This is super interesting to me, because we're the same age, and I truly genuinely feel like I still have plenty of those older kinds of experiences you and @YuriSukiSan talk about. I might be either extremely lucky, or as I said before, just much more inexperienced than I thought, that I still just see the parts I find enjoyable. Or I'm just oblivious to the bad parts, not sure.
In my head "MMORPG" is still this mystifying wild west I heard of when I was a kid, I still get dazzled sometimes when I realize that I'm running around with real people. Of course I'm very much aware of the worse aspects, from design to community to meta to whatever, but I think I've been able to tune them out since forever since I've always played these games like any adventure game, so that sense of exploration sort of never went away, I suppose?
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I've been able to recapture something very distant but not quite the same only twice myself, the first time was when I played FFXIV after ARR launched and found a very nice community of people. ARR was made up of a lot of FFXI players so it was friendly beyond belief, there's no amount of exaggeration and aliteration I could use to describe how wonderful they were. This was back when the game had like 200k subs and was a very, very, very different game! Still a WoW clone but more orientated around community and player interaction a little like the Bozja content if anyone is familiar with that!
The second was actually in 2019 on ZT, the RP community was active for the longest time and the people I met there were very nice too! That lasted up until the Naxxramas patch and quite a lot of people turned up for the final hurrah when the Dark Portal was going to open but after that any sense of community fizzled off, and it died. It was pretty much dead half way through Naxx and burried in the ground by the time TBC launched, you can find some redeeming qualities, lots of fun in Classic right now but it just isn't the same thing. And I'm not really not being lazy I basically say hello to almost everyone, I'm extroverted to the point where I feel mentally exhausted from being so out spoken in game.
If it's ever going to be truely recaptured you need a game designed with the old school ethos, all the tenets and beliefs they had back in the day. Proper community managers, GMs that are willing to patrol the streets and servers with capped communities that are carefully maintained by the devs like every old school MMORPG used too, even WoW and XIV used to monitor their servers. And obviously real life affects it as well, there's not a lot of new blood playing MMORPGs -- exploring uncharted waters -- but the bigger issue is that the real world (not to get political) isn't being very well looked after in quite a lot of places. People forget that gen x and the boomers that made up the old MMORPGs have moved on, they've been replaced.
Those old fashioned sensibilities aren't really a thing anymore. The era of computers but more specifically MMORPGs being the domain of actual, legitimate, eccentric nerds, otaku programmers etc with a passion for fantasy is gone. They do exist but in a sea of people with a very different mentality to fantasy games. The modern internet is a very cynical, jaded, indifferent some times hostile place outside of niche communites in my general experience. Even if they made the perfect game tommorow, rigidly policed the communities and had a healthy influx of players a lot of modern MMORPG players just aren't the same quality. And on top of that, the novelty of being social online has faded! It's just normality now! You get exceptions on the RP servers and then the people who are jaded move to the RP servers, some contribute but many never do, then complain once that server is filled with the same jaded, boring, people they were trying to escape!
I'm not sure where I was going with that tangent. But um, yes. I think it's possible but it'll never be what it once was because the internet and the people using it were nicer with very unique circumstances, maybe if there's some of MMORPG like an actual isekai drop in with some kind of neural net it might be different.--.. And, yes! It's very possible to have those moments they just aren't the same.. Sadly.
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