How would you talk to a women

[Tonberry]

Duh, it's like the first option on the menu that shows up in your head whenever you think.

 

[qw90700]

i guess you either have charisma or you don't

Well it's a great factor actually but there are stuff beyond charisma too.

For example not many people would care to listen to you if you look ugly and/or have a really bad voice. Even the medical doctor supposed to listen to you to figure out your sickness wouldn't listen to you and you would end up dying lol. So when you that unfortunate no amount of education will make people listen to you.

But some people have the charisma so despite they are ugly and their voice sounds like frogs being horribly killed they can be very popular actors in Hollywood movies!!!

And there is "life hack" skill called "being intimidating". When your looks make people's soul run away faster than their body can they wanna listen to you and do whatever you want. This is funny and what a BS, they "know" you won't hurt them but their body is so scared this fear effecting their whole decision making process. A person may either have a scary look and/or voice, so they can do anything without knowing "how to". They just give the order and people does it.

So if you are not intimidating, have no charisma, you are ugly and your voice is so bad things are way behind of "how to talk" because people will ignore your existence unless you fire a gun because no one will listen to such people lol.

 

[Pandaprewmaster325]

you guys are hella alpha, I tremble at the mere sight of a woman.

Nah the people here are gammas , alpha can't even go through paper if you know what i mean

 

[DjQuick2008]

I find talking to women quite easy ive had 3 groups of ladies as friends in my life. Im in a spiritual community so i can talk to women around healing practices and spiritual development. None of my male friends are into any of this so i feel like the odd one out.

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Nah the people here are gammas , alpha can't even go through paper if you know what i mean

im a sigma i can walk into hell and out again if it means my objective has been achieved. Alphas are dicks to me.

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Talk some bs about psychology, if they are in college, Freud always works, if they already left college, Jung is better.

Then, I can pretty much keep a conversation about anything, but I will always stir it towards Philosophy or History, cause I expect high intelligence and for them to keep up with me.

As for general advice, tell them what they want to hear, works on both men and women.

Sat up all night with a lady in 2020 with a lit fire. Felt like a night of culture unfortunately lost contact with her the lockdowns led us in different directions although shes definitely the most interesting woman ive ever met. We met in an art class originally and just hit it off.

 

[PrismRed]

some people don't want to accept being told "bro just be yourself" because they think of themselves as a sperg with no confidence in themselves. they believe that they need someone to teach them the secret method and recipe to social interaction that they can't discover themselves. and it doesn't really exist. you just talk to people. that's it. that's how it works.

Conclusion; talking to people in general is harder than demon negotiation in old SMT games.

 

[qw90700]

I find talking to women quite easy ive had 3 groups of ladies as friends in my life. Im in a spiritual community so i can talk to women around healing practices and spiritual development. None of my male friends are into any of this so i feel like the odd one out.

Hmm it must be why women hate me because instead of talking about these BS stuff for healing I eat Nacho Cheese Doritos©℗® and for "spiritual development" I accept the fact that spirit doesn't exist and for general development I practice and learn what I wanna do by Googling it. No need for such a community and talk about such stuff when how to do these are so simple!!!! lolol

 

[Faust03]

I like rambling about whatever it is I like to ramble about and sometimes it draws attention..

 

[qw90700]

I like rambling about whatever it is I like to ramble about and sometimes it draws attention..

The attention you draw:

lololol

 

[DjQuick2008]

Because I know half of the people on this site have never talked to a women besides their moms how would you talk to one?

Hmm it must be why women hate me because instead of talking about these BS stuff for healing I eat Nacho Cheese Doritos©℗® and for "spiritual development" I accept the fact that spirit doesn't exist and for general development I practice and learn what I wanna do by Googling it. No need for such a community and talk about such stuff when how to do these are so simple!!!! lolol

there was a time i was in so much darkness i rejected spiritual practice and was walking in darkness. Takes something major to happen to you where your shown the door.

 

[Anti-Law Savior]

Talk to her like I would talk to any normal person, then go about my day like I'm sure she'll do too.

 

[Boo Man]

i guess you either have charisma or you don't

i believe the youngins call that "Riz" these days
something im sadly lacking
i told the Dr but he said its because i was born without a personality and refused to give me any riz pills

 

[qw90700]

there was a time i was in so much darkness i rejected spiritual practice and was walking in darkness. Takes something major to happen to you where your shown the door.

I like darkness because thus nothing can see me!!! But under the light you are in the spotlight for your enemies!!! lolol

 

[What's His Face]

Where I live, chatting-up women is the easiest and fastest way to get arrested for harassment. And it's getting worse by the day. Straight men where I live usually just use that Ani thing and call it good.

