Hot takes

[Yousef Yousef]

My hottest take, quite possibly the hottest take ever written on the internet! Spoiler warning, as it might be too spicy for some!

Spoiler: Hot Take

I don't care what media or entertainment people on the internet like or dislike. I don't think anyone is lesser or stupid for liking something I don't enjoy, nor do I feel hostility towards someone who's taste doesn't align with my own. If you like something I don't get, I'm genuinely happy that you found something in it I could not. If you dislike something I like, I wish you could feel what I feel, but I understand not everything is for everyone. I'm pretty firmly in the "Let people like what they like" camp, and have no desire to shit on someone's good time.

I try my best to use language like "I do not care for this" or "I personally felt" as opposed to using hard "it sucks" kind of language. I really don't care if it sounds too soft. Media means different things to different people, and who am I to step on that?

With the way the internet is today, I believe more than ever that we can’t really be removed from the responsibility of maintaining at least some form of social etiquette. Low effort or poorly thought out posts can harm general discussion as opposed to posts made in good faith. Some snark in inevitable (and welcome in some cases), and obviously it goes without saying that short messages are fine too. Sometimes giving others benefit of the doubt can go a long way compared to making spite-fueled or backhanded comments with a thin veil of sarcasm.

 

[Ikagura]

With the way the internet is today, I believe more than ever that we can’t really be removed from the responsibility of maintaining at least some form of social etiquette. Low effort or poorly thought out posts can harm general discussion as opposed to posts made in good faith. Some snark in inevitable (and welcome in some cases), and obviously it goes without saying that short messages are fine too. Sometimes giving others benefit of the doubt can go a long way compared to making spite-fueled or backhanded comments with a thin veil of sarcasm.

This is why I despise "hipster culture" of always wanting to be a contrarian for the sake of being against the crowd while implying that people liking something popular are "sheeple" or "normies".

Each time I feel like the person is just wanting to get recognition or feeling smarter than the rest (without being actually above average).

At this point I could say that drinking water and breathing are overrated because everyone does it.

Or some pessimistic people saying that "everyone's an idiot" without ever questioning themselves.

Social networks are like public spaces, if you wouldn't say that outside then why saying it here?

 

[Deleted member 1816]

I'm not really a hot take kinda guy, but:
I hate putting ice cubes in a drink.
Sure, they make it more icy (pun intended) and all that, but then they melt after a while and ruin the drink.

 

[Yousef Yousef]

This is why I despise "hipster culture" of always wanting to be a contrarian for the sake of being against the crowd while implying that people liking something popular are "sheeple" or "normies".

Each time I feel like the person is just wanting to get recognition or feeling smarter than the rest (without being actually above average).

At this point I could say that drinking water and breathing are overrated because everyone does it.

Or some pessimistic people saying that "everyone's an idiot" without ever questioning themselves.

Social networks are like public spaces, if you wouldn't say that outside then why saying it here?

People feel the need to stand out, or send disrespectful or patronizing comments thinly veiled as snark, thinking they’re outsmarting the person they’re responding to, not realizing when their comments makes them seem uneducated or unintelligent.

 

[Ikagura]

People feel the need to stand out, or send disrespectful or patronizing comments thinly veiled as snark, thinking they’re outsmarting the person they’re responding to, not realizing when their comments makes them seem uneducated or unintelligent.

Yep. Patronising is already rude (especially when the person is actually younger, not that age has something to do with authority or intellect) and overusing sarcasm and snarky remarks isn't constructive.

In fact, irl I had a "friend" that has spent most of his time doing snarky and sarcastic remarks about me (even in front of others to my detriment) to the point I stopped hang with them.

It's the same with banter, even if sometimes it's friendly some people are using the "I was just joking, chill out." excuse to be actually mean towards someone.

On the Internet some feel like they cannot be stopped.

 

[PrismRed]

Spoiler: Hot Take

I don't care what media or entertainment people on the internet like or dislike. I don't think anyone is lesser or stupid for liking something I don't enjoy, nor do I feel hostility towards someone who's taste doesn't align with my own. If you like something I don't get, I'm genuinely happy that you found something in it I could not. If you dislike something I like, I wish you could feel what I feel, but I understand not everything is for everyone. I'm pretty firmly in the "Let people like what they like" camp, and have no desire to shit on someone's good time.

I try my best to use language like "I do not care for this" or "I personally felt" as opposed to using hard "it sucks" kind of language. I really don't care if it sounds too soft. Media means different things to different people, and who am I to step on that?

