Cheating on a partner

[Megarockman _1987 Megarockman _1987]

Goth girls are cool.

Hell yeah man
I like so much goth girls
I love when you found one and she is drinking white monster
!!!!!1!1!1!11!1!1

 

[Metroid_Hybrid]

What are Goth girls like?

Ultimately, it depends..
The one I dated in high school was a bit of a "dead fish"..

 

[Pandaprewmaster325]

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This is just that using the hedonism argument makes no sense whatsoever.

Let me do it 4chan way

>forum about games
>games = pleasure
>you are forbidden to even mention the word "hedonism" because you are playing games!

You know that you can drink alcohol without becoming alcoholic and do this with protections to prevent STDs or unwanted pregnancies, let's not act as if there's no nuances nor that people aren't able to limit themselves...

Nuance?? What you say may be true to some extent but how many lives did this hyper sexualized pleasure only driven attitude known as hook up culture ruin? Sure you are free to do what you want but also consider the consequences of those actions

That's the issue, because of certain groups using this term I think it shouldn't be used like that (because it's quite an extreme word).

And i think it's fine to use it , because the term came to be for a reason and how is it an extreme word? Wtf are you on dude???

Not being interested in marriage isn't degeneracy either.

People are leaning less and less towards marriage anyway so yeah i guess? Life is becoming too expensive , child raising is becoming more difficult etc and some people are so hurt they prefer to be lonely for the rest of their lives

Its not degenerate to absolve from marriage what's degenerate is well doing degenerate shit all the time?

Using an ad hominem eh? It's not virtue signaling but just telling that calling someone "degenerate" is giving a bad vibe all around.

Oh that's not an ad hominem that's just something i had in mind for over 6 months now! And don't tell me "no" you legit argue and come up with stuff like a redditor with the whole "um ackshely you're wrong cuz 1 2 3" and then proceed to list the most out of touch and hilarious reasons , you think i don't remember what you said about criminals? Or all the stuff in the hot takes thread? Come on dude the writing is on the wall of you trying to uphold certain laws and acting perfect when it's not needed......the pseudo intellectual vibe......I JUST CAN'T

No need to sugarcoat shit , btw when something is obviously degenerate like for example sharing and distributing NSFW material and bragging about being a gooner and knowing the 5000 hentais of attack on titan that is clearly a perverted person......or someone who loves to indulge in degeneracy there is no other way to put it man......i mean what do you describe someone who cheated on their partner just cuz they couldn't control themselves? A hero? A dark knight? A cheater AND a degenerate , perverted person etc , hope this makes it clear

 

[Deleted member 908994]

Ultimately, it depends..
The one I dated in high school was a bit of a "dead fish"..

Interesting

 

[Guinea]

But... let's keep it peaceful in here. Doesn't that sound nice?

 

[Ikagura]

Nuance?? What you say may be true to some extent but how many lives did this hyper sexualized pleasure only driven attitude known as hook up culture ruin? Sure you are free to do what you want but also consider the consequences of those actions

If you're using protection there's 0 issues about it...

You are talking about STDs and single mother which are results of recklessness.

And i think it's fine to use it , because the term came to be for a reason and how is it an extreme word? Wtf are you on dude???

People are leaning less and less towards marriage anyway so yeah i guess? Life is becoming too expensive , child raising is becoming more difficult etc and some people are so hurt they prefer to be lonely for the rest of their lives.

Its not degenerate to absolve from marriage what's degenerate is well doing degenerate shit all the time?

And what makes something ""degenerate"" to begin with?

Oh that's not an ad hominem that's just something i had in mind for over 6 months now! And don't tell me "no" you legit argue and come up with stuff like a redditor with the whole "um ackshely you're wrong cuz 1 2 3" and then proceed to list the most out of touch and hilarious reasons , you think i don't remember what you said about criminals? Or all the stuff in the hot takes thread? Come on dude the writing is on the wall of you trying to uphold certain laws and acting perfect when it's not needed......the pseudo intellectual vibe......I JUST CAN'T

Or maybe let's not use fallacious arguments, shall we?

