The Paradox of Abundance: Why Less Is More in Gaming

Imagine the thrill of gazing upon a vast, shimmering library... hundreds... no, thousands of games at your fingertips, each promising adventure, nostalgia, or challenge. When I first put together my Emulation setup, I was captivated by this idea a universe of endless possibilities. I envisioned myself exploring every title, relishing the variety. But reality proved more complex and surprisingly revealing. Instead of liberation I felt overwhelmed. It wasn't a scarcity of games that weighed on me but their sheer abundance. The more titles I amassed, the harder it became to focus on any one of them. Suddenly, my sprawling collection felt less like a treasure and more like a digital burden... a paradox: an enormous library that stifled rather than sparked joy.
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Imagine trying to find a game like this. x_X

Every day, I found myself lost in a maze of icons, system menus, endless scrolling... searching, selecting, and second guessing what to play. Minutes turned into hours spent browsing, guilt mounting with each unplayed game. The pressure to try “just one more” title drained the fun from gaming, replacing it with decision fatigue. The vastness that was supposed to bring happiness instead created paralysis, turning my leisure time into a frustrating quest for completion.
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Must be all those flying Alamy's buzzing around, giving her a headache

Then, a realization dawned... the secret to meaningful gaming isn’t about owning everything but about choosing intentionally. I started to curate my library eliminating irrelevant titles, games I knew I wouldn’t enjoy or ever play. I focused on a handful of classics, those that shaped my childhood, sparked my curiosity, or challenged me in. This shift transformed my experience. Returning to just a few favorites like Castlevania: Symphony of the Night, Final Fantasy VII, Chrono Trigger, Mario Bros. They became an act of rediscovery, not obligation. I began to appreciate their storytelling, and enjoyment in ways I’d overlooked amid the clutter.
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I got nothing... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

With fewer games, and my mental clutter dissolved. No more endless scrolling or guilt for unfinished titles. Instead, I concentrated on what mattered... the games I loved and wanted to revisit. This approach fostered nostalgia, and purpose like leafing through an old photo album or handwritten letters, each one meaningful because of the emotions and memories invested in it.
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It's probably all nudes from spring break or something

The power of this focus is profound. It’s not just nostalgia... it’s a deep appreciation for the artistry and personal stories embedded in each game. Playing Chrono Trigger, for example isn’t just about clicking through a list of RPG menus and commands. It’s reliving childhood wonder, the soundtrack echoing in my mind, the intricate plot unfolding anew. Each title becomes a cherished chapter in my personal story rather than a checkmark on a vast backlog list.

At the core of this lies a simple truth, our relationship with video games are deeply personal. It’s about meaningful engagement, not ownership. A curated collection... whether on a small handheld or a dedicated PC is a personal library of memories. Each game is a chapter, a moment of discovery. When I play Castlevania: Symphony of the Night on my portable device, I’m transported back to lazy afternoons, humming its melodies while doing homework, uncovering secrets with eager anticipation. These few titles hold a universe of emotion that no sprawling collection can match.
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Doesn't she owe me money?

What’s funny is how a humble device... a modest handheld capable of just emulating PS1 and even some lite Dreamcast titles can deliver richer satisfaction than my massive PC library. Because it forces deliberate choices. pick, prioritize, savor. Its simplicity strips away distraction, inviting me to engage deeply and meaningfully with each game. It’s a reminder that sometimes less truly is more.

This shows a broader truth about how we engage with both games and life. Abundance though tempting often leads to frustration, distraction, and disconnection. The illusion that more equals happiness can be misleading. Instead, minimalism focusing on fewer, more meaningful experiences brings clarity and purpose, and genuine fulfillment. My small device with a carefully selected library exemplifies this, simplicity is a source of power.
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Not mine but the same Trimui i have

This isn’t merely about convenience. It’s about intentionality. Making deliberate choices enhances our experience, transforming gaming from a mindless activity into a mindful act an almost meditative pursuit of quality over quantity. When I restrict my options, I’m more focused and immersed. I play each game thoroughly appreciating stories, noticing details I might overlook being sidetracked by a sprawling collection. The result is a deeper emotional connection and a stronger desire to revisit titles that I truly enjoy.

The few games I cherish have become anchors... reminders of my childhood. They’re not just games, they’re chapters in my life story. The depth of experience, rather than breadth is a more meaningful bond with gaming.
Beyond the technical, this philosophy speaks to a fundamental human truth... our emotional ties to games are deeply personal. It’s about the stories, mechanics, moments of triumph or frustration that linger long after the screen goes dark. Owning a massive library might impress others, but it can feel impersonal, like a cluttered attic of forgotten relics. where as a small collection becomes a personal archive each game a treasured memory, each play session a meaningful ritual.