As someone who never found a single person that has the same taste and/or interest as me, I share the same outlook. In fact it's pretty hard to make me care about something.

 

[Yousef Yousef]

As someone who never found a single person that has the same taste and/or interest as me, I share the same outlook. In fact it's pretty hard to make me care about something.

You’ve must’ve had really limited exposure to people then, assuming you like disgaea based in your avatar, it’s not hard to find fans of that. I’ve liked the series well enough and Etna is one of my favorite gaming characters, unless you mean interests in a broader sense, like wrestling or cooking or what have you. Then I can understand somewhat, or unless you mean irl, in which I obviously can’t comment.

 

[Yousef Yousef]

I'm not really a hot take kinda guy, but:
I hate putting ice cubes in a drink.
Sure, they make it more icy (pun intended) and all that, but then they melt after a while and ruin the drink.

I hate this with every fiber of my being too. I rarely understood the logic or reason behind it. In the states, it’s done because soft drinks are not always refrigerated. But besides that I find it odd, especially when soda machines give you really cold soda to begin with. I suppose the ice makes sense if you plan to drink your drinks for longer, which I’m definitely not against or anything. Or if you want to water down your drinks.

 

[PrismRed]

You’ve must’ve had really limited exposure to people then, assuming you like disgaea based in your avatar, it’s not hard to find fans of that. I’ve liked the series well enough and Etna is one of my favorite gaming characters, unless you mean interests in a broader sense, like wrestling or cooking or what have you. Then I can understand somewhat, or unless you mean irl, in which I obviously can’t comment.

I meant IRL, let's say video games for example, sure there are people I know who like games as in a simple gaming on mobile all the way to the helpless gambling addicts, but nobody that I know of ever took it seriously, it's just a hobby to them, if you can call it that even.
Not to mention my unusual quirks and tastes, I admit not many people can 'click' with me that well, even my closest friend don't understand the way my brain works sometimes.

 

[RanmyakuIchi's icon RanmyakuIchi RanmyakuIchi]

I'm not really a hot take kinda guy, but:
I hate putting ice cubes in a drink.
Sure, they make it more icy (pun intended) and all that, but then they melt after a while and ruin the drink.

I hate this with every fiber of my being too. I rarely understood the logic or reason behind it. In the states, it’s done because soft drinks are not always refrigerated. But besides that I find it odd, especially when soda machines give you really cold soda to begin with. I suppose the ice makes sense if you plan to drink your drinks for longer, which I’m definitely not against or anything. Or if you want to water down your drinks.

Count me in as well. I never put ice in fountain drinks as it always waters down, and I will usually go for a chilled bottled soda over a fountain soda. Ice cubes are more of a whiskey thing and have no place near a soft drink.

 

[Yousef Yousef]

I meant IRL, let's say video games for example, sure there are people I know who like games as in a simple gaming on mobile all the way to the helpless gambling addicts, but nobody that I know of ever took it seriously, it's just a hobby to them, if you can call it that even.
Not to mention my unusual quirks and tastes, I admit not many people can 'click' with me that well, even my closest friend don't understand the way my brain works sometimes.

Yeah it’s definitely not my place to say anything there. My bad. I’ve had weird luck with finding people with similar interests, in which I can say that commonalities are one thing, but staying in touch is far trickier than one might think.
I have a hard time keeping in touch with my younger brother, but he did invite me to see a movie together on Kuwait’s Independence Day last month.

 

[Deleted member 884]

Columbo is one of the stupidest TV shows ever. It makes no sense that they show you the culprit few minutes after the show starts.

 

[PrismRed]

Yeah it’s definitely not my place to say anything there. My bad. I’ve had weird luck with finding people with similar interests, in which I can say that commonalities are one thing, but staying in touch is far trickier than one might think.
I have a hard time keeping in touch with my younger brother, but he did invite me to see a movie together on Kuwait’s Independence Day last month.

Funny thing for me is almost all of my closest buds have very different interests than I am, opposite attracts maybe? Same with my sister too, we're like night and day but we're extremely close.

I'm not really a hot take kinda guy, but:
I hate putting ice cubes in a drink.
Sure, they make it more icy (pun intended) and all that, but then they melt after a while and ruin the drink.

Where I'm from, there are lots of places where if you order a cold drink, they will give you 2 glasses, one is just the ice cubes, the other one is your beverage, usually chilled as well. You can pour the drink to the ice glass at your leisure, or vice versa.

