Could you handle a Yandere Girlfriend/Boyfriend ?

[hardcoretyphoon hardcoretyphoon]

but in todays society its for many the only shot they got at love with a woman who truly loves the and never cheats on them

Who hurt you?

 

[Retro Doomer]

Who hurt you?

Society did but in seriously the numbers of single man have been rising extremely in most Western Nations with many giving up on dating completely as they feel undesirable and many who completely lost their trust in Woman so a Yandere would seem for many of this man as the only solution they have left.

It happens far to often with the whole cheating nowadays with shit like only fans and open relationships and so on and it also became unaffordable as Women still expects a high class man who can pay for everything for every date and are looking for such man even if reality has become quite different nowadays many man simply can't afford this anymore and they can't compete with the Top 1% of man that this woman lust over thanks to Social Media and the Internet where many don't even look at regular man anymore as they want the best of the best 6 Figures 6 feet tall guy.

 

[hardcoretyphoon hardcoretyphoon]

Before this thread gets closed I want to tell to not fetishise toxic/abusive behavious nor disabilities please.


Tomboy is a character archetype but irl I feel that we shouldn't classify people like that because it essentialises them in a way...

This. Ive known real people who are like the "yandere" archetype, and it is NOT a good thing to romanticize

 

[Retro Doomer]

This. Ive known real people who are like the "yandere" archetype, and it is NOT a good thing to romanticize

Well sure its nothing you should strife for its more a if as not many haveany choices anymore its for many sadly this or die single,many have trust issues justified and unjustified.

Idealy you get a mentally stable partner,but a Yandere is more a last option for folks thar have deep trust issues or generally have given up on dating.

 

[Megarockman _1987 Megarockman _1987]

Society did but in seriously the numbers of single man have been rising extremely in most Western Nations with many giving up on dating completely as they feel undesirable and many who completely lost their trust in Woman so a Yandere would seem for many of this man as the only solution they have left.

It happens far to often with the whole cheating nowadays with shit like only fans and open relationships and so on and it also became unaffordable as Women still expects a high class man who can pay for everything for every date and are looking for such man even if reality has become quite different nowadays many man simply can't afford this anymore and they can't compete with the Top 1% of man that this woman lust over thanks to Social Media and the Internet where many don't even look at regular man anymore as they want the best of the best 6 Figures 6 feet tall guy.

 

[Zerpina]

The Yandere girlfriend trope can be kind of cute in anime if done right... sometimes it works for the story. Most of the time, though, it's just a girl being a bitch. I know about nutjob girls, believe me.

And no, psycho girlfriends are not worth the time, trouble, or the risk of getting stabbed in your sleep.

Go for the goth girlfriend. The worst they will do is try to blood sacrifice you to some dark entity

 

[Megarockman _1987 Megarockman _1987]

The Yandere girlfriend trope can be kind of cute in anime if done right... sometimes it works for the story. Most of the time, though, it's just a girl being a bitch. I know about nutjob girls, believe me.

And no, psycho girlfriends are not worth the time, trouble, or the risk of getting stabbed in your sleep.
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Go for the goth girlfriend. The worst they will do is try to blood sacrifice you to some dark entity

superior gothic

 

[Retro Doomer]

The Yandere girlfriend trope can be kind of cute in anime if done right... sometimes it works for the story. Most of the time, though, it's just a girl being a bitch. I know about nutjob girls, believe me.

And no, psycho girlfriends are not worth the time, trouble, or the risk of getting stabbed in your sleep.
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Go for the goth girlfriend. The worst they will do is try to blood sacrifice you to some dark entity

I may be far fatched but

what about a Yandere Goth girlfriend..
;) but seriously a mentally unstable person is not Ideal if you have theoption to chose also I like me some Goth girlfriend.

