Surprised people are liking this, to me its on the same tier as Homecoming. Weak story that feels like teenager anime fantasy at times, awful combat that can't be ignored, tired horror cliches, etc. Overall it just felt like a desperate attempt to cash in with current trends.
The only part that kinda felt like an anime fantasy to me was the grotesque grooming stuff in the Dark world, really.
Which made some amount of sense to me as it's supposed to be her willfully giving herself over to the idea of becoming a wife for an idealized version of a husband she conjured up only for that idea to then get perverted by... whatever the hell is actually going on or whatever.
Which did get on my nerves, sure, but I think that was at least partially the intent in that you're supposed to be able to see how fake it all really is, while that version of Hinako can't. Or at least that's what I read it as. Still goofy though.
The combat is definitely the problem, totally agree there. I still think it's WAY better than what SH2 Remake had going on, but man for how boring and repetitive it is it's also way too punishing, so you can't even really zone it out. Not a fan.
In this regard I also agree with you that it feels like the game is trying to cash in on current trends - this is a "modern action combat system" in the most generic of terms.
Personally I would have preferred they make combat a giant, risky, but avoidable hassle so that the environmental design and puzzles could carry the experience.
As for horror clichés... Hm, maybe we watch different horror movies. As a guy who mostly watches doofy exploitation horror I can't say I've seen this kind of thing often. Maybe in Midsommar, kinda? Some Grudge during the Rinko segments, at least in the cinematography?
I dunno, it was mostly pretty alien to me in an entertaining way and I can't say that I've seen a lot of horror media that deals with 60s-era systemic sexism.
Anyway, this is already way too much of a ramble, sorry about that. My first playthrough is still fresh in my mind and I'm still sorting my thoughts out.