 

[Ikagura]

I'm not really a hot take kinda guy, but:
I hate putting ice cubes in a drink.
Sure, they make it more icy (pun intended) and all that, but then they melt after a while and ruin the drink.

This is why some cocktails are using a cold marble or metal sphere or cube or they cut the ice into a specific shape for an even melting.



Speaking of the other subject I'm legitimately tired of people screaming "Overrated" towards popular things and inversely "It's so underrated!!!!" for semi-obscure ones (even if they're not obscure/niche at all).

The current paradigm in online discourse has taken a direction I don't like. Sometimes something can be popular for a good reason and something can not reach a popularity because it's not as great as it seems to be by the fans.

For the same reason I tend to limit myself with those internet buzzwords.

 

[PrismRed]

Speaking of the other subject I'm legitimately tired of people screaming "Overrated" towards popular things and inversely "It's so underrated!!!!" for semi-obscure ones (even if they're not obscure/niche at all).

The current paradigm in online discourse has taken a direction I don't like. Sometimes something can be popular for a good reason and something can not reach a popularity because it's not as great as it seems to be by the fans.

For the same reason I tend to limit myself with those internet buzzwords.

Eh they don't know what they're talking about.
Remember, the only rating that matter is the one you make in your own head, don't let anybody take that from you.

 

[Deleted member 1816]

Speaking of the other subject I'm legitimately tired of people screaming "Overrated" towards popular things and inversely "It's so underrated!!!!" for semi-obscure ones (even if they're not obscure/niche at all).

The current paradigm in online discourse has taken a direction I don't like. Sometimes something can be popular for a good reason and something can not reach a popularity because it's not as great as it seems to be by the fans.

For the same reason I tend to limit myself with those internet buzzwords.

I don't even think they know the true meaning of these words.

 

[Yousef Yousef]

Funny thing for me is almost all of my closest buds have very different interests than I am, opposite attracts maybe? Same with my sister too, we're like night and day but we're extremely close.

Online and irl, my closest connections are always people I share little in common with. And people I avoided the hardest are ones I felt were too similar to myself.

This is why some cocktails are using a cold marble or metal sphere or cube or they cut the ice into a specific shape for an even melting.

That’s one shape of ice I wish gets served here. Alcoholic drinks don’t exist here, the “bars” here go by the Italian definition, meaning a place to chill (although ironically they’re stylized after Texan chains like chilis) . I understand those ice shapes exist to preserve quality or for presentation. Neat knowledge.

Speaking of the other subject I'm legitimately tired of people screaming "Overrated" towards popular things and inversely "It's so underrated!!!!" for semi-obscure ones (even if they're not obscure/niche at all).

It does harm conversation quality a bit I agree. Especially when it’s a game that’s rated finely, or just a way to go against the grain or seen special. As a gta fan, I sure get annoyed when someone thinks they’re reinventing the discourse wheel by announcing their dislike for a mainstream series that’s already disliked by ton of anti-mainstream folks. Not to say being mainstream elevates you above hate or criticism, but that should go without saying.

The current paradigm in online discourse has taken a direction I don't like. Sometimes something can be popular for a good reason and something can not reach a popularity because it's not as great as it seems to be by the fans.

For the same reason I tend to limit myself with those internet buzzwords.

Same here. We can have a more constructive discussion by avoiding terms that lack a consensus that everyone can agree on. It eliminates the risk of derailing the debate into something that the person who originally started the discussion was not and likely will not have interest in discussing. I tend to dislike pausing an interesting discussion about a particular topic because someone got weirdly irritated over word definitions.

 

[Yousef Yousef]

Nowadays it's apparently "cool and hip" to spit on Skyrim because of how Bethesda is nowadays.

"Anti-mainstream people" should spend more time elevating niche and obscure things instead imo.


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Funny you mention this. I plan to complete Skyrim for the first time after I’m done with AC Mirage, a game I’m playing to see how accurately it portrays us. I liked AC1 so I gave decently high hopes.

 

[Yousef Yousef]

Have I ever assumed this about you? You're allowed to like things that aren't popular I haven't said you couldn't.

On the other hand some people online like to say "this is bad because people don't know what's actually good" which is not elevating intellectually.

I remember that I liked watching the LOTR movies quite recently because for a long time I had that subconscious feeling of shame for enjoying something extremely popular and for a long time I avoided anything mainstream for the sake of it.