Spoiler: Does "Grok" sound like the sound a toad would make to anyone else? Anyone?

 

[qw90700]

Where I live, chatting-up women is the easiest and fastest way to get arrested for harassment.

Same here where I live. Women have complete power over using "this guy harassed me" and "sexually assaulted me" cards to make men jailed without even their guilt being proven especially to have men pay fines to the woman. So until your turn comes up to prove your innocence you rot in jail for 5 to 10 years. If you get out in a year for "good behavior" you still pay the fine to the woman until your innocence is proven so it's relatively better to stay in jail then pay the fine for years. The BS is when you cannot prove your innocent law automatically accepts you did commit the crime so there is no way to get away from it unless you strategically always stand where public cameras records your action. That's why never be in the same room with random women and if you have to stay away and be under security cameras lol.

In that regard there are tons of police where I live. They even almost arrested one of my friends because he gave back massage to his wife and police was like "iS tHIs dOmeStIc VioLancE???!!!1" until she had to convince cops this is just a back massage lol. People here act like women doesn't exist unless they are blood relative, but when it comes to family members you still better don't do anything unnecessary because suddenly cops come to the possible crime scene even with tanks and military jet planes!!!1 lol

 

[fmsynthetic]

Remember to conceal your power level

 

[Sir Auriel of Lionel]

Honestly no clue and I've been a woman for 20 years.

 

[Ikagura Ikagura]

Step one: don't be creepy.


That's all.

 

[What's His Face]

Step one: don't be creepy.


That's all.

Define "creepy." I've had HR called on me for telling a co-worker "g'mornin'" as they passed by me without even looking up at them because the woman thought I was being "a creepy stalker." The office cameras proved that she was lying out her ass.

She's now a division manager, btw.

 

[qw90700]

Define "creepy." I've had HR called on me for telling a co-worker "g'mornin'" as they passed by me without even looking up at them because the woman thought I was being "a creepy stalker." The office cameras proved that she was lying out her ass.

She's now a division manager, btw.

Well common sense is that even valid on internet: If you are a man ignore anyone that's not a man and that's all. Even if you have the same sex but when the person is minor or there is a significant age gap then their family causes drama. That's the way it is lol.

 

[Ikagura Ikagura]

Define "creepy." I've had HR called on me for telling a co-worker "g'mornin'" as they passed by me without even looking up at them because the woman thought I was being "a creepy stalker." The office cameras proved that she was lying out her ass.

She's now a division manager, btw.

Since I don't have the full picture I cannot make a good judgement but maybe the way you said it could've been perceived as rude or too insisting.

I tend to take a neutral tone when I speak to people I don't have close ties to so I'd avoid any misinterpretation.

Well common sense is that even valid on internet: If you are a man ignore anyone that's not a man and that's all. Even if you have the same sex but when the person is minor or there is a significant age gap then their family causes drama. That's the way it is lol.

Sorry but why would you speak to a kid you don't know.

And you can understand a father not wanting their kid to have a random adult speaking to them. You can never be safe enough.

 

[Pandaprewmaster325]

im a sigma i can walk into hell and out again if it means my objective has been achieved. Alphas are dicks to me.

Still sigma isn't strong enough be gamma be nuclear radiation so you turn on everyone around you it's the ultimate way.

This thread still alive? We talking sexual harassment now? Guys he said how to talk to women not what shit experiences you had in the office

 

[qw90700]

Still sigma isn't strong enough be gamma be nuclear radiation so you turn on everyone around you it's the ultimate way.

This thread still alive? We talking sexual harassment now? Guys he said how to talk to women not what shit experiences you had in the office

bLEh let's talk about laws of physics lol.

Gamma rays can make the quantum field of electrons excited so hard it produces electrons!!! How cool is that!!! Even Beta ray can do too but not Alpha ray lolol.

 

[Pandaprewmaster325]

bLEh let's talk about laws of physics lol.

Gamma rays can make the quantum field of electrons excited so hard it produces electrons!!! How cool is that!!! Even Beta ray can do too but not Alpha ray lolol.

YES! That's why one must follow the creed of the gamma become like the announcer in system shock 2 would say "radiation hazard"

 

[Ikagura Ikagura]

I'm a sigma i can walk into hell and out again if it means my objective has been achieved. Alphas are dicks to me.

There's no such thing as alpha or sigma with the human species.

In fact even the naming of Alpha for wolves came from a misunderstanding and a debunked biological observation.

 

[Nidstang]

Right now, I'd tell my fiancee "I'm sleepy"