I'm 22 Years Old And Scared Of The Future.

[Clippy]

Welcome and good luck out there.

 

[Comster]

Welcome!

 

[KingCarnage]

Welcome!

 

[nobitakun]

So, you escaped from your country when you were 18 and have been living in a foreign country for 4 years and didn't make any friend or acquaintance? were your workmates all robots?

This only calls for more questions:

• You really had to escape from your country?
• In these 4 years of working, could you use your free time to study something that would give you a better situation afterwards?
• Couldn't just move far away and start a new life in a place where all the people talks your native language?
• Isn't possible to return to your country somewhere else, without saying anything to what is causing you personal problems?
• Isn't possible to go to another country where it is easier for you to find the type of job you're used to?

I always honor people who go to foreign places with uncertain situations, that's brave. But that should help to evolve and stay away from your fears and ghosts. You're still young, and that's the reason why you're unexperienced and lack some social skills, but that is fixable with more time.

Just focus on what you want and forget about your personality. If you're shy, just go to a public place and scream, go to a discotec and start dancing like crazy or take a megaphone and start talking on a mass meeting. Push yourself and cross the boundaries of craziness and you will earn one of the most valuable things in life: shamelessness.

 

[Heinzu]

Hello and welcome on RGT

 

[O_Fender]

Warm welcome. Feel free to write or interact at anytime you would like to. Best of luck.

 

[Straydog]

Welcome. I wish you the best.

 

[superFreak420]

You eventually stop caring about the fear. Society is designed from the ground up to keep you down. It's literally an old man's world. Don't be afraid to break the rules for yourself, your future, and people you care about- you literally need to. Try to train yourself to have the foresight you'll need to not hurt anyone who actually makes an effort to behave like a human being and you'll have done nothing wrong.
It gets easier, good luck.

 

[Wild Child]

Totally understandable. I've been terrified of the future for the past few years because things suddenly got very real for me. But I would say don't worry because if I can manage then anyone can. And the experience thing is a little annoying, but I've found that it's the kinda thing where you just gotta keep trying and eventually someone will give you a chance and then before you know it you have the experience. Keep your head up and feel free to reach out if you need to!