For example, on my small handheld, playing Final Fantasy VII isn’t just nostalgia. It’s a portal to childhood afternoons, to melodies hummed during a bath, to secrets uncovered with eager anticipation. These titles hold alot of emotion and meaning that no amount of digital clutter can replicate.
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Not FFVII.. eh close enough

There’s also a larger lesson here... in a world obsessed with quantity... more options, more content less often leads to more satisfaction. Minimalism in gaming mirrors life’s broader pursuit of clarity and purpose. When we strip away the excess, what remains is genuine engagement and fulfillment. That small device with its limited yet enjoyable library, reminds me that sometimes simple is the best answer..

More isn’t always better... In my journey, I’ve learned that the joy of gaming isn’t in owning everything but in a select few. It’s about quality, nostalgia, and personal resonance. Choosing intentionally transforms gaming into a meaningful act a reflection of ourselves, not just a way to check off a list. Less in this case truly is more... more memorable, more nostalgic, more fun.

Ultimately, I’ve discovered that the greatest joy in emulation isn’t in the size of my collection but in the mindful engagement with the titles that truly matter. Whether on a powerful PC or a humble handheld, the goal remains the same, genuine enjoyment free from distraction or superficiality. Sometimes narrowing our choices unlocks an experience richer and more fun than we could imagine. In that, I find a deep sense of joy, connection, and purpose more authentic than any sprawling digital library ever could offer.
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I enjoyed reading the article and can see why too many choices would be paralyzing for many. I don't have that problem. I have a massive library of over 17000 games and thanks to it I was able to play and finish hundreds of games I would have never touched otherwise. I know I'll never finish all of them, but I don't mind. I just love the feeling of having the possibility to play almost any game in existence whenever I feel like it by just using a single click of my mouse.
Here's a list of what I managed to finish recently:
Project Diva F 2nd (PS3)
Spyro 2 (PS1)
Samurai Shodown (SNES)
WRC II Extreme (PS2)
Colin McRae Rally 2005 Plus (PSP)
Colin McRae Rally 04 (PS2)
Yuukyuu Gensoukyoku (PS1)
Soul Calibur (Dreamcast)
Super Street Fighter II (Genesis)
Mamono Hunter Youko: Makai Kara no Tenkousei (PC Engine CD)
Outrun 2019 (Genesis)
Shinseiki Evangelion: Koutetsu no Girlfriend Tokubetsu-Hen Portable (PSP)
Ripple Cafe (PC-98)
Naruto: Ultimate Ninja (PS2)
Urusei Yatsura: Stay With You (PC Engine CD)
Crisis Beat (PS1)
Hyper Duel (Saturn)
and so on...
I love my megalomaniac overinflated collection.
 
Very good advice and well said! I have resonated with this recently. I first got a high of dopamine just seeing which games I could download, but then realized I wouldn't play much of them at all. So I ended up deleting a lot of them and even some emulators to narrow down my focus. And now I'm back to simply just playing GTA IV on my ps3. I may just progress one percent each time, but I'm trying to stick with one game and learn to appreciate every part of that game. I don't know if this plan will last, but its working for now.
 
I have the exact same problem. Some days I really enjoy the vast ROM library and browsing through random hames, but more often than not, I just have a favourite section that lists the 2-3 games I'm currently playing. Usually 1 RPG, 1 short game (visual novel, adventure) and 1 racing or puzzle game that I obsess about. Makes me more focused and actually finish some of the games.

Before purchasing/downloading new stuff, I try to get hyped about the stuff I already own. Usually by watching a YouTube video about someone gushing over that game. Helps a lot.

And since you mentioned emulation: Having a nice theme on Knulli/ES-DE makes me want the games more than back when emulators were just an ugly window on my desktop PC.
 
This is probably a psychology effect, but I don't study psychology so I'll be quite. At any rate, it makes sense. Decision fatigue is real, and it can happen even with small choices (albeit repeated). It's part of the reason I don't like open worlds

Perhaps our limited choices of games when we were kids was a blessing...
 
^^^ Thats the problem of todays Open Worlds games, its simulate IRL like boring Working fatique wtf.
I just want improve gaming reaction skill and fantasy fun with Reallife gfx, thats why Retro gamibg are atill Hot.
 
