How would you talk to a women

[Morgana Veil]

i believe the youngins call that "Riz" these days
something im sadly lacking
i told the Dr but he said its because i was born without a personality and refused to give me any riz pills

God dammit, you're the second person to ever make me audibly laugh with text. That was funny.

Honestly just be yourself and talk to them. How I met my current.
Be honest, don't BS them, and never try to pull that slick stuff on a woman. Most see right through it. Don't overthink it or get caught up in trying to say the perfect thing.
Let the conversation happen naturally.

 

[qw90700]

Be honest, don't BS them, and never try to pull that slick stuff on a woman. Most see right through it.

True.

Once I was in a grocery shop to buy meself Nacho Cheese Doritos™©℗®. It was so hot I was really mindless about what I'm doing. Normally I don't drink cola but I was craving for some ice cold one so I was thinking about that.

Because it was hot that day store's door was wide open. Me spotted me Nacho Cheese Doritos behind the open door so I had to temporarily close the door to get one. So naturally I opened the door back to how it was.

Then I heard a woman scream "I have a boyfrieeeeeenddddd" at me clearly. I was like "WTF". Me brain was too melting to even comprehend what just happened.

Then I hugged me Doritos and cola and escaped to a nearest super mall to cool down and consume me precioussss. I even wrote a mathematical formula for what the woman meant:

A man + opens the door + a woman = Evil slick stuff!!!! I was like "wowza the woman thought I opened the door for her!!!" lolol.

 

[secreto7]

True.

Once I was in a grocery shop to buy meself Nacho Cheese Doritos™©℗®. It was so hot I was really mindless about what I'm doing. Normally I don't drink cola but I was craving for some ice cold one so I was thinking about that.

Because it was hot that day store's door was wide open. Me spotted me Nacho Cheese Doritos behind the open door so I had to temporarily close the door to get one. So naturally I opened the door back to how it was.

Then I heard a woman scream "I have a boyfrieeeeeenddddd" at me clearly. I was like "WTF". Me brain was too melting to even comprehend what just happened.

Then I hugged me Doritos and cola and escaped to a nearest super mall to cool down and consume me precioussss. I even wrote a mathematical formula for what the woman meant:

A man + opens the door + a woman = Evil slick stuff!!!! I was like "wowza the woman thought I opened the door for her!!!" lolol.

What if she was funny and positive and joked that you were boyfriend material because you were polite while putting the door how it was?

 

[Samatonic Samatonic]

Just talk, find a simple way of conversing, find a topic that both of you might like, ask and give opinions, listen as if you know them for years, speak as if you know them for months, think as if you know them for days, and look as if got to know them.

 

[qw90700]

What if she was funny and positive and joked that you were boyfriend material because you were polite while putting the door how it was?

There was really no joke or sarcasm about it. She literally screamed in "I hate you" way lolol.

 

[DrunkGecko]

i had to become a woman to be able to truly talk to women. now i know of the woman secrets and the location of the woman emeralds. unfortunately, this is classified woman information, or as i like to call it, "womanformation" so im afraid i will not be able to share this intel

 

[Samatonic Samatonic]

i had to become a woman to be able to truly talk to women. now i know of the woman secrets and the location of the woman emeralds. unfortunately, this is classified woman information, or as i like to call it, "womanformation" so im afraid i will not be able to share this intel

 

[qw90700]

i had to become a woman to be able to truly talk to women. now i know of the woman secrets and the location of the woman emeralds. unfortunately, this is classified woman information, or as i like to call it, "womanformation" so im afraid i will not be able to share this intel

And I had to become a computer to truly talk to computers to make them obey my commands!!! 01101100 01101111 01101100

 

[Samatonic Samatonic]

And I had to become a computer to truly talk to computers to make them obey my commands!!! 01101100 01101111 01101100

 

[DrunkGecko]

And I had to become a computer to truly talk to computers to make them obey my commands!!! 01101100 01101111 01101100

Stop all the downloading

 

[ThirdEidolon]

Because I know half of the people on this site have never talked to a women besides their moms how would you talk to one?

that's a very broad term. talk to them in what way?

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Basic human decency is the only real opener. Superficial charm and pick up lines only work in fiction.

It's not even about human decency, it's about sincerity. Don't show vulnerability though. Most of us don't seem to respond to men bearing their soul, very well. Not sure why.

 

[Burzuru]

i have a new idea. what if you walk up to one, and ask "how much?"
it could work idk.

 

[DAME NINGEN]

Talk to her like I would talk to any normal person, then go about my day like I'm sure she'll do too.

That's what she said.

 

[Kremiso]

i gave up times ago
white flag

reading a Prima walkthrough atm

 

[fmsynthetic]

If you like her just give her a friendly little buttpat

 

[ThirdEidolon]

i have a new idea. what if you walk up to one, and ask "how much?"
it could work idk.

ikura desuka.

 

[qw90700]

It's not even about human decency, it's about sincerity. Don't show vulnerability though. Most of us don't seem to respond to men bearing their soul, very well. Not sure why.

Honestly that's part of a social wisdom that's valid in general!!

For example me father once told me "Listen, Kaito. A magician should never stop assuming a poker face. Always make the audience focus on your hand by making their mind busy trying to understand what you are doing. That's why never stop doing nothing for too long. To understand what you are doing people will focus on your face instead but only if they cannot read your face and cannot predict what you will do your magic will be truly beautiful. But every magic dies out once it's performed therefore you cannot use the same magic trick again, but it can be useful if you significantly change what you do to perform the trick."