 

[hardcoretyphoon hardcoretyphoon]

For the people reading this thread. If your choice is between an obsessive abusive girlfriend, and no girlfried. Stay single!!! Anime is not real, stay single, love yourself, and one day you'll find your person. Or you'll learn to be happy just by yourself

Ps. Obsessing over archetypes isnt gonna get you a girl any faster. Source: me (girl)

 

[Zerpina]

Look, I know this is a cute little forum thread, but if you all are really pining for a yandere girlfriend, have a look at a real-life one

 

[Retro Doomer]

Look, I know this is a cute little forum thread, but if you all are really pining for a yandere girlfriend, have a look at a real-life one

I am a gamer real life is scary for me either way..

But sure avoid psycho woman a bit clingy is fine full blown psycho however not and no you can't fix her.

Get a Goth girlfriend instead or a tomboy either is fine.

 

[Ikagura]

Society did but in seriously the numbers of single man have been rising extremely in most Western Nations with many giving up on dating completely as they feel undesirable and many who completely lost their trust in Woman so a Yandere would seem for many of this man as the only solution they have left.

Blaming society is easier than reflect upon ourselves.

Men being single rising is merely a proportionality thing as there are more people. Women not wanting to date or be in a couple/married is also a legitimate choice.

It happens far to often with the whole cheating nowadays with shit like only fans and open relationships and so on and it also became unaffordable as Women still expects a high class man who can pay for everything for every date and are looking for such man even if reality has become quite different nowadays many man simply can't afford this anymore and they can't compete with the Top 1% of man that this woman lust over thanks to Social Media and the Internet where many don't even look at regular man anymore as they want the best of the best 6 Figures 6 feet tall guy.

I am no fan of Only Fans but the content creators on it are ultimately adults and as long as there's nothing illegal done it's up to them to use it (same with open relationships).

But there's one simple advice about relationship: just be a decent person and this should suffice.

For the people reading this thread. If your choice is between an obsessive abusive girlfriend, and no girlfried. Stay single!!! Anime is not real, stay single, love yourself, and one day you'll find your person. Or you'll learn to be happy just by yourself

Ps. Obsessing over archetypes isnt gonna get you a girl any faster. Source: me (girl)

I'm glad to see someone more down to Earth in this topic, as much as I don't mind some archetypes they are restricted to fiction, real life people are more complex than those two dimensional anime character (pun intended).

 

[vulonkaaz's iconvulonkaaz]

Look, I know this is a cute little forum thread, but if you all are really pining for a yandere girlfriend, have a look at a real-life one

based and waifu material

for legal reasons I have to make this disclaimer to remind you that I do not, in fact, condone real life violence

 

[Retro Doomer]

Blaming society is easier than reflect upon ourselves.

Men being single rising is merely a proportionality thing as there are more people. Women not wanting to date or be in a couple/married is also a legitimate choice.


I am no fan of Only Fans but the content creators on it are ultimately adults and as long as there's nothing illegal done it's up to them to use it (same with open relationships).

But there's one simple advice about relationship: just be a decent person and this should suffice.


I'm glad to see someone more down to Earth in this topic, as much as I don't mind some archetypes they are restricted to fiction, real life people are more complex than those two dimensional anime character (pun intended).

 

[Megarockman _1987 Megarockman _1987]

based and waifu material

for legal reasons I have to make this disclaimer to remind you that I do not, in fact, condone real life violence

waifu material???
are you kiddin?

 

[Ikagura]

Okay, I don't want to come to this but... how about them not whining about being single and self-reflect for a bit?

Maybe if guys are single it's a them problem not "women are being mean for not wanting to date with me".

I mean just being a decent human being that sees women as humans and not something to lust after should be the bare minimum and if she only wants to be your friend with nothing else happening it's her right, nobody's entitled to have her go with the guy just because he's being nice to her either.

I'd rather have this topic getting moderated because this being a gaming forum doesn't mean it should delve into problematic territories and fetishization.

 

[hardcoretyphoon hardcoretyphoon]

Okay, I don't want to come to this but... how about them not whining about being single and self-reflect for a bit?

Maybe if guys are single it's a them problem not "women are being mean for not wanting to date with me".

I mean just being a decent human being that sees women as humans and not something to lust after should be the bare minimum and if she only wants to be your friend with nothing else happening it's her right, nobody's entitled to have her go with the guy just because he's being nice to her either.