Cool. I'll look up the video. I assume YouTube has it? If not, mind linking me?
I really wanted to, but YouTube's sh*t search system won't let me find the video, especially because it's from a small channel. It's a shame what this platform has become and how it favors idiotic content instead of really intelligent/interesting that do things regardless of views.
 
I’ve been writing a bit of a book using Apple Pages about a bunch of the games I’ve already played so I got that down
Cool, have to let us know when you are done :)
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So True! Maybe a Skill Issue on my part now. But as I get older I tend to get overwhelmed by to many game mechanics and games themselves.
I think we all have that as we get older.
Reflexes slow down, and game mechanics seem more contrived and convoluted
I still end up downloading too many, only to start it up at first then forgetting it a few days or so... really different to how I was when I was younger.::lurking
Same, or just outright bored of the game.
Especially new games, nothing from the last ten or so years holds my interest for more than a few days or a week at most.

But my brain is kind of twiggy like that, and of all things, I don't have ADHD
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I enjoyed reading the article and can see why too many choices would be paralyzing for many. I don't have that problem. I have a massive library of over 17000 games and thanks to it I was able to play and finish hundreds of games I would have never touched otherwise. I know I'll never finish all of them, but I don't mind. I just love the feeling of having the possibility to play almost any game in existence whenever I feel like it by just using a single click of my mouse.
Here's a list of what I managed to finish recently:
Project Diva F 2nd (PS3)
Spyro 2 (PS1)
Samurai Shodown (SNES)
WRC II Extreme (PS2)
Colin McRae Rally 2005 Plus (PSP)
Colin McRae Rally 04 (PS2)
Yuukyuu Gensoukyoku (PS1)
Soul Calibur (Dreamcast)
Super Street Fighter II (Genesis)
Mamono Hunter Youko: Makai Kara no Tenkousei (PC Engine CD)
Outrun 2019 (Genesis)
Shinseiki Evangelion: Koutetsu no Girlfriend Tokubetsu-Hen Portable (PSP)
Ripple Cafe (PC-98)
Naruto: Ultimate Ninja (PS2)
Urusei Yatsura: Stay With You (PC Engine CD)
Crisis Beat (PS1)
Hyper Duel (Saturn)
and so on...
I love my megalomaniac overinflated collection.
Congrats on finishing so many games. I think you could, if it were legally possible, open an online ROM rental store. XD Thanks for the read, glad you enjoyed
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Very good advice and well said! I have resonated with this recently. I first got a high of dopamine just seeing which games I could download, but then realized I wouldn't play much of them at all. So I ended up deleting a lot of them and even some emulators to narrow down my focus. And now I'm back to simply just playing GTA IV on my ps3. I may just progress one percent each time, but I'm trying to stick with one game and learn to appreciate every part of that game. I don't know if this plan will last, but its working for now.
I think we have all been there. Myself, a lot of PC games recently got the nuke. I was never going to play them due to lack of time or interest. I think a lot of us could benefit from limiting how many games we download or not getting a new one until we finish whatever we are currently playing.
I have the exact same problem. Some days I really enjoy the vast ROM library and browsing through random hames, but more often than not, I just have a favourite section that lists the 2-3 games I'm currently playing. Usually 1 RPG, 1 short game (visual novel, adventure) and 1 racing or puzzle game that I obsess about. Makes me more focused and actually finish some of the games.
God i wish i could do that. i have not actually finished a game in i could not tell you when x_X
Before purchasing/downloading new stuff, I try to get hyped about the stuff I already own. Usually by watching a YouTube video about someone gushing over that game. Helps a lot.
Therein lies my problem. As I stated above, nothing in the last ten or more years even gets a meh out of me anymore
And since you mentioned emulation: Having a nice theme on Knulli/ES-DE makes me want the games more than back when emulators were just an ugly window on my desktop PC.
God yeah, like SNES9X. That thing was putrid when it first came out. Maybe I'm thinking of NESTICAL. Regardless, I get your meaning and agree
Lucky I got my 100.000+++ hisstory games of all gens on 3x 12TB and dozens 5/4/3/2/1/0.5TB hdds, ssds,sds.
Always good to have at least two backups plus the one you're using. I don't care what your storage media of choice is; eventually, it will fail
This is probably a psychology effect, but I don't study psychology so I'll be quite. At any rate, it makes sense. Decision fatigue is real, and it can happen even with small choices (albeit repeated). It's part of the reason I don't like open worlds
Perhaps our limited choices of games when we were kids was a blessing...
Absolutely, it's like being overexposed to anything, honestly. Movies, music, adult material... you'll eventually become numb or desensitized to it. It's similar to how they blame say, Call of Duty for desensitizing kids to gun violence, which it probably did play a large part in.
^^^ Thats the problem of todays Open Worlds games, its simulate IRL like boring Working fatique wtf.
I just want improve gaming reaction skill and fantasy fun with Reallife gfx, thats why Retro gamibg are atill Hot.
Agreed! I don't want to farm and cut down trees in my fantasy games. I want to shoot skeletons and orcs with a bow. If I wanted to do woodworking, I'd study to be a carpenter. XD
I really wanted to, but YouTube's sh*t search system won't let me find the video, especially because it's from a small channel. It's a shame what this platform has become and how it favors idiotic content instead of really intelligent/interesting that do things regardless of views.
Dumb content started with the likes of Mr. Beast and kind of snowballed from there on YouTube.
I swear they need a "Filter BS you're not interested in" option, but hey, Mr. Beast and dumbass BS make them money, so...

