If you could, what would you change about yourselves?

[IyoTheHelpfulWolf]

I wish I didn't have my imposter syndrome flavored anxiety.

 

[Jotaro]

nothing

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i like myself with all my pros and cons, learn to love urselfs, and fix whatever cons, you have, either mentally/physically, with patience and putting actual effort, it ain't easy, but it ain't rocket science levels either

 

[IyoTheHelpfulWolf]

I wish I didn't have my imposter syndrome flavored anxiety.

Something that helps with my anxiousness around others is reminding myself that I make a bigger deal of my own shortcomings than others. I was so used to a strict upbringing, that being hard on myself became my normal.

I still have to remind myself sometimes. When Zerpina was asking for some back story and interests to write my theme song, I over explained and over thought my answers and legitimately thought I upset her or blew my chance. But I simply condensed what I told her like she asked and all went well. I'm so happy I stuck through the awkwardness instead of noping out of there out of embarrassment.

 

[DDuqueA4]

As the title says.
I'd like to change my gender, I've always wondered how would I look like as a girl. Being ugly af, I often thought that maybe my look would have been better than this, I could be a beautiful and charming girl.

EDIT:
I forgot to mention that I would like to lose the ability to breath., first of all.

i'd like a smaller jaw. its my most noticeable feature and those are generally things point out

 

[RanmyakuIchi's icon RanmyakuIchi RanmyakuIchi]

Something that helps with my anxiousness around others is reminding myself that I make a bigger deal of my own shortcomings than others. I was so used to a strict upbringing, that being hard on myself became my normal.

I still have to remind myself sometimes. When Zerpina was asking for some back story and interests to write my theme song, I over explained and over thought my answers and legitimately thought I upset her or blew my chance. But I simply condensed what I told her like she asked and all went well. I'm so happy I stuck through the awkwardness instead of noping out of there out of embarrassment.

I don't do too bad with people normally, but I often feel like a "fraud who's going to be exposed", even though I have literally no reason to feel this way. I had a somewhat strict upbringing too, so I have a bad habit of considering anything less than perfectly flawless as a failure.

It's taking me a bit longer to write my next article because I get a paragraph or two in and start getting anxious, wondering if it's good enough, and have to stop.

 

[IyoTheHelpfulWolf]

I don't do too bad with people normally, but I often feel like a "fraud who's going to be exposed", even though I have literally no reason to feel this way. I had a somewhat strict upbringing too, so I have a bad habit of considering anything less than perfectly flawless as a failure.

It's taking me a bit longer to write my next article because I get a paragraph or two in and start getting anxious, wondering if it's good enough, and have to stop.

Would you like me to read over it in a DM before you publish it?

 

[RanmyakuIchi's icon RanmyakuIchi RanmyakuIchi]

Would you like me to read over it in a DM before you publish it?

I might forward it to you when it's finished, I'm about 70% or so done now. It's also taking a bit because I picked a subject that required me to replay and take notes on five different games. I have an EXTREMELY rough unfinished draft if you want to see it.

 

[Iguana-0]

everything. I don't really like what i am

 

[IyoTheHelpfulWolf]

I might forward it to you when it's finished, I'm about 70% or so done now. It's also taking a bit because I picked a subject that required me to replay and take notes on five different games. I have an EXTREMELY rough unfinished draft if you want to see it.

It's your call. I trust your process. Just send it to me whenever you want me to take a look.

 

[DietPepsi]

I have severe OCD that kinda limits my daily life, either get rid of that or learn how to play guitar. I gave up on it as a kid and regretted it ever since.

 

[SolemnlyDoc]

I'd like to be taller. I love basketball with all that I am, but I couldn't play past college level simply because of my height.

 

[RanmyakuIchi's icon RanmyakuIchi RanmyakuIchi]

It's your call. I trust your process. Just send it to me whenever you want me to take a look.

I might take a bit to finish it up for now, and come back to you with it before I post it, if that works with you.

 

[IyoTheHelpfulWolf]

I might take a bit to finish it up for now, and come back to you with it before I post it, if that works with you.

Sounds good to me!

 

[KirboDeku]

If I were to change "me", would I even be "me" anymore? I'll put my armchair musings aside however if you mean within the realm of possibility, and say I want to be more temperate.

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Better hair pigmentation(got my first white hairs at sixteen). Now my hair is a natural multicolor madness, with patches of white, black and light blond.

You're real life Yu-Gi-Oh, that's super rad!

 

[IyoTheHelpfulWolf]

Well if you wanna be a girl easy you can become trans.

I'm not trans myself so any trans folk here are free to correct me if I'm off base, but as I understand it, solving their gender dysphoria isn't always as simple as a change of pronouns. What they feel they are in their heads still don't match their bodies, and the surgery to change that is quite expensive and has a risk of complications.

 

[Raziya The Seeker]

I wish I didn't have my imposter syndrome flavored anxiety.

Look at this way, I suppose. I'd rather have impostor syndrome than suffer from Dunning-Kruger Effect. Because believe me, ignorance ain't bliss when it makes everyone else suffer. There's more than enough stupid motherfuckers in this world.

That said, anxiety caused by impostor syndrome also fucking sucks. I suffer from it too. Much as I like to pretend I'm sort of white trash ascetic and a wannabe unsung hero, a lot of my inner turmoil makes me a total jerk. Doesn't help that I like to lash out when I can.

Speaking of. The one thing I would change about myself is to stop hurting the people I care about. Like I said, I have a bad habit of lashing out when under duress. I am very much an introvert, and I need my solitude. Being a jerk is partly why. :x

 

[IyoTheHelpfulWolf]

everything. I don't really like what i am

Surely there's something you're good at that you take pride in.

 

[Deleted member 884]

Well if you wanna be a girl easy you can become trans. But why would you wanna be a woman ??

I mean a biological girl. I'm too old, too ugly and too broke to become a trans girl.

 

[TheWanderer]

Appearance wise I'm perfect,I will never criticize how God created me ,tho habit wise freaking laziness ,I have a back pain for like a year now and I'm too lazy to visit the doctor

 

[Prism_Red]

I'm already blessed with unnatural tolerance to pain, skilled with stealth! Immunity to disease! With just a little more strength and inhuman reflexes, I can live in the society as god among mortals!!!

I'll use it to help humanity of course, don't get silly ideas now hahaha... haha....

 

[Ruky Ruky]

I actually love myself just the way I am. Yeah no I don't, but I would really love to have smaller booba and remember names. ?

 

[Den MDM Den MDM]

I would love to be less possessive, I just cling to everyone and get so down when I feel like those people don't like me as much

 

[RanmyakuIchi's icon RanmyakuIchi RanmyakuIchi]

I would love to be less possessive, I just cling to everyone and get so down when I feel like those people don't like me as much

I do this too sometimes. I got you, bro.

 

[moonbits]

That's a loaded question that makes me cry but I'd like to feel better about myself.

 

[Mago]

I wish I could think more clearly and concentrate better. I think its my autism but I have trouble focusing a lot. Theres so much stuff I wanna do but I don't seem to be able to commit most of the time because I cant focus or get drained quickly.