No need to sugarcoat shit , btw when something is obviously degenerate like for example sharing and distributing NSFW material and bragging about being a gooner and knowing the 5000 hentais of attack on titan that is clearly a perverted person......or someone who loves to indulge in degeneracy there is no other way to put it man......i mean what do you describe someone who cheated on their partner just cuz they couldn't control themselves? A hero? A dark knight? A cheater AND a degenerate , perverted person etc , hope this makes it clear

This forum forbids nsfw material and what someone does behind closed doors shouldn't be our concern as long as it's within legality.

But... let's keep it peaceful in here. Doesn't that sound nice?

I'm sorry, we should probably not derail the topic and/or lock it up for the best of everyone.

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Yep, I called him out for being a midwit in another thread and just disengaged. The guy just likes to find little nitpicks to "uM aCtUaLlY" because it makes himself feel smart.. He doesn't even know when an Ad Hominem is not a fallacious argument.. lol..

Sorry but why are you talking about another unrelated topic and ad hominems are always fallacious...

Also midwit is just a 4chan buzzword that is used to downplay others without actual arguments, please don't use it unironically, thank you.

 

[Deleted member 908994]

But... let's keep it peaceful in here. Doesn't that sound nice?

Well if this thread should be closed it would be my second one. I hope it doesn't happen again!

 

[Boo Man]

plz stay on topic guys

 

[Ikagura]

Well if this thread should be closed it would be my second one. I hope it doesn't happen again!

I'm feeling sorry about the whereabouts of this topic but I feel like some people are assuming things out of situations without actually knowing the full picture.

I mean it's also her body her choice and if people don't want long term relationship it's fine.

I don't really like the weird vibe that is happening about this subject...

 

[Deleted member 908994]

I'm feeling sorry about the whereabouts of this topic but I feel like some people are assuming things out of situations without actually knowing the full picture.

I mean it's also her body her choice and if people don't want long term relationship it's fine.

I don't really like the weird vibe that is happening about this subject...

You have an interesting take on it. There aren't many people in the world who feel that way about it.

 

[Pandaprewmaster325]

And what makes something ""degenerate"" to begin with?

Are you trying to pull a jordan Peterson move on me with "define X"

You know what metroid is right......forget about it

 

[Ikagura]

As for the cheating subject I don't really like that some boyfriends are getting stingy/invasive about a woman's private life and that she's almost being frowned upon for merely talking to other guys because of her bf's insecurities and paranoia.

There are sadly guys acting like their gf is something they've "earned" so they feel like they have full control over her (like any tool or item they own)... She's still a living sentient person and deserve respect like humans and she won't cheat just because she has laughed with a guy just once...

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Are you trying to pull a jordan Peterson move on me with "define X"

You know what metroid is right......forget about it

I have barley any idea who that person is but you should tell us a clearer meaning behind that word before using it...

 

[Megarockman _1987 Megarockman _1987]

This shit got out of control
Hehe

 

[_Axl]

As for the cheating subject I don't really like that some boyfriends are getting stingy/invasive about a woman's private life and that she's almost being frowned upon for merely talking to other guys because of her bf's insecurities and paranoia.

There are sadly guys acting like their gf is something they've "earned" so they feel like they have full control over her (like any tool or item they own)... She's still a living sentient person and deserve respect like humans and she won't cheat just because she has laughed with a guy just once...

...this is one of the reasons why I'm so afraid/hateful of men.
Everyone is just... selfish. They only think about themselves, and never about anyone else.
...after all, probably most of the criminals of the world are male. And from what I've seen, men are the ones who're both open to cheat on their partner and be the one the partner cheats with.

Because the one who cheats is not the only one that harms, but also the one who knows that they're ruining and destroying that person's relationship, and enjoy doing it.

