Some other examples are not wanting to be scolded for changing stuff on my PC and thus rejecting to use Linux and/or Firefox. And also repeating that I don't care about modern games, that I can't afford X thing to fix Y thing and etcSo uhh you are asking the same question here on other forums and it didn't seem to help
I wonder what would you exactly like to hear? Or in this case see.
Well you don't have to use linux or Firefox what's exactly wrong with that? You know some of these stupid nerds can like develop some sort of elitism attitude of "use Linux it's better than windows" in the most nerdy voice ever.Some other examples are not wanting to be scolded for changing stuff on my PC and thus rejecting to use Linux and/or Firefox. And also repeating that I don't care about modern games, that I can't afford X thing to fix Y thing and etc
That and other things on there.Is this what you are told that bothers you?
And how you plan to solve these things like not using Linux or not caring about modern games?That and other things on there.
Also I don't want occupational therapy bc I don't want some random guy to monitor what I do 24/7
Shutting the fuck up. Also i'm sure people there got fed up of my constant negativity including some that also have an account hereAnd how you plan to solve these things like not using Linux or not caring about modern games?
Then how can I stop being lazy without needing to drink lots of coffee with lots of sugar, do drugs and inject myself with adrenaline?You might be making it harder on yourself by rejecting getting therapy , it can be just what you need? You can't just say "well damn i have this problem but I'm not gonna solve it" and then expect validation , while you are conscious that not solving it is making things worse.
The sooner you act the better the results will be.
I honestly don't know what to tell you.Shutting the fuck up. Also i'm sure people there got fed up of my constant negativity including some that also have an account here
Why do you need to all that? Where is your inner motivation? Energy? That's why i told you to workout it will energize you pretty good it's not the only way but can bring in good results for stopping being lazy.Then how can I stop being lazy without needing to drink lots of coffee with lots of sugar, do drugs and inject myself with adrenaline?
But I always go walking and always go to PE classWhy do you need to all that? Where is your inner motivation? Energy? That's why i told you to workout it will energize you pretty good it's not the only way but can bring in good results for stopping being lazy.
Well you said you are lazy? Man you confused me XD , but really thinking becoming an adult will solve all your problems or having a surgery or some easy way out......it won't do you a thing it will make things worse.But I always go walking and always go to PE class
It's just that I go out for a walk when my family orders me to go with them and because physical education class is mandatory and not by my own decision.Well you said you are lazy? Man you confused me XD
Hmmmm i would really like to get you into fitness it might be just what you need to start on changing this negative and self hating attitude.It's just that I go out for a walk when my family orders me to go with them and because physical education class is mandatory and not by my own decision.
Theres lots of negativity in my family and no one complainsHmmmm i would really like to get you into fitness it might be just what you need to start on changing this negative and self hating attitude.
We do pushups at PE classWhat do you say? Are you willing to learn how to do pushups? Have you ever tried doing one?
Well man this seems more in needing of real life solution than whatever i or anyone here can offer it's pretty much a problem that words online will remain words.Theres lots of negativity in my family and no one complains
We do pushups at PE class
I'm still too lazy and introvert to fix my issues so getting doing drugs and/or smoking and/or vaping, getting lobotomized, getting amnesia and getting hypnotized are better solutionsWell man this seems more in needing of real life solution than whatever i or anyone here can offer it's pretty much a problem that words online will remain words.
NO! it will get things worse , there is no eternal salvation coming with these solutions , being an introvert doesn't mean you uhh do this.I'm still too lazy and introvert to fix my issues so getting doing drugs and/or smoking and/or vaping, getting lobotomized, getting amnesia and getting hypnotized are better solutions
I can't put it in words but it might be stuff like lack of motivation, lack of energy, some sort of apathy or idk.Can you point us towards your source of laziness?
Lack of motivation you say? So we can't pinpoint the source eh? Well that a little problem you can try to go offline for a couple days see if it gets you in a better mood as it seems constantly venting these negative thoughts isn't helping you.I can't put it in words but it might be stuff like lack of motivation, lack of energy, some sort of apathy or idk.
Also I keep saying the same stuff bc my brain keeps thinking the same stuff over and over again almost nonstop
I already did a couple times before and my brain didnt stop having these negative thoughtsWell that a little problem you can try to go offline for a couple days see if it gets you in a better mood as it seems constantly venting these negative thoughts isn't helping you.
Then we need to find the source of what's causing these negative thoughts! Is it because you remember one situation or interaction where you said something stupid or acted in a dumb way and it keeps playing in loop again and again and that makes you regret the way you acted?I already did a couple times before and my brain didnt stop having these negative thoughts
Both that and bc my mother is quite temperamental and tends to act like if she hated meThen we need to find the source of what's causing these negative thoughts! Is it because you remember one situation or interaction where you said something stupid or acted in a dumb way and it keeps playing in loop again and again and that makes you regret the way you acted?
NO!I don't think i can offer much help more so than let's say a real doctor or a therapist
About the 1st one you just have to deal with it , you can't change the past but you can learn from it to act on what you see is better next time so you don't recreate the same situation again even if it happens you don't have to freak out about it , that's the way we learn no divine revelation is going to drop from the sky and tell you what to do.Both that and bc my mother is quite temperamental and tends to act like if she hated me
NO!
1. But I almost never learn from my mistakesAbout the 1st one you just have to deal with it , you can't change the past but you can learn from it to act on what you see is better next time so you don't recreate the same situation again even if it happens you don't have to freak out about it , that's the way we learn no divine revelation is going to drop from the sky and tell you what to do.
Regarding your mother well I have nothing to say about that sorry.
How about YES! ?
Well you are self aware about that which means you learned something.1. But I almost never learn from my mistakes
2. NOOOO! I DONT WANT TO SEEK HELP!
Aside from the ones I mentioned, I had meditation in mind and tried it years ago (before I was depressed) but found it more irritating than relaxing.Then what other methods you think can help you
Yeah and those you mentioned won't do shit about it.Aside from the ones I mentioned, I had meditation in mind and tried it years ago (before I was depressed) but found it more irritating than relaxing.
The other method I have in mind is repeatidly hitting myself in the head, but I tried it a couple times in the past and got no results