Mental health thread

[beefbowl]

I'm sure that in CBT you are going to get hypnotized or something

That's nowhere near what it is. You're doing your research wrong.

occupational therapy you need some random guy to monitor you 24/7 to know how you are doing.

That's not how it works either. You're clearly biased against therapy and actively hurting yourself in this process.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

You're clearly biased against therapy and actively hurting yourself in this process.

I know, but i'm not hurting myself

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Speaking of therapy, how is it possible that people who are as introverted as I am and/or have aspergers are able to tell people irl about their issues without needing drastic measures beforehand?

 

[fake-kun]

I know, but i'm not hurting myself

Speaking of therapy, how is it possible that people who are as introverted as I am and/or have aspergers are able to tell people irl about their issues without needing drastic measures beforehand?

Just say it. It's not a rocket science.

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

Just say it. It's not a rocket science.

Too introvert

 

[fake-kun]

Too introvert

That's not introversion, that's just not being upfront about your feelings.

 

[bigstinkie]

in 12 days i can return to my life and more importantly my friends who i do miss dearly
each day i must retain my mind, tethering my soul to a peaceful place of clarity
perhaps through strength of will alone i can control my own perception and thusly alter my perspective
dress

 

[Xdqwerty Xdqwerty]

That's not introversion, that's just not being upfront about your feelings.

Im very good at hiding my feelings irl

 

[Ogmios]

Might be my last night here

 

[Viviana Santos]

Might be my last night here

Why?

 

[Ogmios]

Why?

On Sunday I had to do important things and made a post which seemed self deprecating but wasn't. It didn't get received well as it incited someone to defend me from then misinterpreting it. Theyve even since left though I don't know if it was from that, and it has felt like since then activity towards me has lessened. I'm getting this sense of pretentiousness mainly towards my more jovial nature. Like what I do, and who I am is not welcome here.

 

[Viviana Santos]

On Sunday I had to do important things and made a post which seemed self deprecating but wasn't. It didn't get received well as it incited someone to defend me from then misinterpreting it. Theyve even since left though I don't know if it was from that, and it has felt like since then activity towards me has lessened. I'm getting this sense of pretentiousness mainly towards my more jovial nature. Like what I do, and who I am is not welcome here.

God, that's so sad, I'm sorry that happened to you.

 

[Ogmios]

God, that's so sad, I'm sorry that happened to you.

It's fine, though I do think this is it after this

 

[RanmyakuIchi's icon RanmyakuIchi RanmyakuIchi]

It's fine, though I do think this is it after this

For what it's worth, I enjoy your presence here, and I feel I'm not the only one.

 

[bigstinkie]

i would not take any forum banter or lack thereof so seriously ogmios
from what your lips have eased into my ears it sounds as if that person's absence was not truly caused by you, and the concept of more or less engagement that the forum has with you is coloured by the shape of your perspective
i would not think that activity towards you has truly lessened due to those things, but rather the time and flow of those here
no need to be mizerable on any such young nights

 

[Ogmios]

i would not take any forum banter or lack thereof so seriously ogmios
from what your lips have eased into my ears it sounds as if that person's absence was not truly caused by you, and the concept of more or less engagement that the forum has with you is coloured by the shape of your perspective
i would not think that activity towards you has truly lessened due to those things, but rather the time and flow of those here
no need to be mizerable on any such young nights

There's been noticeable less engagement since specifically then though.

 

[bigstinkie]

there are noticeably less stars in the sky on unclear nights rife with clouds uncertain all
but the clouds pass and stars return

 

[Ogmios]

there are noticeably less stars in the sky on unclear nights rife with clouds uncertain all
but the clouds pass and stars return

I understand that, but this is different

 

[bigstinkie]

then sleep sweetly, when you wake you may find yourself resolute in your position, or viewing what was once unseen from above those clouds

 

[JustLooking123]

There's been noticeable less engagement since specifically then though.

Hey, i know the person you are talking about... and also i know despite the timing, it wasn't related to you at all.

And hey... don't worry about less engagement... i know some people weren't in their best mood lately due to various reasons... mostly real life events that we all know and i don't want to even mention.
Hopefully things will improve eventually.

 

[Ogmios]

then sleep sweetly, when you wake you may find yourself resolute in your position, or viewing what was once unseen from above those clouds

No, I think for my next profile post I'm just going outright say it and never come back on here

 

[moonbits]

On Sunday I had to do important things and made a post which seemed self deprecating but wasn't. It didn't get received well as it incited someone to defend me from then misinterpreting it. Theyve even since left though I don't know if it was from that, and it has felt like since then activity towards me has lessened. I'm getting this sense of pretentiousness mainly towards my more jovial nature. Like what I do, and who I am is not welcome here.

was it the stinky thing

 

[Ogmios]

was it the stinky thing

Yeah

 

[bigstinkie]

for a moment i was confused because i thought that the stink you referred to was me
i am unfamiliar with your situation but i wish you most wellness regardless of what you choose to do

 

[RanmyakuIchi's icon RanmyakuIchi RanmyakuIchi]

There's been noticeable less engagement since specifically then though.

Sometimes there's less engagement and activity just in general, with it having nothing to do with anyone in particular. I've been here for over half a year now, and sometimes the forum is just slow. I think the timing might simply be coincidental.

 

[moonbits]

dunno, I just followed along playfully to get you do whatever you needed, I think everyone was until they came by to tell us we were assholes which threw me off. You didn't do anything wrong.