The Threat of Collective Shout

[qw90700]

I don't understand how any of what you say is relevant to what i said. Infact i don't understand what you're trying to say at all. But some of this... Especially the part where you said mental health depends on your own beliefs angers me. With things like paranoia and depression and panick attacks... Those won't stop happening no matter what you do or believe in. You can't just wish bad things away when they keep happening or ignore your own downwards spiral and pretend everything is okay when everything is falling apart.

Hmm I guess my way of trying to sympathise with you was not so clear huh?

It's not about pretending everything is ok. You will fail in life if you believe everything is ok.

Then let's just say by your own logic I use the way how "everything falls down" for my own advantage.

You focus on what happens that is negative while most people focuses on how to use what happens to their benefit, otherwise everyone would focus on the negativity never to find whatever is positive to them. I mean the negativity people are aware is always there, this is not mental illness, but for sanity people distract themselves with positive stuff. Not to pretend "everything is ok", it's just because instead of focusing on what is negative people find a way to focus on what is positive.

So your concerns happens to everyone but it's not about people can "ignore it" and "act like everything is ok". While you focus on these which everyone does, people also focuses on whatever is positive to them. That's where having hobby; distracting yourself with social media, the movie you wanna watch, video game you wanna play and all comes in. When people are so stressed and constantly feels negative they undergo a period of they cannot feel positive because they are like "filled with too much negativity". That's when extreme negative thoughts and believes comes in and panic attacks start to happen. For these to happen you don't have to be "mentally ill", but current greedy capitalist society would make you believe you are mentally ill just to make money from ordinary stuff that happens to everyone. When you get too negative you gotta expose yourself to positivity a lot until you feel good. For example some people are more sensitive to boredom so with little bad thing they go crazy (like my mother lol) while some people endures negativity for a long time. In the end because we are humans we always have to distract ourselves with positivity to keep sane even if it means it's about "oh look this bird looks so majestic", "wow I like the weather today" and "I can't wait to play X video game when I return to my home from work". When people look for grand reasons to feel good as if to feel good you need "big deal stuff" this is when they get depressive and start to have mental illnesses.

I know it may angered you when I said "mental health depends on your belief" but I tried to mean, for everyone to keep sane they make themselves believe in a positive bubble of reality they live in to feel good about their lives so they find their own way to fill their reality with whatever is positive to them. So my previous post was about this topic on what people does to keep sane by mentioning how I keep myself sane. In the end everyone has to find their own way to keep sane.

I also think so because what I had to do to deal with my pyromania. Pyromania is a condition that people feel like they should burn stuff. A primitive way to fix it is loading you with drugs and talking to you regarding what is irrelevant about it. So I found my own way to deal with it by realizing "it was all in my head" and make myself believe in something else. After all human brain works in a way whatever it believes in and what it rejects. Not to mention we are biological beings greatly effected by how our body function as in genes and current chemical reaction patterns to affects what we think and believe. In the end I can say everyone is mentally ill in their own contex, they just have to find their way to make themselves function properly.

 

[nobitakun]

And In Germany we don't send kids to Schools because we want to its because we are forced by Law and that at Gunpoint if you don't comply,so we don't really have a choice and there are enough Parents that would love to homeschool there kids.
I also would not expose my Kids to degenerate stuff as I don't want to rot there brain with such nonsense,so I would not even give them Internet till there late teens as the Internet is no place for a Kid.
And I would also educate my Kids as best as I could if the time comes normally the kids come to you with the Questions and not the other way around,if you build a foundation of trust with them.

I am very sorry to hear that, but your kids will be way more sorry when you have them, if you decide to take part of the adventure of raising kids. At least I know not every german person is like that, because I have some friends from there, and Austria as well, and they have modern visions of educating kids without being so restrictive. As a parent you have the right to choose the way you want to do it, but I really really really advice you take into consideration other point of views from other parents when you're doing it.

Don't create a jail around your children because, as you say, they are children, and whatever measure to block them for doing anything without talking to them in a proper way will be taken as an aggression and something they have to avoid, and they will do whatever they can to ignore you.

Please please PLEASE don't start with the myth about autism being a gift that makes you smarter. Autism has not given me anything but suffering and mockery from people. So don't say that.... Just don't i know it's not true. People giving me false hope like that is the reason i am like this in the first place.

