The Paradox of Abundance: Why Less Is More in Gaming

Imagine the thrill of gazing upon a vast, shimmering library... hundreds... no, thousands of games at your fingertips, each promising adventure, nostalgia, or challenge. When I first put together my Emulation setup, I was captivated by this idea a universe of endless possibilities. I envisioned myself exploring every title, relishing the variety. But reality proved more complex and surprisingly revealing. Instead of liberation I felt overwhelmed. It wasn't a scarcity of games that weighed on me but their sheer abundance. The more titles I amassed, the harder it became to focus on any one of them. Suddenly, my sprawling collection felt less like a treasure and more like a digital burden... a paradox: an enormous library that stifled rather than sparked joy.
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Imagine trying to find a game like this. x_X

Every day, I found myself lost in a maze of icons, system menus, endless scrolling... searching, selecting, and second guessing what to play. Minutes turned into hours spent browsing, guilt mounting with each unplayed game. The pressure to try “just one more” title drained the fun from gaming, replacing it with decision fatigue. The vastness that was supposed to bring happiness instead created paralysis, turning my leisure time into a frustrating quest for completion.
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Must be all those flying Alamy's buzzing around, giving her a headache

Then, a realization dawned... the secret to meaningful gaming isn’t about owning everything but about choosing intentionally. I started to curate my library eliminating irrelevant titles, games I knew I wouldn’t enjoy or ever play. I focused on a handful of classics, those that shaped my childhood, sparked my curiosity, or challenged me in. This shift transformed my experience. Returning to just a few favorites like Castlevania: Symphony of the Night, Final Fantasy VII, Chrono Trigger, Mario Bros. They became an act of rediscovery, not obligation. I began to appreciate their storytelling, and enjoyment in ways I’d overlooked amid the clutter.
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I got nothing... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

With fewer games, and my mental clutter dissolved. No more endless scrolling or guilt for unfinished titles. Instead, I concentrated on what mattered... the games I loved and wanted to revisit. This approach fostered nostalgia, and purpose like leafing through an old photo album or handwritten letters, each one meaningful because of the emotions and memories invested in it.
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It's probably all nudes from spring break or something

The power of this focus is profound. It’s not just nostalgia... it’s a deep appreciation for the artistry and personal stories embedded in each game. Playing Chrono Trigger, for example isn’t just about clicking through a list of RPG menus and commands. It’s reliving childhood wonder, the soundtrack echoing in my mind, the intricate plot unfolding anew. Each title becomes a cherished chapter in my personal story rather than a checkmark on a vast backlog list.

At the core of this lies a simple truth, our relationship with video games are deeply personal. It’s about meaningful engagement, not ownership. A curated collection... whether on a small handheld or a dedicated PC is a personal library of memories. Each game is a chapter, a moment of discovery. When I play Castlevania: Symphony of the Night on my portable device, I’m transported back to lazy afternoons, humming its melodies while doing homework, uncovering secrets with eager anticipation. These few titles hold a universe of emotion that no sprawling collection can match.
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Doesn't she owe me money?

What’s funny is how a humble device... a modest handheld capable of just emulating PS1 and even some lite Dreamcast titles can deliver richer satisfaction than my massive PC library. Because it forces deliberate choices. pick, prioritize, savor. Its simplicity strips away distraction, inviting me to engage deeply and meaningfully with each game. It’s a reminder that sometimes less truly is more.

This shows a broader truth about how we engage with both games and life. Abundance though tempting often leads to frustration, distraction, and disconnection. The illusion that more equals happiness can be misleading. Instead, minimalism focusing on fewer, more meaningful experiences brings clarity and purpose, and genuine fulfillment. My small device with a carefully selected library exemplifies this, simplicity is a source of power.
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Not mine but the same Trimui i have

This isn’t merely about convenience. It’s about intentionality. Making deliberate choices enhances our experience, transforming gaming from a mindless activity into a mindful act an almost meditative pursuit of quality over quantity. When I restrict my options, I’m more focused and immersed. I play each game thoroughly appreciating stories, noticing details I might overlook being sidetracked by a sprawling collection. The result is a deeper emotional connection and a stronger desire to revisit titles that I truly enjoy.