 

[TruthandConsequence]

Damn this became a warzone so quickly. Think people need to not take this so seriously, it's just a post on a GAMING forum lol. I don't think anyone here are experts in the field. I think if you have issues with relationships and all that, sometimes you gotta look inward and try to understand the person you are, and if there's change to be made then do that.

Nobody's perfect, people make mistakes. And sometimes people don't share the same ideals that you do. Goes into those boundaries and standards I was talking about. Doesn't just apply to relationships.

Stay classy, don't get too heated.

 

[Boo Man]

Damn this became a warzone so quickly. Think people need to not take this so seriously, it's just a post on a GAMING forum lol. I don't think anyone here are experts in the field. I think if you have issues with relationships and all that, sometimes you gotta look inward and try to understand the person you are, and if there's change to be made then do that.

Nobody's perfect, people make mistakes. And sometimes people don't share the same ideals that you do. Goes into those boundaries and standards I was talking about. Doesn't just apply to relationships.

Stay classy, don't get too heated.

that's exactly what a CHEATER would say!

 

[TruthandConsequence]

that's exactly what a CHEATER would say!

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[GuyZero32k4]

Every SINGLE TIME. I'm not even surprised anymore. I'm the one who gets cheated on. Give them all the attention they crave, their every want, please em, and STILL get cheated on. One time, this one I was dating even cheated on me with a married man.
Now that I have money and time, not interested in wasting my time with the same old same old routine.

I'm writing a book on my adventures with relationship shit called:
The Bitch Wore Black

 

[Metroid_Hybrid]

...this is one of the reasons why I'm so afraid/hateful of men.

Just because misandry has been widely encouraged in universities and the media, it doesn't make it any better than misogyny..

Everyone is just... selfish. They only think about themselves, and never about anyone else.
...after all, probably most of the criminals of the world are male.

If someone were to use this exact same kind of argument about race, you would probably call that person a 'racist' without a second thought..
Plus, it's a fact that women receive ⅓ of the punishment for the exact same crimes, that is, if they're ever arrested and/or charged with anything at all in the first place.. (Personal example: a cheating ex-gf once starting physically attacking me inside of a courthouse, because she had just lost her frivolous civil case against me. A dozen officers & deputies immediately saw it and pulled her off of me, and absolutely NOTHING happened to her!)

And from what I've seen, men are the ones who're both open to cheat on their partner and be the one the partner cheats with.

Both sexes cheat at roughly equal rates. However, 1) We are built very, very differently 2) Women are just more adept at hiding their infidelity, and are therefore far more insidious with it..
The last part of that sentence of yours is just plain stupid..

Because the one who cheats is not the only one that harms, but also the one who knows that they're ruining and destroying that person's relationship, and enjoy doing it.

"Mate choice copying" is primarily a female phenomenon..
It's also impossible for a man to trick a woman into unknowingly raising someone else's child (cuckoldry). Year-over-year, paternity tests come back "negative" ~33% of the time, and that's just the guys who were suspicious enough to order a test in the first place.. You can't convince me that these harlets don't "enjoy" getting away with that kind of deception and "destroying" a man's genetic legacy..
Paternity tests should be mandatory at birth..

 

[Retro Doomer]

 

[Ikagura]

You can't convince me that these harlets don't "enjoy" getting away with that kind of deception and "destroying" a man's genetic legacy..

A... genetic legacy?

I mean there are couples that don't have children and others that adopt for various reasons (such as being unable to procreate among other things) yet those aren't an issue whatsoever.

Yes, cheating is bad but let's not get into that rhetoric where only bloodline matters when it's not really the case because we're still all of the same species with a common ancestry at the end of the day so nothing is "destroyed" unless an entire branch gets extinct.

 

[Retro Doomer]

Just because misandry has been widely encouraged in universities and the media, it doesn't make it any better than misogyny..

