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Nothing serious, just venting a bit and getting stuff off my chest, but I often have difficulty telling when people are joking around versus when they're being serious and end up reacting poorly as a result. I grew up with family and others who used humor and "jokes" in a toxic manner to insult and break others down, and I still struggle with this to a degree.
 
Nothing serious, just venting a bit and getting stuff off my chest, but I often have difficulty telling when people are joking around versus when they're being serious and end up reacting poorly as a result. I grew up with family and others who used humor and "jokes" in a toxic manner to insult and break others down, and I still struggle with this to a degree.

Same, but in my case it's because I have ADHD and can be very oblivious.
 
I think i'm a lost cause, I don't seem to be able to change as a person and for some reason I almost never follow people's advice
And I don't learn from most of my mistakes
 
Nothing serious, just venting a bit and getting stuff off my chest, but I often have difficulty telling when people are joking around versus when they're being serious and end up reacting poorly as a result. I grew up with family and others who used humor and "jokes" in a toxic manner to insult and break others down, and I still struggle with this to a degree.

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Will I reincarnate as someone smarter, extrovert and with a happy family after I die? If I don't go to hell, that is
 
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I am honestly freaking out about going to a wedding next month. A bunch of people I don't know, I'm gonna have to get all dressed up to awkwardly interact with people.

I hope it's a weed-friendly affair. I'm gonna need it to not freak out.
 
I am honestly freaking out about going to a wedding next month. A bunch of people I don't know, I'm gonna have to get all dressed up to awkwardly interact with people.

I hope it's a weed-friendly affair. I'm gonna need it to not freak out.
That's the real extent of human gregariousness, to be honest.
 
That's the real extent of human gregariousness, to be honest.
It's a really chill wedding. The couple getting married are really close friends of my partner's and they're super chill. It's everyone else I'm worried about Dx
 
It's a really chill wedding. The couple getting married are really close friends of my partner's and they're super chill. It's everyone else I'm worried about Dx
Yeah, that's mostly what I was alluding to. I don't tend to partake on this kind of event so I don't have any sort of wise advice, but try and stay close to your comfort circle, it will lessen the impact that those outside of it can cause, then.
 
oh and btw @Pandaprewmaster325 , being smart means for me that you can do anything well and you don't have to depend on the others, that you dont forget stuff, that you don't say stupidities, and that you are competent in life and arent oblivious to anything
Nah bro that's kind of being perfect which is impossible and pretty hard to obtain , i do stupid shit all the time the other day i used a firecracker on an already lit oven i think it could have exploded Idk..... One time i walked in a street not on the sidewalk instead the street itself and a car passed pretty fast the distance between me and the car was so absurdly small i was like "well that was a stupid decision" it still happens to this day.

@Pandaprewmaster325 I forgot to mention that I also heard that my depression will be healed when I become an adult
Oh brother what? Expect as an adult you have responsibilities that you should do like work.... Oh yeah get used to being told to find a job cuz you really need one or will be in need of one , you won't have much free time as let's when you are 15 to play games wish i knew that could have made things different , don't just live as a "spectator" in this age you gonna regret not doing things that you could have done , and here I one important thing DON'T listen to anyone that shames you for being a teenager it's nothing to be ashamed of i wanted to grow up fast cuz i got made fun of on Facebook when i was 14 well what was the result? SHIT you don't naturally gain a superpower or your insecurities go away.....You better figure these things out now instead of reaching 18
 
I think I should worry about just myself since I heard it's better that way , but i'm not sure actually
 
I think I should worry about just myself since I heard it's better that way , but i'm not sure actually
If you mean worrying about yourself VS worrying about other people, these two aren't opposite to each other in a lot of cases.
Even if you want to help other people, you should first become strong yourself so you can do something.

But for now, i think you should prioritize yourself... because if you lack in anything, it's only in loving yourself! ::winkfelix
 
If you mean worrying about yourself VS worrying about other people, these two aren't opposite to each other in a lot of cases.
Even if you want to help other people, you should first become strong yourself so you can do something.

But for now, i think you should prioritize yourself... because if you lack in anything, it's only in loving yourself! ::winkfelix
Yeah but i'm stupid and stupids should die
 
(ok i'm now sure i'm a lost cause since i'm always saying the same things everyday with no improvement)
In today's standards, normal has become...."abundant", just be yourself, I'm stupid in my own ways, yet I embrace the good, and work on my bad side. No one is perfect to begin with😁.

Speaking of doing the same stuff but seeing no improvement takes time, a small example if you will, is a roll of tissue paper. If you tear one, you see no difference, but when you tear it one day at a time, it disappears, leaving only the holder. Don't worry about, just go, with the flow. Believe in yourself. You got this.(y)
 
Speaking of doing the same stuff but seeing no improvement takes time, a small example if you will, is a roll of tissue paper. If you tear one, you see no difference, but when you tear it one day at a time, it disappears, leaving only the holder. Don't worry about, just go, with the flow. Believe in yourself. You got this.(y)
I meant that there is a cycle that goes kinda like this:
>I say i'm stupid and a bad person
>People say i'm not
>I feel better
>I say again i'm stupid and a bad person
And the cycle continues
 
I meant that there is a cycle that goes kinda like this:
>I say i'm stupid and a bad person
>People say i'm not
>I feel better
>I say again i'm stupid and a bad person
And the cycle continues

If you're so convinced you're bad and stupid, why don't you actually do something to change that?
 
I meant that there is a cycle that goes kinda like this:
>I say i'm stupid and a bad person
>People say i'm not
>I feel better
>I say again i'm stupid and a bad person
And the cycle continues
Then the best way to see you're a bad person is to first write them down. Each and every single one of them. Don't skip even the smallest thing that makes you feel like your a bad person. Fold it up and place it someway you can find it later, if you find it again after months, read it to yourself and see if these things are still in me or not.
 
If you're so convinced you're bad and stupid, why don't you actually do something to change that?
Because I don't seem to be able to change
Then the best way to see you're a bad person is to first write them down. Each and every single one of them. Don't skip even the smallest thing that makes you feel like your a bad person. Fold it up and place it someway you can find it later, if you find it again after months, read it to yourself and see if these things are still in me or not.
I think i'm a bad person for
  1. Being stupid
  2. Being stubborn
  3. Being from gen z/alpha
  4. Liking stuff other people don't like and the other way around
  5. Using Reddit and Twitter
  6. Being poor
 
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