Did you ever had a crush on someone at school?

[Deleted member 132407]

who is this, my ex girlfriend?

Is this what you were expecting with the coffee music going in the background

 

[RageBurner]

They are different, but not incomprehensible. It is a relationship of complementarity.

It takes dedication and sincerity from both parties. That's what's hard to come by.

 

[Deleted member 222172]

Is this what you were expecting with the coffee music going in the background

No I was genuinely asking who was making that soundbyte. It sounded like my ex LOL

 

[Deleted member 132407]

No I was genuinely asking who was making that soundbyte. It sounded like my ex LOL

I just copied & pasted the soundbite url @ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uwu

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No I was genuinely asking who was making that soundbyte. It sounded like my ex LOL

I apologize, didn't mean to make you sad or cry.

 

[RageBurner]

However if it matters you will risk it, something like cost - profit analysis and then belief of "loss is trivial, there is high potential for a gain" thing.

IMO understanding women is something I can never do so I relate to you in my own context. I'm biased because of my personal experiences and my knowledge that a woman has around more than 1000 genes than me. As a male being who lacks around 1000 genes I cannot comprehend a female being. They are a very different beings.

For example, when my male homies ever call me at 3 AM it would be about something they really screwed over so they call me as if I'm their crisis manager lol or something really good happened. If a woman ever calls me, who is not my family member, at 3 AM, it's sometimes a woman whom I never talked since primary school and she calls me after decades and directly asks me about my job and all. When I'm like "dude the hell" and end the call on her face, at 4 AM my female homie call me and lecture me on how fool I'm and then I'm like "dude let me me sleep lol", and then in 8 AM another woman I didn't talk since high school call me and say what I did to the girl who called me at 3 AM is rude so I have to apologize. Dude how you even know each other and why my sleep is ignored by this organisation attack? (true story lololol). I'm serious this actually happened. When women have kids and break up, when they need a quick husband they call me. When they could never find a husband and their "I'm too late to be a mother" alarm is triggered they call me. The girls who never cared about my existence, never a friend, calls me after decades lol. Same BS happened many times in similar confusion.

So my experience: When a woman is not your family member, they only care about your existence only when they want to play with you like a fiddle just to use you like a puppet master or you refuse their rule to be their puppet so whole womenhood™ as a secret organization attacks you as if they are The Illuminati, organized to run the world from shadows just to manipulate men. The hell lol.

That's not true at all. Being manipulative is a human trait, it is not at all gendered. The world is chiefly ran by manipulative men. I say this as a man, and with full awareness.

 

[NobodyHere]

I’ve never been fully in a romantic relationship, I’ve come close but never fully got there. I’ve never kissed someone, never had sex, but I believe I’ve been and still am in love.

I believe (don’t have enough confidence in myself to ever be completely sure- but I’m going off topic) I’ve been in love twice, (and had two crushes). Both times I got rejected, but we stayed friends.

Part of me thinks it could be because they give me the attention and acceptance I so crave - but I don’t think that’s it. Too many fuzzy feelings.

But maybe I’m too inexperienced to really know or say

 

[Deleted member 77791]

That's not true at all. Being manipulative is a human trait, it is not at all gendered. The world is chiefly ran by manipulative men. I say this as a man, and with full awareness.

I see difference between being manipulative and puppet master. If you can't see puppet master ability of women then you underestimate them. No man can be a puppet master. What women does is beyond manipulation IMO. It makes you question they have no sincerity, there is no sense of trust or familiarity, ability to relate, have empathy or actually care about what you think or even exist.

When you are bros with a male homie you are bro for life, when you are bros with a female homie she judge you with a made up subjective credibility system that test you. You gotta complete certain hidden side quests and pick perfect combinations of dialogue options to stay as a bro, otherwise they turn into an enemy.

Men ignore each other so easily, when they can't they attempt to kill you. However, easy to make a woman enemy of you and when that happens they ruin your life.

You cannot ignore the clear difference between male and female, dude. The way they are a human is very different than how a man being a human. In context of X we are in common ground, but the difference is in our Y and genetical differences. These naturally changes how they think and decide.

 

[RageBurner]

I’ve never been fully in a romantic relationship, I’ve come close but never fully got there. I’ve never kissed someone, never had sex, but I believe I’ve been and still am in love.

I believe (don’t have enough confidence in myself to ever be completely sure- but I’m going off topic) I’ve been in love twice, (and had two crushes). Both times I got rejected, but we stayed friends.

Part of me thinks it could be because they give me the attention and acceptance I so crave - but I don’t think that’s it. Too many fuzzy feelings.

