Mental health thread

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

No one is like anyone else, that's a stremgth, not a weakness.

I still hate myself a lot

 

[ObscureJigglypuff]

I still hate myself a lot

Hating yourself not gonna give you anything in life.
You are valuable but you have to heal first to see it.

 

[RageBurner]

You will find yourself over time, and with self discovery comes self understanding and self forgiveness. Even if you feel those immediately around you can't accept you, even if you yourself can't accept you, the people here can, have and will.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Hating yourself not gonna give you anything in life.
You are valuable but you have to heal first to see it.

I guess but still

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Also some people online say i'm just seeking attention

 

[Yousef]

Like me and others have highlighted, life is a journey of introspection, not suffering. You strut through it not to self loath and wallow in misery, but make the best of it. You can’t control what you get, but you can control how you respond to it as that remains within your own grasp. Fixating on the unchaingable is very easy, but it creates a sense of helplessness and sets up a feeling of being defeated and trapped.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Like me and others have highlighted, life is a journey of introspection, not suffering. You strut through it not to self loath and wallow in misery, but make the best of it. You can’t control what you get, but you can control how you respond to it as that remains within your own grasp. Fixating on the unchaingable is very easy, but it creates a sense of helplessness and sets up a feeling of being defeated and trapped.

I'm already like the later

 

[NobodyHere]

I guess but still

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Also some people online say i'm just seeking attention

It’s strange that people will point that out to someone that’s asking for help because yes we are social creatures that seek support from others, it’s just so cold to notice it then degrade people for it. Every one needs companionship, comfort and reassurance, there nothing wrong with trying to find those who will give it to you.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Im stupid

 

[ObscureJigglypuff]

Im stupid

Nope.

 

[Waffles's iconWaffles]

Im stupid

Definitely not.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Nope.

Definitely not.

But I always make mistakes, forget stuff, i'm oblivious to everything and quite incompetent

 

[Waffles's iconWaffles]

But I always make mistakes, forget stuff, i'm oblivious to everything and quite incompetent

Like literally everyone else on the planet!

 

[ObscureJigglypuff]

But I always make mistakes, forget stuff, i'm oblivious to everything and quite incompetent

As an average human.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Like literally everyone else on the planet!

As an average human.

Then why do I feel everyone hates/makes fun of me?

 

[ATenderLad]

But I always make mistakes, forget stuff, i'm oblivious to everything and quite incompetent

Basically my performance reviews in my early twenties.

 

[ObscureJigglypuff]

Then why do I feel everyone hates/makes fun of me?

I don't think they actually hate you or make fun of you.
Even in that situation you shouldn't give a fuck...
Or in you most direct language "no le pare bolas, mijo"...

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

I don't think they actually hate you or make fun of you.
Even in that situation you shouldn't give a fuck...
Or in you most direct language "no le pare bolas, mijo"...

But its hard for me to ignore other people

 

[Lee__Kanker]

Having no longer anywhere in common with most 20-25 year olds is kinda sad, its a reminder the world you grew up in no longer exists; ah well, part of getting old I guess

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

I think I could get a lobotomy or get amnesia to become smart or atleast change as a person

 

[Lee__Kanker]

I think I could get a lobotomy or get amnesia to become smart or atleast change as a person

What the fuck?

 

[ATenderLad]

I think I could get a lobotomy or get amnesia to become smart or atleast change as a person

That's depression talking, friend.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

That's depression talking, friend.

I know

 

[Lee__Kanker]

I think I could get a lobotomy or get amnesia to become smart or atleast change as a person

Looking at what youve posted here..
Why dont you do something relaxing? Drink some tea and read a book

Going online mindlessly can make you feel worse

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Drink some tea and read a book

I like tea but I don't have any right now and I don't have any good books

 

[Lee__Kanker]

I like tea but I don't have any right now and I don't have any good books

I cant link anything but its easy to find free stuff online! Theres reddit threads for that