what i am going to say, is my own, unfiltered opinion, it aint toxic masculinity or anything, everyone has his own way, of flirting with women, i aint trying to brag, or make anyone, feel offended, just wanted to be clear
i am hearing from friends saying, that either men dont hit on women, like they used to do, or women are to ''prideful'' to make the first move, and dont want to ruin their ego, by giving a chance to a gai, she deep inside, likes, and always awaits from him to make the first move
now, body language hints, exist, they social cues, they hints, that women give, when they want men to approach them, most of the times though, most of the doods, cant get them signs, and they mistake them, if you pay attention to her, from the way she looks, plays with her hair, points at you, even the way, she speaks at you, the tone, and all, you can clearly tell, if she is into you, after all, you need the attraction, the spark, when you desire someone
first its outer appearance, lets not joke ourselves, after that, if you decide to be with each other and get in a relationship, then you learn, his personality, inner character/traits, etc
most of the times, i make the first move, its 2 options, you score, or you get denied, even before being in relationships with chicks, i got denied, several times, so what? and? life goes, i move on, so simple, it needs lot of exercise, but confidence and inner willpower, are real, you need to not be clingy, you need to be strong, for you first, and trust me, women like it too, when a man, even at his worst, can still stay chill/focused
back to the topic, why women are wasting a good chance of finding someone they like, by denying it, and waiting for the dood to approach first, like, each of us, dont own each other, anything, from the first moment, the eyes connect, you will get it, if the attraction exists
just like how chicks, like a normal and proper approach, thats how men like from women as well, not the cringe, not the creepy approach
flirt, like a proper human, day game exists, if you learn how interacting looks like, it aint disturbing to go to somebody, and say hi, or introduce yourself, if u notice, the hints are positive, thats why the saying, learn to read the room, exists
gotta say, the past 5 years after the cvirus, it became downgrade on that part, because, most of the people, find affect on the internet, on a fake reality, and trying to find peace on lies
so yeah, a good flirt, always can make us, feel good, or flattered, for both genders, that goes
i know, life aint easy, its difficult for each of us, but you can find ways to make it easier, internet is just a ''hobby'', we must learn to live, in reality
I think that has had some negative effect on the way I view people & relationships too.
