What Do You Guys Think About Living In A Foreign Country ?

Based on how many people I've talk to who've visited foreign places... it HAS to be a less stressful and more pleasant experience generally than I'm worried it would. It still leaves me kind of... petrified, though. lol I'm scared to visit large cities because THEY function so differently, much less a whole other country...
I feel this in my bones. I had a panic attack on my flight to Japan, despite wanting to visit for so long. The best advice I can give is to try to overcome that first big step, you'll end up having a great time once you do.

Hell, I met Saki Fujita (voice of Miku) and froze like a TV dinner, she was sweet and I still had nothing but a good time. Take the plunge!
 
I'm actually kind of terrified to even visit another country. I'm very paranoid about offending people or doing something really wrong or stupid entirely out of ignorance of their culture, and if it's a country that isn't very prominent with English, there's even more issues due to a language barrier.

I feel much the same, on a smaller scale, visiting literally anywhere outside of the midwest.
Funny enough, when i was coming here, i was hoping that my english would work, but when i landed, i noticed that english was the worst language to know in here since nobody needs to talk it because of the region, and yeah it does make you paranoid about offending someone or making a wrong move, but still every country has those, and we learn them by living with them.

Lucky for me though, people here don't mind foreigners "That" much.
 
I feel this in my bones. I had a panic attack on my flight to Japan, despite wanting to visit for so long. The best advice I can give is to try to overcome that first big step, you'll end up having a great time once you do.

Hell, I met Saki Fujita (voice of Miku) and froze like a TV dinner, she was sweet and I still had nothing but a good time. Take the plunge!
Wtf, you met Saki?! You can't just breeze over that!
 
Alright, alright, just wait till I hijack a plane to Japan and score a date with her and then we’ll see who wins. /j
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I've never left the states and rarely leave the city despite hating it so much here. English is my only language too. That makes it hard to move anywhere without a large English speaking population. Next lifetime I guess.
 
As someone who is fairly well-travelled i really don't get this anxiety you guys are talking about. Just act respectful and you should be fine, and if you don't speak the language make sure you go with someone who does know it or hire someone who's local and speaks your native tongue to show you around. But i do recommend you to at least be able to read a basic menu or be able to say stuff like where is the bathroom for example, even if you are just visiting the place for a short time.
 
Never, i have been to many other countries all around, and i will always choose my homeland.

Is dangerous, is the third world, is lacking in many first-world luxuries, but, i wouldn't have it any other way.
 
As long as I keep a comfy box to call home with my games and an internet connection I can find some happiness, though I might be that weird American that talks and feeds cat you see on the road.
 
I've never left the states and rarely leave the city despite hating it so much here. English is my only language too. That makes it hard to move anywhere without a large English speaking population. Next lifetime I guess.
Who says it can't be this lifetime? You're still alive, so it's still possible.

I've never been outside the US. With the way things are going, without being political...I fantasize more and more about leaving, despite not knowing where I'd go. I see the direction things are heading and want to GTFO and not be involved. All of the things I wanted to do in life that I haven't even worked up the nerve to attempt are easier here, but it feels like that time has passed by. Enjoying the rest of life somewhere peaceful, where people look out for each other and think of the greater good before themselves sounds real nice. All that stuff I was taught as a child that doesn't feel represented(in my opinion) in my culture these days.

I'm planning on visiting Japan with some friends in October, so that will certainly be a culture shock. I won't know much Japanese, but I'll do what I can to know what I can and will study customs and cultures beforehand. The last thing I'd want to come off as is some obnoxious asshole American tourist, even if that's exactly what I am in a way. It seems like it'd be a fun place to live, but of course to visit someplace and to live there are two entirely different things.
 
Who says it can't be this lifetime? You're still alive, so it's still possible.

I've never been outside the US. With the way things are going, without being political...I fantasize more and more about leaving, despite not knowing where I'd go. I see the direction things are heading and want to GTFO and not be involved. All of the things I wanted to do in life that I haven't even worked up the nerve to attempt are easier here, but it feels like that time has passed by. Enjoying the rest of life somewhere peaceful, where people look out for each other and think of the greater good before themselves sounds real nice. All that stuff I was taught as a child that doesn't feel represented(in my opinion) in my culture these days.

I'm planning on visiting Japan with some friends in October, so that will certainly be a culture shock. I won't know much Japanese, but I'll do what I can to know what I can and will study customs and cultures beforehand. The last thing I'd want to come off as is some obnoxious asshole American tourist, even if that's exactly what I am in a way. It seems like it'd be a fun place to live, but of course to visit someplace and to live there are two entirely different things.
Welcome to Japan!
Honestly, there aren't many people in Japan who can speak English, so outside of tourist areas like Akihabara, I think only about the level of a 3-year-old's English will be understood.
But if you speak slowly or use a translation app, everyone will try their best to understand you. You'll be fine, as you're such a kind-hearted person!
I hope your journey is peaceful and enjoyable!
 
