Loving the responses so far! It's an interesting thing to discuss.
what does been a fan means to you?
to me its not an elitist badge of honor for experiencing the game or for the amount of knowledge that you have for it, but i often feel thats how people see it.
to me its more about whether you enjoy or not something the experience can offer.
I was being a bit nebulous with my definition of 'fan' about as much as the posts I've seen on other sites have been. There isn't really any good way to define it, but I definitely don't see it as an elitist thing. I guess my sort of ham-fisted way of putting a percentage on the word could be confusing, I'm putting that as shorthand to explain how much of the game you can reasonably represent with your fandom, if you will.
My friend I wrote about is a bona fide FF7 fan, yet there's a piece of the picture that she will never understand. But here's where the nuance comes in... If she was schooling me on lore when I had played the game top to bottom, who's really more of a fan there? Is it me because I played, or her with her superior knowledge of the lore and characters? It's a real fun conundrum.
So no I don't see it as an elitist thing. Like I said, I have a rather centrist take on the matter. These things are somewhat transient. That being said, I have been frustrated a bit today reading tweets like the examples I posted where people are giving rather flimsy reasons as to why they don't want to play the games. Some of them are beyond parody. Like, come on...
(ok sorry no more tweet posting, im polluting our fair website)
I guess at the end of the day, most people want to be fans of things to be able to socialize. And the last thing we should be doing these days is discouraging socialization. I just think there should be an honest approach to these things. Don't speak with authority on aspects of a game you have never experienced. Conversely, give room to fans to be into the certain aspects that they like.
Hell, every time I go to Round 1, I play Bad Apple on Wacca Reverse, even though I don't know diddly squat about Touhou. I just love the dang song!
EDIT: I read further and someone brought up Touhou lol