGA ZONICZEGA ZONIC's icon]

I want a girlfriend/boyfriend who doesn't cheat.