Me father is so wise, it works for every social situation, not only while playing Texas Hold 'em!!! lolol

 

[Naltic]

If you go up to a woman thinking she is different from any other person and, as such, you feel like you have to try "harder" just to talk to them, then you have it all wrong from the start. A woman, last time I checked, still has a liver, kidneys, heart, lungs, and brain, like any other person. Sure, they might be a bit different in terms of biological factors, but that is so minimal it's not even worth considering, and at the end of the day, they all share the same objective as any other person. When talking to a woman, don't think so much about how different they are from the people you usually talk to, because they aren't; rather, just talk. Say hi, hello, how are you doing, etc, etc, without wanting anything in return. Because this is the problem I think many have with woman, they always think they want something in return for talking to them, maybe not consciously, but I think as long as you just get rid of that thought in the back of your mind and just see them as who they are: people just like you and me, then I think it will go well. Take it easy, women are also human, like any other, they have shy moments, they have embarrassing things they need to do and even secrets they want to take to the grave, just like you. So take it easy, and I think it will go well.

 

[GuyZero32k4]

Do your first date like this:

 

[ThirdEidolon]

Honestly that's part of a social wisdom that's valid in general!!

For example me father once told me "Listen, Kaito. A magician should never stop assuming a poker face. Always make the audience focus on your hand by making their mind busy trying to understand what you are doing. That's why never stop doing nothing for too long. To understand what you are doing people will focus on your face instead but only if they cannot read your face and cannot predict what you will do your magic will be truly beautiful. But every magic dies out once it's performed therefore you cannot use the same magic trick again, but it can be useful if you significantly change what you do to perform the trick."

Me father is so wise, it works for every social situation, not only while playing Texas Hold 'em!!! lolol

I'm a woman myself, but I tend to use the Metal Gear method of showing interest. Parroting what they say back to them. They usually respond positively to it.

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If you go up to a woman thinking she is different from any other person and, as such, you feel like you have to try "harder" just to talk to them, then you have it all wrong from the start. A woman, last time I checked, still has a liver, kidneys, heart, lungs, and brain, like any other person. Sure, they might be a bit different in terms of biological factors, but that is so minimal it's not even worth considering, and at the end of the day, they all share the same objective as any other person. When talking to a woman, don't think so much about how different they are from the people you usually talk to, because they aren't; rather, just talk. Say hi, hello, how are you doing, etc, etc, without wanting anything in return. Because this is the problem I think many have with woman, they always think they want something in return for talking to them, maybe not consciously, but I think as long as you just get rid of that thought in the back of your mind and just see them as who they are: people just like you and me, then I think it will go well. Take it easy, women are also human, like any other, they have shy moments, they have embarrassing things they need to do and even secrets they want to take to the grave, just like you. So take it easy, and I think it will go well.

best advice I'll say is maybe share an interesting fact about yourself and see if they respond well. If not? Move on.

 

[kamille]

Like you talk to everyone else. Though in my case i never talk to anyone irl unless i absolutely have to.

 

[qw90700]

Metal Gear

lol

 

[ThirdEidolon]

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lol

you laugh, but it totally works.

 

[qw90700]

you laugh, but it totally works.

True. During university we had a lesson on how to make conversations engageable and flowing to make people feel like you as a listener seem to care about what the other person saying so they don't feel they are being ignored and you are not sincere. So indeed one of to ways to make people talk and feel like being listened to is choosing some random words from what they said and saying it back with a questioning voice but you gotta do so without a pattern so the speaker won't think you just asking rhetorical questions just to ask lol. When applied correctly it make people think you wanna know more about what you asked or you seem interested in what they talk about so they either wanna talk about it or they make negative reaction like "It doesn't matter" or "Don't wanna talk about it" or they just drop the conversation and leave the room like a NPC lol.

Another but most effective way is direct eye contact without seeming intimidating so gotta kinda asume a positive smiley face that won't make you look like a creep lol by make sure to make sad face when topic gets sad to mirror the emotional state of the speaker to make them feel related and cared about or at least turning your head and even your whole body towards to person who talks. It make them feel appreciated that their existence and the fact that they talking matters to the listener. In that regard nodding from time to time works the best but avoid seem like you are in a Death Metal concert!!!!

However I found the other part of the lesson misleading. For example professor stated most people like to talk about themselves, especially what they are interested in like hobbies but in reality unless the conversation somehow benefits people wouldn't even wanna talk about themselves, not even about their favorite hobby. Naturally the nature of the situation and the listener depends the most. Oh well, according to my psychology education technically I'm very away from being a human but these educations tends to be theorical that the education itself mostly useless but it does help the person to improve upon it to use the knowledge for their professional pursuits at least.

The tricky part is the fact that unless you look good, smell ok, seem positive and your voice is not annoying people wouldn't wanna listen to you. Most of the conversation is about person trying to predict what your goal is, not actually what you saying which causes misunderstand because people love to put words into your mouth. Naturally when it comes to strangers, especially in real life people imagine worst case senarios enough to make them believe the speaker talks something bad and wanna cause harm or something regardless what the speaker talks about. That's when assuming a smiley positive face help people to be calm and actually realize you are not after insulting or having bad intention towards the listener lol. Otherwise most people will be like "just shut up so I can go", but when you keep talking people may be triggered enough to say something and then they keep listening to when it seems there is an useful outcome from what they may learn about what the speaker talks about at least lol.

 

[DjQuick2008]

first time i met my ex i gave her a ps3 with 8 games ironic thing is ive a ps3 with 50 games now lol thats how i speak to women.

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Still sigma isn't strong enough be gamma be nuclear radiation so you turn on everyone around you it's the ultimate way.

This thread still alive? We talking sexual harassment now? Guys he said how to talk to women not what shit experiences you had in the office

im a dark empath i have a particular set of skills.