Mental health thread

[Pandaprewmaster325]

This is just me, I rarely have problem waking up, but when I do, I turn it into a game.
I set my phone alarm to a sound of certain someone moaning loudly and set it aside at least 3 meters away from the bed.

And voila, my inner instinct WILL force me to wake up the next day, 2 seconds tops, it never failed.

Thats evil genius level bro...

 

[RanmyakuIchi's iconRanmyakuIchi]

This is just me, I rarely have problem waking up, but when I do, I turn it into a game.
I set my phone alarm to a sound of certain someone moaning loudly and set it aside at least 3 meters away from the bed.

And voila, my inner instinct WILL force me to wake up the next day, 2 seconds tops, it never failed.

Complex problems require complex solutions.

 

[Xdqwerty]

For school I have to do a craft answering several questions for my life project, but the problem is that it is difficult for me to answer the questions about what I would like to do, what I want to be when I grow up and how I see myself in 5 years because I don't know what to do with my life.

 

[RanmyakuIchi's iconRanmyakuIchi]

For school I have to do a craft answering several questions for my life project, but the problem is that it is difficult for me to answer the questions about what I would like to do, what I want to be when I grow up and how I see myself in 5 years because I don't know what to do with my life.

I don't think this is all that unusual. I didn't know what I wanted to be at that age and a lot of my friends were the same way. I don't think it's 100% fair to expect all teenagers to have the answers to that question, if I'm being honest.

 

[Xdqwerty]

I don't think this is all that unusual. I didn't know what I wanted to be at that age and a lot of my friends were the same way. I don't think it's 100% fair to expect all teenagers to have the answers to that question, if I'm being honest.

Yeah but i'm forced to answer

 

[Merchant]

Goes without saying this isn’t to substitute real professional help. This is a place to vent about your depression, anxiety and other stuff. A place for positivity and kindness. Please be nice to everyone here.
If you’re uncomfortable posting here you can also use this place to find people to dm in private if you’re not comfortable discussing stuff in public but still wanna vent.

Once again don’t be shy to air out your heart. This place Will (hopefully) be great for that.
And if not, we’ve got a fantastic moderation team. If something or someone bothers you, inform a mod.

That’s all kinda. I hope this place grows into a positivity center and place to give others virtual hugs nyaaaa ?

trying to be open with my problems on this website, unleashed a wave of bad feeling i never thought I would experience. It actually changed me. I hope for the better. Trying to talk to people who I thought would be similar and then having someone accuse of the worst thing you could think of really nuked my self esteem.

 

[RanmyakuIchi's iconRanmyakuIchi]

Yeah but i'm forced to answer

Just do the best you can. No one will keep a track of or scrutinize your answers for future reference, so make something up if you need to. I used to say I'd be working for CAPCOM on these kinds of assignments.

 

[Xdqwerty]

trying to be open with my problems on this website, unleashed a wave of bad feeling i never thought I would experience. It actually changed me. I hope for the better. Trying to talk to people who I thought would be similar and then having someone accuse of the worst thing you could think of really nuked my self esteem.

*Hugs*

 

[Merchant]

trying to be open with my problems on this website, unleashed a wave of bad feeling i never thought I would experience. It actually changed me. I hope for the better. Trying to talk to people who I thought would be similar and then having someone accuse of the worst thing you could think of really nuked my self esteem.

I know that I'm not, but now I can't look at all this Japanese stuff in the same way, it may be healthy for other people, but for me it was a damaging thing to happen to my childhood. I think adults are fine to look at what ever content they like online, but for me I don't want to go back to that, I want to explore my sexuality in the real world.

 

[Xdqwerty]

I know that I'm not, but now I can't look at all this Japanese stuff in the same way, it may be healthy for other people, but for me it was a damaging thing to happen to my childhood. I think adults are fine to look at what ever content they like online, but for me I don't want to go back to that, I want to explore my sexuality in the real world.

Wdym

 

[Merchant]

*Hugs*

i dont think you should use this website to find friends, you need to make friends with people your own age, take this from someone who made friends with older people in their youth and they abused it, please talk to people in your real life if you are able, please.

 

[Xdqwerty]

i dont think you should use this website to find friends, you need to make friends with people your own age, take this from someone who made friends with older people in their youth and they abused it, please talk to people in your real life if you are able, please.

But i'm too introvert for that

 

[Merchant]

people shouldnt be having mental health disscussion with children online

But i'm too introvert for that

please take this seriously there are really messed up people on this website that could take advantage of you, I am surprised no one else is telling you these things. That is kind of another reason I don't really want to be in this sphere anymore. People need to be mature to be good role models to the youth.

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But i'm too introvert for that

if you are able, try speaking to your parents or teachers at school.

 

[Xdqwerty]

people shouldnt be having mental health disscussion with children online

please take this seriously there are really messed up people on this website that could take advantage of you, I am surprised no one else is telling you these things. That is kind of another reason I don't really want to be in this sphere anymore. People need to be mature to be good role models to the youth.

