Don't worry about this generation talk. Every generation gets mocked by the one before it, but millenials seem to go turbo hard on zoomers for some insane reason, my theory is that they're tired of being made fun of so much so they're doing the easy thing and blame youngsters for their troubles.
It should be used solely as a metric for different age groups, to see how it interacted with the world, not this shit-flinging contest it's become.
What matters is the person, not when they were born.
Edit: For what it's worth, I was born in '95 and I've always felt like I'm in this weird fringe-area between generations, and I've read similar things by people born the same year. I relate to both generations but feel at home in neither, so to speak (I feel more comfortable under the millenial umbrella though, not exactly sure why, probably because I still remember when social media "arrived" and it wasn't always the default). I've always had friends that were older than me, but I'm the oldest of my siblings, and my youngest brother is 9 years younger than me, so I got to be "a kid" for a long time.