The few games I cherish have become anchors... reminders of my childhood. They’re not just games, they’re chapters in my life story. The depth of experience, rather than breadth is a more meaningful bond with gaming.
Beyond the technical, this philosophy speaks to a fundamental human truth... our emotional ties to games are deeply personal. It’s about the stories, mechanics, moments of triumph or frustration that linger long after the screen goes dark. Owning a massive library might impress others, but it can feel impersonal, like a cluttered attic of forgotten relics. where as a small collection becomes a personal archive each game a treasured memory, each play session a meaningful ritual.

For example, on my small handheld, playing Final Fantasy VII isn’t just nostalgia. It’s a portal to childhood afternoons, to melodies hummed during a bath, to secrets uncovered with eager anticipation. These titles hold alot of emotion and meaning that no amount of digital clutter can replicate.
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Not FFVII.. eh close enough

There’s also a larger lesson here... in a world obsessed with quantity... more options, more content less often leads to more satisfaction. Minimalism in gaming mirrors life’s broader pursuit of clarity and purpose. When we strip away the excess, what remains is genuine engagement and fulfillment. That small device with its limited yet enjoyable library, reminds me that sometimes simple is the best answer..

More isn’t always better... In my journey, I’ve learned that the joy of gaming isn’t in owning everything but in a select few. It’s about quality, nostalgia, and personal resonance. Choosing intentionally transforms gaming into a meaningful act a reflection of ourselves, not just a way to check off a list. Less in this case truly is more... more memorable, more nostalgic, more fun.

Ultimately, I’ve discovered that the greatest joy in emulation isn’t in the size of my collection but in the mindful engagement with the titles that truly matter. Whether on a powerful PC or a humble handheld, the goal remains the same, genuine enjoyment free from distraction or superficiality. Sometimes narrowing our choices unlocks an experience richer and more fun than we could imagine. In that, I find a deep sense of joy, connection, and purpose more authentic than any sprawling digital library ever could offer.
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Yes, because I was linking so many handhelds and complaining about the amount of backup storage I have.

Or I dunno, could it possibly be someone who hmm, maybe thinks owning every game is pointless when you won't play everything?

Think what you like. I really don't care.

Maybe two pics of your handheld and how "powerful" it made you feel was a bit overkill. The paradox of minimalism seems to be that people should buy more ejunk, I guess. XD

I dont care that you dont care, we're on a forum with a rich variety of opinions. XD

But yeah, it's a slow week on RGT. Our writer's guild doing some lifestyle advice with handhelds, and our moderation censoring links to emulators... Is the Repo also going the minimalist way, I wonder...
 
Relatable article. Thanks for sharing.

I feel like I've been caught in the paradox of choice ever since I gained access to high speed internet and disposable income. One year I'll go through a phase during which I'll delete everything on my consoles/PC that I'm not actively playing and unhook/store all consoles I haven't booted up in months; out of sight, out of mind, as they say...The next year I'll have everything downloaded and set up 24/7/365 **just in case** I want to play Shining Force III one day and Dragon's Dogma II the next. (Also, because collecting and setting stuff up is fun lol.)

Lately I've felt almost physically sick watching all the trailers and announcements for the new games, consoles, and content on the cusp of entering the market when there's already so much out there I want to experience. I'm thinking it's that time again to bookmark and subscribe to the few games I'm truly anticipating, shut out the rest, and just play old games again.
 