That is why it favors dumb videos like "I called this number at 3:30 a.m. and this happened" and other clickbait dumbassery for tweens who believe anything they see.
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I really wanted to, but YouTube's sh*t search system won't let me find the video, especially because it's from a small channel. It's a shame what this platform has become and how it favors idiotic content instead of really intelligent/interesting that do things regardless of views.
wouldn't be this

Or This would it?
 
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Yeah, exactly that! good to know you were more luckier than me
Well, it was a shot in the dark, but I googled what you said it was called, and two videos showed up. I figured it had to be one or the other. I'll watch it a bit later. Thanks for the vid.
 
I try to cap my collecting at around 100 titles per system... some of the systems I have I own far less than that (like Vita, Neo CD and Wii U I have less than 20 physical releases for each), but in the case of SNES/SFC it's well over 100.
Even so, I've got a ton of physical releases I'll possibly never get around to.
 
I try to cap my collecting at around 100 titles per system... some of the systems I have I own far less than that (like Vita, Neo CD and Wii U I have less than 20 physical releases for each), but in the case of SNES/SFC it's well over 100.
Even so, I've got a ton of physical releases I'll possibly never get around to.
Very cool :)

I don't have a super large collection, physical one I mean.
For the systems I have maybe 20-30 games each. And not from Yohoing games, but rather due to space limitations. I knew if I bought everything I wanted, I'd quickly run out of space. Emulation however... is a different story. What inspired this article.

Hope you enjoyed it.
 
This type of theme about game hoarding always reminds me of the title of an user of an old spanish site:
"Síndrome de Diógenes Abandonwarístico"

Also I cannot open the repo or I end up with so much tabs open hahaha
 
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Sorry but this all sounds like an ad for handhelds and people trying to cope that they're stuck with a 128 GB SD card. Less is less. More is more.
 
Sorry but this all sounds like an ad for handhelds and people trying to cope that they're stuck with a 128 GB SD card. Less is less. More is more.
Yes, because I was linking so many handhelds and complaining about the amount of backup storage I have.

Or I dunno, could it possibly be someone who hmm, maybe thinks owning every game is pointless when you won't play everything?

Think what you like. I really don't care.
 
Agreed, my PC's library was bulky, but after a while i realized i barely even touched most of them, the sight of not only the number of reduced ROMs to a more mamageable level, but also of my Drive sighing in relief after releasing lots of GB, i can agree to just stick to the games i really want to play
 
Agreed, my PC's library was bulky, but after a while i realized i barely even touched most of them, the sight of not only the number of reduced ROMs to a more mamageable level, but also of my Drive sighing in relief after releasing lots of GB, i can agree to just stick to the games i really want to play
And it's not like if you have them backed up, you can't just pop them back onto the PC when you want to play them. <or re-download from gog steam etc.>

I find it makes me want to finish the games I have ready more than having everything laid out, where I can't choose what to play.
 
Back in my teen years I used to consume media mindlessly.

I can't state enough how often I would just finish a book, game or movie just to immediately move to something else. At the time I didn't gave it much thought. It was there and it was, for the most part quite cheep.

Perhaps it was the hours reported on my Steam account or the realisation this approach didn't gave me any meaningful knowledge or satisfaction, but il my early 30s I tried to change.

Like food that needs to be fully digested in order to deliver its nutrients, I now try to consume media more slowly, focusing on exploring content in a deeper way. In a sense, I will not try to consume all the media I can have, but o only the one I really want to have.

For example, reading a book that a liked multiple times in order to fully note smaller details that the author sprinkled into its pages, or trying to master a game's mechanics and secrets in order to fully experience it.

I'll not say that I've master this approach nor I'll do it soon, but one day, hopefully, I will.
 
