Mental health thread

[ObscureJigglypuff]

Goddamnit i'm starting to hate myself again (not bc of the conversation I was having in this thread)

Stop hating yourself, send you hugs.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Nvm thinking about stuff I like made me feel better

 

[JustLooking123]

Nvm thinking about stuff I like made me feel better

Yes! this is a good method.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Although I think i'm unable to work on solving my issues bc i'm just so fucking lazy

 

[Tonberry]

Although I think i'm unable to work on solving my issues bc i'm just so fucking lazy

Take one thing at a time. Being overwhelmed by options and alternatives might make you feel like you're lazy, when you're more paralyzed with what to do.

Help out around the house from time to time, clean your room often. Little things like that will make you feel more active and assertive.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Help out around the house from time to time, clean your room often

I always do that

 

[Tonberry]

I always do that

That's great, then you're probably not nearly as lazy as I was when I was younger. Don't beat yourself up over laziness, it's a really easy thing to be called by others (and to call others), but we all have stuff going on all the time. Remembering to be helpful when you need to be is always a good thing.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Whats the best way to bottle up my feelings online as well? I think i'm bothering people too much and I want to shut the fuck up without having to tie my hands up

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

I think I'm starting to lose sight of reality (I mean, remember when I said that being drunk would make me able to tell people how I feel?)

 

[GardeniaSky's icon GardeniaSky GardeniaSky]

Remember sunscreen if you're outside! Even if it's overcast, you can still get toasted!

 

[Yousef]

Whats the best way to bottle up my feelings online as well? I think i'm bothering people too much and I want to shut the fuck up without having to tie my hands up

I don’t think you’re being a bother here. People here seem to consistently respond to you with kind words and support, plus you’re generally well-liked here and people wish for the betterment of your wellbeing, and I don’t think bottling up would do you good. Most people here would be happy to help and listen as well, I’m sure of it. : )

 

[fake-kun]

I think I'm starting to lose sight of reality (I mean, remember when I said that being drunk would make me able to tell people how I feel?)

How's that "losing sight of reality"?

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

How's that "losing sight of reality"?

Like, thinking stuff that happens in fiction will happen irl too

 

[Antilocal123]

This entire thread is conceived out of respect for others well-being, you shouldn't be ashamed to spill stuff out Werty.

As for daydreaming? That’s normal, everyone does it to an extent.

It doesn't make you lose sight of reality, it just makes you normal.

 

[fake-kun]

Like, thinking stuff that happens in fiction will happen irl too

That's perfectly normal. We can't know everything.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

I dont feel that bad today, probably bc I could sleep correctly

 

[Antilocal123]

Sweet, make sure to get at-least 7-8 hours! I know it may seem difficult but sleep plays a lot in mental health.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Sweet, make sure to get at-least 7-8 hours! I know it may seem difficult but sleep plays a lot in mental health.

I actually tend to sleep like 10-12 hours when not going to school.
Also you are acting strangely nicer than usual

 

[Antilocal123]

I actually tend to sleep like 10-12 hours when not going to school.
Also you are acting strangely nicer than usual

Aren't I always nice?

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

I think I'm having some sort of... Not too great thoughts; bc I want bad people and stupids to die

 

[Antilocal123]

As does everyone else, intrusive thoughts are pretty normal.

I’ve thought about some fuck shit before and while it’s uncomfortable you learn to cope with it, I don't view them as annoying anymore.

As long as you acknowledge that it’s not you and accept it, it’s fine.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

As does everyone else, intrusive thoughts are pretty normal.

I’ve thought about some fuck shit before and while it’s uncomfortable you learn to cope with it, I don't view them as annoying anymore.

As long as you acknowledge that it’s not you and accept it, it’s fine.

It's just that I wanna make everyone happy

 

[Antilocal123]

It's just that I wanna make everyone happy

Yeah you’re not doing that ever, you can't make everyone happy, focus on making the people you care about happy.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Alo I wish I wasnt that introvert

 

[RanmyakuIchi's icon RanmyakuIchi RanmyakuIchi]

Yeah, I'd argue from past personal experience that trying to make EVERYONE happy is a good way to turn yourself into a doormat with no boundaries. Focus on the people you care about, and behave with a certain level of kindness, but also stand by yourself and be firm when needed.