But maybe I’m too inexperienced to really know or say

Emotional starvation can easily blur lines.

 

[RageBurner]

I see difference between being manipulative and puppet master. If you can't see puppet master ability of women then you underestimate them. No man can be a puppet master. What women does is beyond manipulation IMO. It makes you question they have no sincerity, there is no sense of trust or familiarity, ability to relate, have empathy or actually care about what you think or even exist.

When you are bros with a male homie you are bro for life, when you are bros with a female homie she judge you with a made up subjective credibility system that test you. You gotta complete certain hidden side quests and pick perfect combinations of dialogue options to stay as a bro, otherwise they turn into an enemy.

Men ignore each other so easily, when they can't they attempt to kill you. However, easy to make a woman enemy of you and when that happens they ruin your life.

You cannot ignore the clear difference between male and female, dude. The way they are a human is very different than how a man being a human. In context of X we are in common ground, but the difference is in our Y and genetical differences. These naturally changes how they think and decide.

I'm not ignoring the differences that exist, but they are not the ones you point out. Having bad experiences doesn't disqualify a whole gender.

We are not going to agree, so I'm going to back off from the discussion as a token of respect to you and the others, since I want the thread to stay open for everyone. Just don't use your line of thinking to harass people here.

 

[NobodyHere]

Emotional starvation can easily blur lines.

Totally agree that could be a possibility. But I’ve got hope. I don’t mind if it’s really romantic love or not though , as long as I get to continue to be by their side.

I'm not ignoring the differences that exist, but they are not the ones you point out. Having bad experiences doesn't disqualify a whole gender.

We are not going to agree, so I'm going to back off from the discussion as a token of respect to you and the others, since I want the thread to stay open for everyone. Just don't use your line of thinking to harass people here.

Thank you for pointing this out, this is genuinely freaking me out a bit.

 

[RageBurner]

Totally agree that could be a possibility. But I’ve got hope. I don’t mind if it’s really romantic love or not though , as long as I get to continue to be by their side.

That's very noble. I suspect we aren't very different in this regard.

 

[Deleted member 132407]

 

[Deleted member 77791]

I'm not ignoring the differences that exist, but they are not the ones you point out. Having bad experiences doesn't disqualify a whole gender.

We are not going to agree, so I'm going to back off from the discussion as a token of respect to you and the others, since I want the thread to stay open for everyone. Just don't use your line of thinking to harass people here.

I understand. I admit I'm biased due to my many decades of experience and whatever I know and therefore I think right now, therefore it feels more like "being further from making sense and actually correctly understanding the situation" thing for me anymore which is why I admit I don't understand women. But I really didn't mean to say it as black and white way, rather it wasn't my intent. I apologize.

 

[RageBurner]

I understand. I admit I'm biased due to my many decades of experience and whatever I know and therefore I think right now, therefore it feels more like "being further from making sense and actually correctly understanding the situation" thing for me anymore which is why I admit I don't understand women. But I really didn't mean to say it as black and white way, rather it wasn't my intent. I apologize.

That's fine. We're all different. I'm just trying to keep things balanced for everyone.

 

[Deleted member 132407]

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I find it hard to fall in love at my current stage of life. The only love I have is for my passion for technology.

Use that same passion to find someone who loves everything about it. You'll find that special someone.

 

[Cuestionador]

Yes, but i never have any dates, so i decide to close that door a long time ago.

 

[kingofdragons]

many many times, back when I was younger. I guess over the years I just learned the lesson a little evil cartoon girl once said

 

[Taukyrie Taukyrie]

I've been in love a couple of times, but it was only about 4 years ago that I found the right man who shared my feelings. We're still dating to this day and I'm excited for him to visit me in two months.

 

[Bomberman]

I feel love but people don’t reciprocate

 

[Yousef Yousef]

Yes.

 

[ThatOneLum]

Yes I have and we've been married since 2017.

Was in love once or twice before that, but not in the same way. My current partner is way different to my previous relationships.

While we still have arguments occasionally, I always try to reconcile it cus unlike everyone else I've dated, the thought of being without them makes me genuinely sad, even when I'm pissed off with something they've said or done.

Thats how I can tell it's love.

 

[KamakoKamako's icon]

Twice thus far

 

[LiberoVulpesLiberoVulpes's icon]

Yes... Everyday, I wish I hadn't.

Its pretty much a Heathcliff and Catherine situation, its better for everyone involved if we never end up together due to our shared destructive tendencies. We both know this.

Errr... Got a bit too real.

 

[Yousef Yousef]

Twice thus far

Iconic song

 

[Deleted member 132407]

I thought I knew what love was but ended up going through hell and back