Post automatically merged: Yesterday at 11:20 AM

I don't understand how any of what you say is relevant to what i said. Infact i don't understand what you're trying to say at all. But some of this... Especially the part where you said mental health depends on your own beliefs angers me. With things like paranoia and depression and panick attacks... Those won't stop happening no matter what you do or believe in. You can't just wish bad things away when they keep happening or ignore your own downwards spiral and pretend everything is okay when everything is falling apart.

Oh my gosh, every answer from you is about suffering, hating, anger and other "positive" feelings. Listen, if you don't like our answers you're free to not participate in the whole internet, stay in a corner in your room for the rest of your life and wait for the inevitable rot, like everyone else will eventually get.

Otherwise, if you really want to have friends or people to talk about stuff you like and share interests and have fun, stop being such a negative person and talk properly. This forum is not a forum to fix your mental issues. We all have mental issues and we don't come here to show how unfortunate we are and get depressed because people is mocking us or the world is a crappy place. We are here to enjoy our time and why not, maybe make some friends in the process. For some it will be harder, for others it will be easier, but every single person in this place has the right to be happy.

And remember, everyone have their own shit, and if we can't keep from vomiting it to others, there are forums specific for that, but RetroGameTalk is not one of them.

And don't tell me I say the same trash as other people have told you to cheer you up but it does not work, because in such case it's you the one who does not want it in order to continue being so negative.

 

[Questless Knight]

we can discuss this to the end of time but let me add one thing. Anytime someone drags children into an argument its always a farce. It´s always "but think of the children" but 99% of the time they don´t give a fuck. I hate this use this argument but take US for example your more worried about your kid playing a porn game than being shot at school ? Nah man that bullshit and you all know it.

Quit using children as an argument to get your way if you rely taught about your kids you would have porn banned from ALL of internet.

 

[elwynd16x]

You are the kind of people i utterly hate. You don't understand what else these people have already banned and if the dox yourself to use internet law from uk spreads to other places it means I'm no longer safe online. People attack me irl for my autism, learning disabilities, looks, and pretty much everything else. If i need to show my face everywhere on the internet that will be the same thing here too. There's no longer a single place in the world I'm safe in.

Post automatically merged: Yesterday at 8:14 AM

I've isolated myself out of fear of being harassed and lost a good portion of my youth. I've been silenced in so-called "safe-spaces" because I refused to sign my own sense of moderation away and accept the degenerate behaviour that festers in those communities. I've lost IRL friends to the fringes of social politics, I've missed out on the dreams we could have pursued together because they chose to sequester themselves in online safe-spaces, conforming just to fit in with their respective cliques.

It's all bullshit. The harassment and suicide-baiting trolls AND the echo chambers of bleeding-heart victims. If a bunch of petty TERFs can bring it all crashing down at once, it wasn't all that sturdy to begin with.

 

[qw90700]

I've isolated myself out of fear of being harassed and lost a good portion of my youth. I've been silenced in so-called "safe-spaces" because I refused to sign my own sense of moderation away and accept the degenerate behaviour that festers in those communities. I've lost IRL friends to the fringes of social politics, I've missed out on the dreams we could have pursued together because they chose to sequester themselves in online safe-spaces, conforming just to fit in with their respective cliques.

It's all bullshit. The harassment and suicide-baiting trolls AND the echo chambers of bleeding-heart victims. If a bunch of petty TERFs can bring it all crashing down at once, it wasn't all that sturdy to begin with.

*naruto flute moment* lol

I isolated myself and spent my youth preparing for my adult life by ignoring my peers because no offense to them but these young people around me were usually brainless rubbish so spending time with them wouldn't worth it due to stupid dramas as this is not what matters for your adult life. Sure I had friends and all but people are like a flower, you enjoy them and they are just gone. Life is not like Persona games that you develop your relationship that cannot be detoriated. From max level in friendship for trivial BS people hate each other and become enemies because this is how humans are lol. Looking back, I cherish the moment I had with me friends, yet from the POV of a life time their existence didn't matter at all, I wish I had spent that time to learn Chinese or something lol. So when life didn't distract me I spent lots of my times in public library, and when my country met with internet I spent my time on internet to improve myself for my dreams!!! One day I'll be hokage, dattebayo!!!! lolol

 

[Cantarella]

you guys have got to learn to say more with less words. this is a trainwreck.

 

[elwynd16x]

Eh, good point.