I have always played video games - mainly RPGs - to escape the cruel, insensitive reality of our modern world. Cringe, right? I don't care...it's how I feel. Between work, my family, finances, political chaos, war, and random violence on the weekday news, I get burnt out easily. Especially now. Gaming takes me away from that. Particularly co-op games. Right now I'm playing Borderlands 4 and loving it. I can escape reality and enter a world where me and my best friend are blowing up monsters and collecting loot while making funny jokes and laughing. That's priceless,
During GamerGate I remember people telling me that, quote, "You shouldn't be escaping reality, you must face it in games and deal with it". The idea was that you had to be inundated with politics, social messaging, and "awareness" even when gaming. It's the one issue that really bugged me about that whole business. So you're saying the social injustices I see on TV I always have to witness in my games? That I'm an "immature manbaby" if I escape reality?
I pay my bills. Own a home. Work 40 hours a week. I've earned the right to "Escape reality" for a few hours a day if I feel the need. We *all* have. If that's a bad thing, then so be it, I'm a weak person.
You can't even escape it online anymore either. You go to any social media site and you are told to take a stance. State your opinion. Choose a side. Well, I don't want to. There's enough people choosing sides. I don't mind if people want to play games that are full of real world political scenarios and choices. Great, enjoy your games. I promise I won't protest it or stop you...but please do not tell me I cannot have games that eschew those real world themes for something easily digestible and mindless. Or that I'm somehow less of a person for not wanting them.
Sorry if it comes off a bit harsh. I'm not referencing anyone here, just people and places I've interacted with in the past.