I don't want to live anywhere else, but home is where your heart is... And that little blood pump knows no geography nor about borders ;D
 
As bad as the US is right now, I doubt I'd ever move. I'm too afraid of offending anyone, and with the attitude a lot of people have towards America and it's citizens right now I feel like I'd be overstaying my welcome as soon as I'd land anywhere else. But I know there are countries that are so much better, and I always fantasize about leaving. But my family would never move anywhere else so I'm stuck here. I wouldn't say that my family is racist, but they are definitely old-school American and don't really take to foreign concepts well. Except for my cousin we were taking care of not too long ago. I was worried some of the people in our sub division would complain, He wore and flew some racist ass stuff. Glad we got him out of here, he disrespected our hospitality and I hope I never see him again.
 
I feel this in my bones. I had a panic attack on my flight to Japan, despite wanting to visit for so long. The best advice I can give is to try to overcome that first big step, you'll end up having a great time once you do.

Hell, I met Saki Fujita (voice of Miku) and froze like a TV dinner, she was sweet and I still had nothing but a good time. Take the plunge!
That's another thing that kind of terrifies me; running into a famous person I care about. I don't know how I'd react, or how they'd want me to react, but I don't think the odds are very high that those are the same answer.


Funny enough, when i was coming here, i was hoping that my english would work, but when i landed, i noticed that english was the worst language to know in here since nobody needs to talk it because of the region, and yeah it does make you paranoid about offending someone or making a wrong move, but still every country has those, and we learn them by living with them.

Lucky for me though, people here don't mind foreigners "That" much.
I've heard a lot of things about how certain cultures will be nice and inviting to your face, but secretly judging and kind of hating you behind your back. I know a lot of that is older generations of certain cultures, and only some people, but it doesn't help the paranoia. @_@
 
I would really like to leave Italy to go live in another country like Canada or Japan. But I suck in english, and japanese it's too hard to learn for me. I'll die here alone as I always lived.
 
I would really like to leave Italy to go live in another country like Canada or Japan. But I suck in english, and japanese it's too hard to learn for me. I'll die here alone as I always lived.
Canada sucks believe me, you're better off staying in Italy. And you're not getting into Japan unless you marry someone who's Japanese or has Japanese Blood, if you have a high proficiency of the language you may get lucky and have them accept you but that seems to be very rare.
 
i think the mistake most people have when moving is thinking itd solve most, if any, of their problems. dont place high expectations in that regard think of it like rearranging your room instead of "getting a better room" and then settling down somewhere new becomes a lot easier. known so many people who get overwhelmed with the fact that instead of getting rid of their issues it just created different ones for them to solve and so they end up moving again as if that would solve these new issues. also they dont often take the language seriously and think they can get by half assing it. you can "get by" but if thats really going to be your home youre essentially just making everything 10x harder for you by just taking shortcuts in this regard. known so many people who lived here for years (decades) and relied on their bilingual partner or friend to do literally anything because theyre too lazy to just dedicate a bit of their lives to properly learn the language. they live here they have to live their whole lives like this with no independence whatsoever. id sooner swallow a bullet than turn my home into my own prison cell
 
I would really like to leave Italy to go live in another country like Canada or Japan. But I suck in english, and japanese it's too hard to learn for me. I'll die here alone as I always lived.
As much as I wanna speak highly of Canada ... the bigger cities have cost of living problems :/ ...

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Anyways ... I had those thoughts in the past since I wanted to be in a place that was a bit more fun ...
Then I realize when I do travel to those said places ... 'Would I be able to get a job here quickly and afford to pay off the costs to stay here and still enjoy/travel around elsewhere?' Answer becomes No. As much as I despise where I live ... at least the job I have pays well enough that I can travel somewhere almost on a yearly basis so ... !!!
 
I wish I could live literally anywhere else except my own country.
 
I've lived in this city all my life except for a suburb just outside of it for a few years. I used to feel very attached to it and living anywhere else would have been unthinkable but since I've fallen out of socializing and having a life I don't think I care about that anymore. Besides, it's changed, as all things do. It's gotten more expensive and I don't know how much I fit in with the dominant attitudes and ideas anymore. I've never really travelled. I'm not old but I'm not young anymore. I think I'd like to see different places and experience things before it's too late. If I did move to a foreign country, I'd want to learn the language, and hopefully not just stay home or hang around expats all day.
 

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