Mental health thread

[JustLooking123]

Well, both irl and online people are saying you are smart, and you still don't believe!

So you have to choose one of these two options:
1- People who said you are smart are smart too, and are telling the truth.
2- You are wisest of all, and you already know more than everyone else.

 

[Xdqwerty]

Well, both irl and online people are saying you are smart, and you still don't believe!

So you have to choose one of these two options:
1- People who said you are smart are smart too, and are telling the truth.
2- You are wisest of all, and you already know more than everyone else.

Its just that life reminds me that i'm stupid through either the mistakes I make and/or whenever I get scolded

 

[JustLooking123]

Its just that life reminds me that i'm stupid through either the mistakes I make and/or whenever I get scolded

Honestly you are not unique in this...
I mean, look at me? how many times you have seen embarrassing mistakes from me in this very forum?
I know too well that the number of my mistakes is so high that i can't even count...
So what?
I can't fix many of my problems either... there are some that i don't even try!
I'm sad too... but i focus on what i can do.

Here's my motto:
Whenever life gives me lemons, i try to make lemonade from it!
Nothing crazy... but it works!

 

[Xdqwerty]

how many times you have seen embarrassing mistakes from me in this very forum?

0 times

 

[Pandaprewmaster325]

Is there a potion out there that turns me instantly into an adult? I want to cure my depression and become smart without seeking help

Nuh that won't work either you would still be you but more unstable mentally... Why you so obsessed with becoming smart?

 

[Xdqwerty]

Nuh that won't work either you would still be you but more unstable mentally... Why you so obsessed with becoming smart?

Because people irl told me I was smart for years but then I realized I wasnt smart and that everything I believed was a lie, and also bc I wanna love myself

 

[GardeniaSky's iconGardeniaSky]

Eat something healthy today

 

[Pandaprewmaster325]

Because people irl told me I was smart for years but then I realized I wasnt smart and that everything I believed was a lie, and also bc I wanna love myself

Sounds a bit like a reality check to me expect you took it a bit too much +over think it , reality checks are good you may not like it when it happen but you will look back at it and be grateful for it cuz it gets you to know your shortcomings....what you are doing isn't loving yourself bro...you are doing the opposite you are putting unreachable and unrealistic expectations on yourself and when you fail to meet them you despise yourself and think something is wrong with you yup sounds like opposite of loving oneself

 

[DragonMals]

motivation is an element of my life I tend to struggle with. So what do I do? Put off the possible things I can do at the moment, and force myself to do such activity.

works like a charm cause its all of the positive things I can do at the moment. listening to vgm is the cherry on top of all things :)

 

[partymembervii]

started today getting yelled at by a customer. great way to start, definitely made the whole day so much better. really loved when she implied i might be brain damaged because of my choice to wear a mask. really motivated me to keep pushin. i was probably too kind, but she didnt even give me a chance, was obviously just looking for someone to be mad at. in hindsight i couldve kicked her outta the store, the way she was talking to me, but i just wanted her out of my face, didnt want things to escalate further

 

[GardeniaSky's iconGardeniaSky]

started today getting yelled at by a customer. great way to start, definitely made the whole day so much better. really loved when she implied i might be brain damaged because of my choice to wear a mask. really motivated me to keep pushin. i was probably too kind, but she didnt even give me a chance, was obviously just looking for someone to be mad at. in hindsight i couldve kicked her outta the store, the way she was talking to me, but i just wanted her out of my face, didnt want things to escalate further

Laugh react at the lady, not you. Some people are just so miserable they want everyone around them to suffer. Absurdity. Honestly, if it happens again and you're feeling scrappy, definitely kick their asses out. People act like that because they think there won't be any consequences.

 

[partymembervii]

Laugh react at the lady, not you. Some people are just so miserable they want everyone around them to suffer. Absurdity. Honestly, if it happens again and you're feeling scrappy, definitely kick their asses out. People act like that because they think there won't be any consequences.

i figured thats what the react was for, just glad the days done. felt long as fuck

 

[GardeniaSky's iconGardeniaSky]

i figured thats what the react was for, just glad the days done. felt long as fuck

Hugs for you. Hopefully tomorrow is better.

 

[Xdqwerty]

I'm apatethic

 

[bigstinkie]

i am mentally and physically frail but i am working on both
taking my prescribed medications daily, eating, and saying no to drugs as much as humanly possible

 

[Fray Guillermo]

Passing by hoping everyone is having a nice and chill weekend. I still haven't gathered the confidence to talk about my own stuff here but I'm sending hugs and vibes to anyone who needs it, you're not alone. I started going to the gym about 3 months ago and so far it's been helping a lot with self-confidence (which I had but lost along the way as I grew older), but it's still a pretty long way ahead

 

[Xdqwerty]

Does liking stuff other people don't like/ not liking stuff other people like make me a bad person/ a stupid?

 

[fake-kun]

Does liking stuff other people don't like/ not liking stuff other people like make me a bad person/ a stupid?

No.

Stop caring about other people's opinions.

 

[Xdqwerty]

Stop caring about other people's opinions.

But it's called feedback

 

[fake-kun]

But it's called feedback

How can someone else's opinion on media you didn't make be considered feedback?

 

[Xdqwerty]

How can someone else's opinion on media you didn't make be considered feedback?

Uhhhhhhh because popular opinion on something is usually considered the truth or idk

 

[fake-kun]

Uhhhhhhh because popular opinion on something is usually considered the truth or idk

Only if you can't think for yourself.

 

[Xdqwerty]

Only if you can't think for yourself.

I think for myself but take others' opinion in consideration

 

[fake-kun]

I think for myself but take others' opinion in consideration

That's great, but worrying about whether your opinions on media are shared by others won't help you at all.

 

[Xdqwerty]

Goddamnit i'm starting to hate myself again (not bc of the conversation I was having in this thread)