I do not have this, but i do suffer with ADHD and OCD not to mention crones, which i am prescribed medicaiton for, i also studied psycology, but related to cyber security. By no means am i a professional, but i know that ownership of my problem helped me to be more manageable.
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Ffs I don't want to
No need, and no need to seek drugs either.
Xdqwerty, I normally wouldn't comment on these things even if I watch this thread but people wear three faces, one for the world, one for friends and family, and one you keep to yourself. You would be surprised just how many of us are feeling upset, and I don't mean to diminish how you feel but at a glance over your profiles (because you spoke about dying which was worrying) you're only a teenager. It's really tough at your age for a lot of people, don't wish harm on yourself because of how things are now.
Take it from someone that's come very close to dying, once you get a taste of it you realize that actually, you REALLY don't want that. You don't. The only way your life can get better is if you start working on improving yourself.. If you're struggling with being social, I recommend a book that really helped me by "How to Win Friends and Influence People" - by Dale Carnegie. It sounds like a silly self help book but it will honestly help you out in social situations, it's very well researched and there's a reason it's been a best seller since it released in 1936. It sounds stupid but if you apply the principles they work. I have aspergers too, so I know how hard it is to understand other people.
Yes, 15 is too young to give up on the world. I’m 25, I sometimes feel like giving up but I remind myself that’s also still too young. It’s never too late to start investing in long-term self care but it has to start from within. Change always comes from within.
I want to add to this a bit. I'm not going to go into graphic detail because I'm still distraught by it to this day, but I've seen first hand how drugs can destroy someone from the inside. It's a big reason why I stopped associating with one of my best friends. It's like you can just see how much they go from one way to the other, the mood swings, the irritability, the lack of care for anything else, among other issues I won't go into. It's so destructive.
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I don't think that book it's avaliable in a physical library (which was closed last time I checked and I forgot where it was located anyways) and I only like books in physical format
Btw if you're wondering why I'm afraid of being murdered/kidnapped despite my depression/self-hatred it's because I'm the only person I allow to take my life.
Happened to my friend too. Drugs messed up his brain chemistry permanently, he ended up in a very sorry state and frankly I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. Drugs will absolutely damage your mind in ways that you don't want. If you enjoy doing anything, even if it's just playing video games, then you DON'T want to destroy your brain with drugs.
I'm not going to nag you, I'm just trying to tell you - only -you- can make your situation better for yourself. It's your life and it's up to -you- to cultivate it. If you want to be happier then you have to work on that otherwise you're just going to languish with bad feelings.-- I wasn't worried about you being murdered, I was worried about you doing something silly at such a young age. You haven't even experienced life yet, it's tragic when someone in their thirties dies let alone in their teens.
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I know, I was just claryfing stuff
My entire family has cut me off without clear reason after taking thousands from me both in money and value that could have gone to my treatment. Yesterday while barely being able to stand or walk I contacted a brother who was out of the loop (so I thought) and told him what was going on, and lo and behold, he had a giant message ready detailing why I had to be lying about all of it. He hasn't even seen me since this developed.
Yes, I will delete this later, and no, I don't care who sees it right now.
Yes, I will delete this later, and no, I don't care who sees it right now.
Out of respect, i will reply with the message hidden so the reply embed does not preserve it. I wish you the best.
Family has a way of showing love even if it isn't practical. What exactly does your mom do that you don't like?
She's quite temperamental
My grandmother is that way as well. I live with her. She lets everything bother her lol. What does your mom get temperamental about?
She says i'm an irresponsible piece of shit who can't do anything well and has to depend most of the time of the others (well, she doesnt say it exactly like that but thats how I interpret it)
She might be trying to figure out how to cope, allot of people go though things differently, and can act out.
What worked for me, is understanding that relationships are give and take, and often while i may feel bad about me, i wonder how i am making others feel, which is why it is important to learn how to self sooth first.
Then if they are open to talking about it, we can talk and find a middle ground that works for both of us.
Have you tried talking with you mum?
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When you say interpret it, you mean she makes you feel this way?
Maybe years ago
I think she may be feeling overwhelmed by this, which is often why it is best to get help. As often you can both get support from a professional, and this can ease both your burdens.
No one is forcing you though, as the choice is yours.
I think especially now you should try to sit her down and level with her. Really let her know that this is something that you feel is serious and want to talk with her about, let her know how you feel. She might not understand at first but give her time.
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Obviously I'm not trying to force your hand though. With all things of this nature you have to make this decision for yourself. And don't feel bad about confrontation. Sometimes it's needed to figure out a situation such as this.
My siblings are quite annoying as well, I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters. I think it's common to have these feelings. As the oldest I know it far too well, none of my siblings are calm the way that I am. Every one of them is eccentric and hyper. But I love them all to death. For me I feel that they are the only siblings I'll get so to me that is enough. What did your brother do?
You’re posting a meme but you’re unironically giving good advice. *knuckles approved gif*
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