On the Internet there's a ton of contrarians that wants to feel smarter, it's a natural human behaviour that has become amplified by the Internet, its anonymity and echo chamber culture where people are agreeing upon each others for calling something trash without any form of debate nor talk about why something may be overrated.

I think that it's going against any kind of healthy discourse and debate to act upon them.

I am saying that as someone that mostly doesn't care about modern AAA games and spend most of their time on retro and indie games (especially the retro inspired ones) while not implying they're better than anybody else for liking obscure and semi-obscure games but would rather promote them than complaining about popular AAAs for the sake of it.


I could do the firsts AC games if I have time but I've never been really interested in them.

On the other hand even if TeS V Skyrim is less of a RPG than their predecessors it's still a nice first person action RPG/Open World Adventure game with a nice theme.

I couldn’t get into AC either. I explored the areas in it that are relavant to my interests, but nothing beyond that. I don’t find the stories interesting enough to go through all the missions.

 

[Yousef Yousef]

My other hot take for this thread; YouTube chefs suck.

 

[Ikagura]

Maybe I'm not communicating properly (I'm not a native English speaker) but I'm not trying to antagonise anyone with "unpopular preferences" whatsoever.

But it's just that I'm getting a bit tired when people todays want to "recontextualise" gaming and tell things like "Ocarina of Time is actually not a good game" as much as I prefer 2D Zelda and still think that no game should be "untouchable", you can still point legitimate flaws but to say that this is plain bad is just being dishonest.

It's the same reason why some people are wanting to change art and media history by saying things such as "actually what you think was good isn't actually good". It's almost like a form of gaslighting if I understand that term correctly.

Sure, taste and context can change the perception of something but even in a void games like Ocarina of Time (sorry for using the same example) are still enjoyable despite their age. I mean I have 0 nostalgia for MGS on the PSX yet I've genuinely enjoyed playing it when I did the game on an emulator a decade ago (which meant the game was already over 15 years old).

 

[Yousef Yousef]

Maybe I'm not communicating properly (I'm not a native English speaker) but I'm not trying to antagonise anyone with "unpopular preferences" whatsoever.

But it's just that I'm getting a bit tired when people todays want to "recontextualise" gaming and tell things like "Ocarina of Time is actually not a good game" as much as I prefer 2D Zelda and still think that no game should be "untouchable", you can still point legitimate flaws but to say that this is plain bad is just being dishonest.

It's the same reason why some people are wanting to change art and media history by saying things such as "actually what you think was good isn't actually good". It's almost like a form of gaslighting if I understand that term correctly.

Sure, taste and context can change the perception of something but even in a void games like Ocarina of Time (sorry for using the same example) are still enjoyable despite their age. I mean I have 0 nostalgia for MGS on the PSX yet I've genuinely enjoyed playing it when I did the game on an emulator a decade ago (which meant the game was already over 15 years old).

I think you’re fine.

 

[Ikagura]

I think you’re fine.

Thanks. I didn't want to sound rude to someone who pointed out something about me.

I don't want any conflict on this forum, just a healthy debate between adults (well, I assume most of us here are) and I'm not antagonising anybody specifically.

 

[Yousef Yousef]

I'm not antagonising anybody specifically.

That’s where we differ, I’ll antagonize any ambassadors of kingdom hearts.
I’m being facetious obviously, but one day I do plan to go into detail about my critiques.

 

[miguk miguk]

RE Village felt like a former alcoholic returning to his bad habits. 7 had to ignore a bunch of previous stuff and make the stakes somewhat smaller, and for the most part, it worked. 7 did A LOT of the heavy lifting when it came to the gameplay of the series after all that transpired in the identity crisis the series had ever since OG RE4, which dare I say is repeating itself now that they redid nearly every classic game so it played like RE4. Might as well get a re-re-remake of RE1 at this point, lol.

Not to mention the Bakers were sooooo much better as villains than the Four Lords. Also Miranda might be up there with Simmons as the dumbest villain the series has ever had, and we're talking about Resident Evil, so think of the ground that covers.

RE1-3: Grade school through high school. The good old days.
RE4: Starts college. Seems to have an actual promising future.
RE5: Drops out of college, becomes alcoholic, starts using racial slurs regularly.
RE6: So f***ed up on the sauce they give a giraffe a beej. (Look at the logo; can not be unseen.)
RE7-8: Recovers from alcohol, but switches to meth with the occasional speedball.
RE2-4 Remakes: Mostly clean and sober now, tries going back to college.