I'd rather have this topic getting moderated because this being a gaming forum doesn't mean it should delve into problematic territories and fetishization.

Yeah, this thread gettin kinda incel-y. Most women i've known are pretty cautious when talking to men and i think if anything is making it hard for men to find girlfriends its that i think women have higher standards of trust these days. And honestly there are a lotta weirdo guys these days too.

Im sick of relationships being seen as something men "deserve". I agree with you, if you hang out with some people, get close with someone, be a good person and theres chemistry then i think any upstanding citizen can find their sweetheart.

 

[Ikagura]

Yeah, this thread gettin kinda incel-y. Most women i've known are pretty cautious when talking to men and i think if anything is making it hard for men to find girlfriends its that i think women have higher standards of trust these days. And honestly there are a lotta weirdo guys these days too.

Im sick of relationships being seen as something men "deserve". I agree with you, if you hang out with some people, get close with someone, be a good person and theres chemistry then i think any upstanding citizen can find their sweetheart.

I don't use the word incel because it has become a bit overused but there are indeed even nerds and geeks that have a healthy and consensual relationship with someone who's not a yandere nor any anime archetype.

This obsession about anime tropes applied to real people is what gives anime fans a bad name. Otakus and Weebs don't appreciate Japanese things rightfully after all, they have an altered view on that culture and only focus on a few things.

 

[hardcoretyphoon hardcoretyphoon]

I don't use the word incel because it has become a bit overused but there are indeed even nerds and geeks that have a healthy and consensual relationship with someone who's not a yandere nor any anime archetype.

This obsession about anime tropes applied to real people is what gives anime fans a bad name. Otakus and Weebs don't appreciate Japanese things rightfully after all, they have an altered view on that culture and only focus on a few things.

Yeah incel might not be the most helpful word. I guess i was getting at that sorta thought process of blaming others for being single yknow

 

[Retro Doomer]

Ah fuck this turns to Reddit speaking about mans problems and that dating is not easy for man nowadays is not incel sppech this word get throw around so much like Nazi and Racist that looses its meaning nobody is going to take it serious anymote if everything is called Incel jeez its annoying and and I can see from your reply you did not watch the video.

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Yeah incel might not be the most helpful word. I guess i was getting at that sorta thought process of blaming others for being single yknow

Yes it has been overused

 

[hardcoretyphoon hardcoretyphoon]

Ah fuck this turns to Reddit speaking about mans problems and that dating is not easy for man nowadays is not incel sppech this word get throw around so much like Nazi and Racist that looses its meaning nobody is going to take it serious anymote if everything is called Incel jeez its annoying and and I can see from your reply you did not watch the video.

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Yes it has been overused

Do I HAVE to watch the video? I do not like shoe on head. Yes i apologize for using the word incel. But its not like people throw those words around for no reason. I do not want to get political but it feels very entitled that when you say shit about women its fine but when people on the other side speak out it's "virtue signalling" or "reddit".

 

[MajesticSiN]

Yes, but I wouldn't want to.

 

[vulonkaaz's iconvulonkaaz]

incel is the new godwin point

 

[hardcoretyphoon hardcoretyphoon]

Yknow i really wish i didnt say that one word because it feels like theres more focus on that than what im actually trying to say

 

[Retro Doomer]

Do I HAVE to watch the video? I do not like shoe on head. Yes i apologize for using the word incel. But its not like people throw those words around for no reason. I do not want to get political but it feels very entitled that when you say shit about women its fine but when people on the other side speak out it's "virtue signalling" or "reddit".

Where did I say shit about Woman this so typical Reddit behavior laying words in my mouth its tiresome and thos words are often thrown around for no reason I seen married man who get called Incel or people you simply disagree with the word has lost its meaning as its been used falsily so often.

Also I never said anything aboul all or most woman when I spoke about cheating I refered to some not all its really tiresome.

'Entitled' how typical.
Unlike some I make it clear I have nothing against anyone vecause of their biological sex.
Also this virtual signaling was going is long before any specifics.