There was somebody formerly in my life who was a massive retro video game collector. My initial impressions of her collection was that it was incredible and extremely impressive. To give a rough idea, had dozens of gameboy variants, rare and weird controllers, a significant amount of consoles and computers spanning over 40 years, and absolutely more that would just take too long to list. After being rather close with her for more than a year, I was able to see how much her collection tore her down and held her back. There was frequently some sorta retro maintenance thing she either had to do or decided to do, frequently buying expensive games or hardware because her position in life allowed her to, or the fact that it took so much space in her house that her bedroom was more of a gaming room that happen to have a pullout couch in it.

The moment I genuinely questioned her relationship with the hobby was when she bought a neo geo pocket on a whim, which costed her something around $300. Upon receiving it, she commented how it sucks and how she didn't much care for it or its games before it was merged into her dragon's horde of retro tech.

While she did show an obvious passion for the hobby, it was also met with a certain level of contempt for it as well. Maybe this is more a comment about her as a person and how she was deeply unhappy for a number of reasons outside of the hobby that are beyond the scope of this post.
 
yee i agree, sad thing about digital is I can't physically grab the games, but thankfully they have cover arts so i can at least look at the front cover if it interests me.

There was somebody formerly in my life who was a massive retro video game collector. My initial impressions of her collection was that it was incredible and extremely impressive. To give a rough idea, had dozens of gameboy variants, rare and weird controllers, a significant amount of consoles and computers spanning over 40 years, and absolutely more that would just take too long to list. After being rather close with her for more than a year, I was able to see how much her collection tore her down and held her back. There was frequently some sorta retro maintenance thing she either had to do or decided to do, frequently buying expensive games or hardware because her position in life allowed her to, or the fact that it took so much space in her house that her bedroom was more of a gaming room that happen to have a pullout couch in it.

The moment I genuinely questioned her relationship with the hobby was when she bought a neo geo pocket on a whim, which costed her something around $300. Upon receiving it, she commented how it sucks and how she didn't much care for it or its games before it was merged into her dragon's horde of retro tech.

While she did show an obvious passion for the hobby, it was also met with a certain level of contempt for it as well. Maybe this is more a comment about her as a person and how she was deeply unhappy for a number of reasons outside of the hobby that are beyond the scope of this post.
I think we all have a love/hate relationship with gaming. I think if many had the funds, I think they would disappear into a virtual world without thinking about who created it.
 
Great read!

I can relate but unlike you who have cleared away the titles that you'd never play or really enjoy I still have them. I truly need to sit down and go through my collection and filter out those titles and see if anyone else would enjoy them.

I have never played Final Fantasy VII: Crisis Core although I own an unopened, factory sealed copy.
 
>God i wish i could do that. i have not actually finished a game in i could not tell you when x_X

Well, I realise that this sounds as though I always manage to regularly finish games. While it helps to have a focused, reduced list of games that I hype myself into playing, I still have to contend with the fact that I'm 40 and work 40h/week. So, more often then not, I plan a 2h session in the evening and fall asleep on the couch after playing 30min. xD
In 6 months, I've finished 2 RPGs and a bunch of smaller games that are between 2 and 10h. Mostly metroidvanias or adventures/visual novels. I'll never get back to playing 5 games a month. Even when I retire, I'll probably be too tired or unfocused to do that.

I've also learned to honestly just give up on games that I thought I'd have to like, but then didn't. If I don't like a game after 5h of playing, the chances aren't high it's going to change after 50h. And my already very strict backlog is at around 200 games.

>Therein lies my problem. As I stated above, nothing in the last ten or more years even gets a meh out of me anymore

That sounds harsh. I've noticed that, as I get older, I prefer shorter games that have innovative gameplay compared to the grand stories. Or indies rather than AAA.
 
Yet another fine article, Zerpy. In an age where everything is fast, bleeding edge and unsubstantial, focus, depth and joy are definitely sacrificed to the altar of quantity, and everything becomes sadder because of it.
 
Good read. I think too many people conflate their backlog with their whole library. Owning a lot of games is nice. I guess the moral of the story here is to not just mindlessly consume.

There's a bit of a sub-theme of being "personal" in this article. I don't think you should think about what other people think at all when it comes to a single-person hobby and just let people observe if you choose to share.

My best advice is to keep a whiteboard or a little notebook of what you're currently playing and you only have an allowance of 3 games in a queue, and a maximum of two at once for variety. That's what helped me.
 
It's okay if one cannot play games or finish them, don't stress or obsess over it.

Just do what you feel when you feel it.
 

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