Good morning, boys and girls!
Good mornin'!Good morning, boys and girls!
Good thing I’m neitherGood morning, boys and girls!
For now though, I want you to take a deep, long breath…just don't think about it or anything really, relax for a second or for a few minutes. Take a break you know? Because you have tried improving if not a lot then bit by bit. Take a note of what you actually can't do, then practice and repeat.
Why? I'm much older than you and I still haven't figured out anything. That's a fool's errand, my friend. Just take it day-by-day.Part of me feels as if I should have everything organized in life by now.
Why? I'm much older than you and I still haven't figured out anything. That's a fool's errand, my friend. Just take it day-by-day.
Even when I reach your age I strongly doubt I’ll have everything figured out.Why? I'm much older than you and I still haven't figured out anything. That's a fool's errand, my friend. Just take it day-by-day.
Even when I reach your age I strongly doubt I’ll have everything figured out.
So yea, @The Almighty Hamster , you’ve nothing worry about. You’re completely normal.
But here's the thing: you are not watching people being endlessly successful, you are watching a curated, perfectly selected highlight reel of their lives. I used to think of sites like Instagram as poisonous because they showed me how much of a failure I was... then met some of the people I was following IRL and the illusion quickly shattered once I discovered that they weren't the brand clothing-wearing, fancy restaurants-eating, eternal party- going kind like they tried to be. Hell, most worked even worse jobs than me, and resided in worst areas.I guess it's an age-related thing, my generation is much more exposed to other people's lifestyles and achievements through social media so you end up passively / subconsciously comparing yourself to other people. When you're unable to achieve certain milestones it hits harder.
I'm trying not to doompost but the winter blues have gotten me. Part of me feels as if I should have everything organized in life by now. Thank you for your kind message. :'D
You're welcome and please if you need help with anything, ask usThank you, this makes me feel a bit better. I'm gonna go play Mario Kart 64 and relax for a bit.
But here's the thing: you are not watching people being endlessly successful, you are watching a curated, perfectly selected highlight reel of their lives. I used to think of sites like Instagram as poisonous because they showed me how much of a failure I was... then met some of the people I was following IRL and the illusion quickly shattered once I discovered that they weren't the brand clothing-wearing, fancy restaurants-eating, eternal party- going kind like they tried to be. Hell, most worked even worse jobs than me, and resided in worst areas.
I'd advise to never use newspapers nor social media as standards for anything.
Just saying that is proof enough that you are much better than them and that their shallow message didn't reach you.I want to be better but in a way that actually makes me happier, healthier and more fulfilled.
That sounds really wholesome. Have fun.Thank you, this makes me feel a bit better. I'm gonna go play Mario Kart 64 and relax for a bit.
All awesome cars.Just saying that is proof enough that you are much better than them and that their shallow message didn't reach you.
I used to be really annoyed by all the "self-made entrepreneurs" flexing their cars and fancy watches, but then I realized just how hollow everything was. You drive a Lamborghini? That's great! I used to drive around a 25-year-old Regatta-S. Guess what? They both take me places.
Mine had half a dozen owners before I even got to drive it and all it ever needed was a new set of tires. Best money I have ever spent.this thread got me to look up wtf a Regata is and now I kind of want one
that's pretty funny because here fiats have kind of a rep here for being shitboxes, granted a lot of that is because the only models they sold here in recent memory were after they merged with the same company that owns one of the big american automakers and their QC suffered dearly as a resultMine had half a dozen owners before I even got to drive it and all it ever needed was a new set of tires. Best money I have ever spent.
I used to be really annoyed by all the "self-made entrepreneurs" flexing their cars and fancy watches, but then I realized just how hollow everything was. You drive a Lamborghini? That's great! I used to drive around a 25-year-old Regatta-S. Guess what? They both take me places.
Lmaoo I love this mindset.If a car goes vroom and can take me to point A and point B in a comfortable fashion, it doesn't really matter what the cost or manufacture is.
Lmaoo I love this mindset.
Honestly basedI'm utilitarian for things that are designed to be utilitarian i.e. cars, shoes, the internet etc. When it comes to art-related things involving intricate design then that warrants splashing the cash a wee bit.
Honestly based