I cant use my fav swear on this I learned it yesterday, so that will have to do.
I see.
The way I mean it is prostitute can only mean one thing while whore can be used as an alternative way to say slut
I get that. Then again some people kinda throw that word too often, even if she dares having lighter clothes.
Idc about whats sexist, I hate it, I like people forming connections rather than seeing the other sex as disposable
There's no love in it, no building a family.
I do agree that today it's harder to form connections as people are scared of making bad encounters (you can never know a man's true intents until you get closer).
As for disposability maybe some people are sleeping only for recreational purposes (or out of desperation) rather than anything else. It's uncommon but species doing that for recreation can be seen in nature as well.
However I could argue that some could have love without the intent of building a family. I think that peer pressure to have a child is not a good idea.
The before marriage thing applies to men too btw cause if you believe it you're a very strict christian or something (must be an anglo thing cause Ive never heard it here)
Maybe strict people but then again I'd argue that the "first time" is not that important. Someone could even have a mediocre or bad first time while still having a lover and a family. Some people think that if you're not the her first one then you'll be worth less or being "too late" as if it was a race.
Don't you think that could be true to an extent? Having a ton of sex partners, even when single, making it more likely (not obligatory, just more likely) that you'd cheat even if you get married etc? Supposedly there are studies that show that the ability to pair bond goes down the more partners you have. I've never really looked into it, but it's interesting. Personally the couples I respect the most are those people who've been together since high school or college. Obviously a lot of people didn't have the option, but I think it's the ideal scenario, pretty much. The idea that you need to "explore" and "have fun" (ie sleep around) when you're young is popular these days, but I'm not convinced that model actually works. I think it's more likely to form bad habits that mess up your chances at a real relationship down the line than to actually do any good.
This could be a factor but in the same way that correlation isn't causality and that studies don't systematically define an axiom. That's why some studies could get debunked or proven to be wrong after a while. Remember that we used to think there were Alpha wolves until it was finally proven it wasn't the case.
High School love becoming a future husband/wife is cute on paper but in the meantime having a relationship in college/uni doesn't mean they will get married as they may have differing ways after.
I'd argue that there's no harm "having fun" around as long as there's no unwanted pregnancies nor STD transmission and as long as every parties involved are major and consenting. We are in the XXIst Century, the idea of keeping women chaste until marriage is from an era where contraception methods were less reliable (if not inexistant).
Bad habits like drugs or alcoholism are harmful I agree and maybe some people are sleeping around because they were left alone when they were younger but I think that porn addiction is more of the actual issue than sleeping with people and it won't necessarily prevent a real relationship to happen.
There are also quite many divorces among the previous generations of people.