Having these games so easily available to us is a great thing for sure but I have found myself personally from time to time frantically collecting roms that I want to play because they weren't available to me in the past or because some awesome new mod has been released for them that I want to experience or simply just combing for hidden gems that I missed or have only recently been translated to english. Wow that was a long sentence. This inevitably leads to a massive collection of roms that I can never hope to find the time to play. My gaming habits are often comparable to a child with ADHD, jumping from one game to the next and never finishing any one game because I want to experience all that gaming has to offer. Ultimately I find that prioritizing is a must and that when I find a title that is an absolute banger then I am more able see it theough to the end without jumping to another title partways through. What you guys said about shifting a few must play titles to a folder to avoid being overwhelmed by the massive library is definitely good advice but there are also times when I enjoy scrolling through my library to pick out something I have not played in a while and spend a few hours on it when Im feeling burned out on my normal A listers and such. I think one can find a good balance of enjoying familiar titles and discovering new ones with right mindset that they dont have to all be played at once, as I said its about prioritization and balance and the mindset that the journey is more important than the destination.
 
Maybe two pics of your handheld and how "powerful" it made you feel was a bit overkill. The paradox of minimalism seems to be that people should buy more ejunk, I guess. XD

I dont care that you dont care, we're on a forum with a rich variety of opinions. XD

But yeah, it's a slow week on RGT. Our writer's guild doing some lifestyle advice with handhelds, and our moderation censoring links to emulators... Is the Repo also going the minimalist way, I wonder...
No harm to chip in on the mental health aspect for youngsters when it comes to gaming (Shit may well be designed to fuck their heads up these days, strange times). It is a bad sign if links to emulators are being censored. That censorship will just squeeze and squeeze more until options are gone.
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This should merge. Speaking of censorship, I'm noticing that posts of mine in this forum are simply disappearing. I posted a post in the first game you remember playing on pc and it was harmless but it's gone, for whatever reason.
 
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Finally a good article on RGT!

I feel exactly the same way and went through a similar crisis a couple years ago. I still have to remind myself from time to time, but I made a backlog of the games I want to play before I die, and that made it necessary to cut out the chaff. I had the same refreshing and personal feeling that came with it. Glad I'm not the only one.
 
Ain't that the truth, eh? Every gamer (probably) wants the game room in the first picture until they get it.

One thing I thought was exclusive to me was the guilt and shame in abandoning a game you're not exactly having fun with and picking up another game and starting a new game there. That feeling of knowing you have another 15-20 hours to slog through but gamer's honor doesn't permit you to quit that game, delete the save data and start anew elsewhere hahaha Glad I'm not the only one lol
 
Relatable article. Thanks for sharing.
You are welcome. and Thank you for reading
I feel like I've been caught in the paradox of choice ever since I gained access to high speed internet and disposable income. One year I'll go through a phase during which I'll delete everything on my consoles/PC that I'm not actively playing and unhook/store all consoles I haven't booted up in months; out of sight, out of mind, as they say...The next year I'll have everything downloaded and set up 24/7/365 **just in case** I want to play Shining Force III one day and Dragon's Dogma II the next. (Also, because collecting and setting stuff up is fun lol.)
Relatable cycle... always trying to find that perfect balance between decluttering and having everything ready for whenever the mood strikes.

Honestly, I think most of us go through something similar with our hobbies. It’s kind of the chaos and comfort of having options at your fingertips, isn’t it?
Lately I've felt almost physically sick watching all the trailers and announcements for the new games, consoles, and content on the cusp of entering the market when there's already so much out there I want to experience. I'm thinking it's that time again to bookmark and subscribe to the few games I'm truly anticipating, shut out the rest, and just play old games again.
Solid plan.
Sometimes sticking with what truly excites us and revisiting old favorites is the best way to avoid feeling overwhelmed. Plus, there's always something special about rediscovering games that made an impact on us.
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Having these games so easily available to us is a great thing for sure but I have found myself personally from time to time frantically collecting roms that I want to play because they weren't available to me in the past or because some awesome new mod has been released for them that I want to experience or simply just combing for hidden gems that I missed or have only recently been translated to english. Wow that was a long sentence. This inevitably leads to a massive collection of roms that I can never hope to find the time to play. My gaming habits are often comparable to a child with ADHD, jumping from one game to the next and never finishing any one game because I want to experience all that gaming has to offer. Ultimately I find that prioritizing is a must and that when I find a title that is an absolute banger then I am more able see it theough to the end without jumping to another title partways through. What you guys said about shifting a few must play titles to a folder to avoid being overwhelmed by the massive library is definitely good advice but there are also times when I enjoy scrolling through my library to pick out something I have not played in a while and spend a few hours on it when Im feeling burned out on my normal A listers and such. I think one can find a good balance of enjoying familiar titles and discovering new ones with right mindset that they dont have to all be played at once, as I said its about prioritization and balance and the mindset that the journey is more important than the destination.
A really relatable take.

