I hadn't visited it, it's a bummer it's gone but it sounds like it's for the best. It doesn't take much for things to spiral out of control, although that can be true with any social media community. When some friends and I had a household Twitch stream several years ago and got a tiny following, even in the very small Discord for our tiny community, there ended up being drama. Spike does a ton for us as it is by hosting and providing this website. If the Discord was causing him stress or anxiety, it doesn't sound worth it. I imagine in some way the existence of the Discord led to the existence of these forums, so that's a net positive in my book. For people who made friends and memories on the Discord, it's not like those friendships need to go away just because that server is gone. It's just the thing that brought you together initially. That's how I try to look back on the forums, messengers and diary sites I frequented back in the day that are now ancient history. Who knows, maybe someday down the line it will make sense to try the Discord thing again.