If someone were to use this exact same kind of argument about race, you would probably call that person a 'racist' without a second thought..
Plus, it's a fact that women receive ⅓ of the punishment for the exact same crimes, that is, if they're ever arrested and/or charged with anything at all in the first place.. (Personal example: a cheating ex-gf once starting physically attacking me inside of a courthouse, because she had just lost her frivolous civil case against me. A dozen officers & deputies immediately saw it and pulled her off of me, and absolutely NOTHING happened to her!)

Both sexes cheat at roughly equal rates. However, 1) We are built very, very differently 2) Women are just more adept at hiding their infidelity, and are therefore far more insidious with it..
The last part of that sentence of yours is just plain stupid..

"Mate choice copying" is primarily a female phenomenon..
It's also impossible for a man to trick a woman into unknowingly raising someone else's child (cuckoldry). Year-over-year, paternity tests come back "negative" ~33% of the time, and that's just the guys who were suspicious enough to order a test in the first place.. You can't convince me that these harlets don't "enjoy" getting away with that kind of deception and "destroying" a man's genetic legacy..
Paternity tests should be mandatory at birth..

Did they not try outlawing paternity tests or what shit they tried and is it not actually outlawed in a nation or more,its been a while since I looked it up.

Also I agree if you see a offensive sentence like all man are pigs just replace man with any other term or group and repeat the sentence and if you consider it problematic afterwards then it may as well be wrong the other way around.

I dislike over generalization like all Man are pigs or all Women are cheaters.
I never understood the whole Gender war shit anyway its mind boggling and stupid in my opinion.
I had problems with both man and woman in my life but I never started hating a specific sex afterwards there are shitty man and women out there but also nice once it may be hard sometimes finding one yet they do exist.

Also as a straight Man its literal Impossible for me to Hate Woman as I love them ;)
I hate that we are in a time where Paternity tests are necessary but in today's society where sleeping around and having sex before marriage is celebrated it has become a necessity sadly,trust sure is good but knowledge is better especially since its my blood - effort and money and I rather be assure that what I spend it on is my own child and not the child from mailman Jim.

Also Hatred against Woman and against Man should be treated equally both are shitty and stupid we are all Humans in the end and when we don't get along we can say our species goodbye to our society a society needs both Women and Man to function.

 

[Metroid_Hybrid]

A... genetic legacy?

I mean there are couples that don't have children and others that adopt for various reasons (such as being unable to procreate among other things) yet those aren't an issue whatsoever.

Yes, cheating is bad but let's not get into that rhetoric where only bloodline matters when it's not really the case because we're still all of the same species with a common ancestry at the end of the day so nothing is "destroyed" unless an entire branch gets extinct.

See, this is why you're a stupid midwit..
If a woman tricks a man into raising a child that he thinks is his, but isn't, then yes, that is a woman knowingly destroying a man's genetic legacy..
It really IS that simple..

 

[Ikagura]

See, this is why you're a stupid midwit..

Please don't call me stupid, fighting is forbidden in the forum rules, let's not have a mod locking and/or deleting the thread thank you.

If a woman tricks a man into raising a child that he thinks is his, but isn't, then yes, that is a woman knowingly destroying a man's genetic legacy..
It really IS that simple..

Tricking and deceit is bad but I think people are overrating the whole genetic thing when it's just a series of letters.

On the other hand a man leaving a woman after she got pregnant is equally if not more awful.

PS: Just for the topic in general but I hope that nobody would use the subject to slutshame or say harmful things...

 

[Retro Doomer]

See, this is why you're a stupid midwit..
If a woman tricks a man into raising a child that he thinks is his, but isn't, then yes, that is a woman knowingly destroying a man's genetic legacy..
It really IS that simple..

Precisely also wanting to keep once own Genetic legacy is just common Human behavior even if we are all the same species,its just common genetic tendencies to preserve once own bloodline every society regardless of culture or religion follows the logic and that since pretty forever.

Its not necessary about Clan or Family name either but in its purest form that your specific genes/DNA gets passed on even Animals have such a behavior.

And in Cases you are unable to do so people normally tended to adopt Children that are genetically closer to them,unlike nowadays where its often for social credit and cloud.