It’s easy to get caught up in the thrill of collecting and exploring, but finding that balance between enjoyment and overwhelm is key.

Sometimes just browsing your library and playing what feels right in the moment makes gaming even more rewarding. It’s all about having fun without stressing over finishing everything.

Thank you for reading and for your thoughts on the matter.
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Finally a good article on RGT!
I wouldn't say finally. There are a lot of better things to read than mine, but thank you for the sentiment
I feel exactly the same way and went through a similar crisis a couple years ago. I still have to remind myself from time to time, but I made a backlog of the games I want to play before I die, and that made it necessary to cut out the chaff. I had the same refreshing and personal feeling that came with it. Glad I'm not the only one.
It’s such a freeing feeling to prioritize what truly matters and let go of the rest. Glad to hear you found a way through it too.
 
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This is probably a psychology effect, but I don't study psychology so I'll be quite. At any rate, it makes sense. Decision fatigue is real, and it can happen even with small choices (albeit repeated). It's part of the reason I don't like open worlds

Perhaps our limited choices of games when we were kids was a blessing...
This is such a good point that doesn't get talked about enough, imo. I remember when open world games and sandbox games were everything and I'm not hating on the concept but there are times I just want to play a game that doesn't give me 20 branching paths and 30 hours of sidequests. The more time that passes, the more I appreciate linear designs and games that aren't trying to transcend the medium lol
Sometimes, I just like to be able to follow light sources on the screen to my next objective without having to 'explore' crappy corridors with crappy items at their ends.
 
Ain't that the truth, eh? Every gamer (probably) wants the game room in the first picture until they get it.
Absolutely. Though I don't know anyone who has a room like that in real life, mind you.

I know people do, but none I have ever met.
I would see it more as a monkey's paw... you get everything, but now what? You don't want to play with them because you want to keep them pristine, and thus you're back to where you were before having them.

One thing I thought was exclusive to me was the guilt and shame in abandoning a game you're not exactly having fun with and picking up another game and starting a new game there. That feeling of knowing you have another 15-20 hours to slog through but gamer's honor doesn't permit you to quit that game, delete the save data and start anew elsewhere hahaha Glad I'm not the only one lol
Nope, apparently I had the same feeling as you, and I thought I would share it here. Seems we are not alone in this way of feeling about overabundance.
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And I apologize to anyone I missed replying to.
I get a lot of message notifications, and sometimes they get lost.
It doesn’t take long to start getting a lot if you don’t now. You will.
 
relatable,now i'm having 50ish game on my backlog yet only 3hrs of freetime/day.

that's why i'm not as active as i'm in last two month or so.
 
exactly!
i remember back when i was a kid, my dad would get me 1 game per month, maybe 2 if im lucky
that made me get actually ATTACHED to the games, encouraged me to actually beat the games, do the side content etc
but when i started playing games on my laptop instead, and i downloaded a ton of games, i didnt beat them, i had like 200 gigs worth of games and i didnt beat ANY of them, i simply just spent wayyy too much time thinking "oh man i should beat this" "oh i havent played this in soo long" during that time i lost my interest in video games, simply thinking that i didnt enjoy games anymore
but after a while, i deleted all my games and kept 20 games only and played them.
sure i dont play as much as i did when most of my hard drive was games but i actually enjoy these games now and thats what matters :P
 

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