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if you are able, try speaking to your parents or teachers at school.

Then give me lots of beer so that I can talk to people irl since alcoholic people are extrovert

 

[RanmyakuIchi's iconRanmyakuIchi]

But i'm too introvert for that

I still stand by what I've said before, that logging off and spending more time away from the internet would be the best thing for you. The internet and social media can really exasperate feelings of depression and isolation.

 

[Merchant]

Then give me lots of beer so that I can talk to people irl since alcoholic people are extrovert

dont use substances to make urself extroverted either, i also have this problem. You just need to find someone irl similar to you, my bff is like my brother. You just need to find people who respect you and your boundaries.

 

[Xdqwerty]

You just need to find people who respect you and your boundaries.

How? (And don't tell me to go find out myself)

I still stand by what I've said before, that logging off and spending more time away from the internet would be the best thing for you. The internet and social media can really exasperate feelings of depression and isolation.

I like being online and I won't take any long breaks as unhealthy as it might sound

 

[Merchant]

How? (And don't tell me to go find out myself)

I like being online and I won't take any long breaks as unhealthy as it might sound

school would be the healthiest thing in my opinion, you could also try school clubs. ask people about what they are interested in, if your introverted, it might be a idea to find someone who likes to talk about their hobbies a lot, in my friendship I am the more extroverted one, but as we have got closer he has started to be more open. its just on the internet you can never really know someone's true intentions, u might meet someone on here claiming to be the same age as you, but in all likelihood they would be lying and trying to take advantage. Making friends with people is as easy as saying that the weather is nice or asking them about what they like to watch etc, you will find your confidence the more you try to interact with people, it wont be easy. But it is more than worth it in the future.

 

[Xdqwerty]

you could also try school clubs

I go to a chess class but almost everyone there is around 1/2 as old as me

 

[Prism_Red]

How? (And don't tell me to go find out myself)

Might sound cliche, but start with yourself, the only person who is always with you and know who you are for the entirety of your life is yourself. Then finding a friend will become more doable, not easier, but doable. After all you wouldn't want to introduce someone you love to a person with bad vibe, would you?

 

[Ícaro Oliveira Santos]

God, I'm so tired of it, I'm tired of there being so much hate in this world, why why why why why do so many people hate trans people, I'm just someone who's starting to question my own gender and suffering from dysphoria!

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I've always been alienated from Masculinity and Gender roles, I've always liked feminine things and things that are for women, I've always liked Series for women and Shoujo Anime and Manga, one of my favorite anime is Utena and series like Cardcaptor Sakura, Vivian is a character that I really relate to and I'm horrified when someone calls her a man, she's a character that gives me great comfort. I hate it when people think trans characters aren't trans and call them cis men or women. It makes me so angry that I start to cry please please just accept me for who I am.

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I Love Yuri Manga I Love Shoujo and Josei Manga, I Love Female Characters I LOVE WOMEN!!!! I Love Vivian she means the world to me!!!!

 

[Xdqwerty]

God, I'm so tired of it, I'm tired of there being so much hate in this world, why why why why why do so many people hate trans people, I'm just someone who's starting to question my own gender and suffering from dysphoria!

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I've always been alienated from Masculinity and Gender roles, I've always liked feminine things and things that are for women, I've always liked Series for women and Shoujo Anime and Manga, one of my favorite anime is Utena and series like Cardcaptor Sakura, Vivian is a character that I really relate to and I'm horrified when someone calls her a man, she's a character that gives me great comfort. I hate it when people think trans characters aren't trans and call them cis men or women. It makes me so angry that I start to cry please please just accept me for who I am.

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I Love Yuri Manga I Love Shoujo and Josei Manga, I Love Female Characters I LOVE WOMEN!!!! I Love Vivian she means the world to me!!!!

*Hugs*

 

[YoshifreakZX]

I unfortunately did have transphobic (and slightly homophobic) views at one point. I feel so much guilt about those days especially after seeing just how badly trans people struggle with being accepted and it is heartbreaking.
I'm at least glad I broke out of that. But I don't think the guilt will ever go away for me.

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Ironic that I was homophobic during that time too because now I consider myself a pansexual!

 

[Cheela]

I unfortunately did have transphobic (and slightly homophobic) views at one point. I feel so much guilt about those days especially after seeing just how badly trans people struggle with being accepted and it is heartbreaking.
I'm at least glad I broke out of that. But I don't think the guilt will ever go away for me.

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Ironic that I was homophobic during that time too because now I consider myself a pansexual!

Don’t beat yourself up for what you used to be. You are more than your past I am glad that you broke out of that hateful view!

 

[Lee__Kanker]

Just saying, many people here really seem to struggle on a fundamental level with themselves and don't know what to do with their lives and you also seem to be awfully young, it's really concerning to see

Maybe talk about it with your parents