You didn't say anything wrong, it just seemed strange assuming things about me, but maybe i wasn't clear in the first message.I'm struggling to figure out what I said that was so wrong or offensive to you, because you sound like I wronged you somehow.
I've been all for exploration of retro gaming my entire life, even in this topic I said people should explore retro games, learn about new games, expand their experiences. I don't see how that's related to being an expert or not. Nobody expects someone to be an expert at all times. But a person isn't a gamer if they have played 3-4 games in their lives, however if they start exploring, leaning games sure then they're becoming one slowly but surely.
Over time they'll learn more and more, understand gaming history more and so forth.
A person not knowing what a 3ds is and refusing to learn what it is, isn't a gamer, it's a person who just casually plays Tomodachi Life.
But a person who plays Tomodachi Life and then goes on to explore more games from different genres, learns about different consoles, doesn't reject knowledge when shared with them slowly becomes a gamer over time.
To the middle part of the message i completely agree, I just don't think putting information that don't come from curiosity of the person is the best way to welcome someone into a hobby, but maybe it's my personal experience.
Would you rather have someone explain how everything on a camera work and then shoot or shoot and learn by making bad photos? there's no right answer in my opinion, and i think the same can be said about games.
Maybe i made a bad example about tomodachi life, what I was trying to say it's the it needs to come first from the outside the need to know more, play better, be more mindful about games and their story, I don't know if people you were talking about earlier post were curious about retrogaming or just remebering playing one gaming and wanted to share a memory.
About the part of being called a gamer i actually agree with you, but I think there are too much implication that come from deciding whos a gamer and whos not. Even if we decide a way to determine who's what, then? People outside can just ignore or see the gaming community as a closed place, and from people inside can be seen as a performative act. I dont know, just one hypothesis

