Anyone have a problem starting loads of games and not finishing them?

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I have a massive collection of legally obtained rooms *cough. I used to be obsessed with emulators; until my homebrewed 3ds and a small crt I have got me into homebrewed consoles with flashcarts and the like. I tend to play alot of fighting and puzzle games. But they aren't really games I'm tryna beat that much. I was wondering if other people also tend to start games and either get bored or adhd into another game lol. Im currently the furthest in disgaea3 on rpcs3 and smt strange journey and dragon quest 5. Also playing Sakura wars on my Saturn. I wish I wasn't so slow at rpgs so I could list off all the ones I've beaten lol.
 
Gosh yes, always. Whether it's games I own physically or digitally, or stuff I'm emulating. I hardly ever finish games. Some of it comes down to an embarrassment of riches, and some of it is me losing interest. Often a long game just runs out of steam for me, and I can be enjoying it immensely until that point. I sunk 35 hours into Octopath Traveler II and was very much into it, but then Persona 3 Reload came out which took priority (I did hammer and finish it in a couple of weeks), and I haven't gone back to OT since. Cut and paste this story throughout my life.

Unless it's an exceptional circumstance I think the ideal game length for me is around 10-12 hours. If I'm enjoying a game that's about that length there's a high chance I'll finish it.
 
I limit myself to 50 or 70 games for now because after it reached the maximum amount, I've always checked the game that I haven't finished in a long time. But yes I still haven't finished some of those games despite coming back to it countless times, but I'll keep trying (especially those NES classics)
 
For me, no. I don't have access to or the time to just try every game I think is interesting so I have to be picky. However, I do have a problem completing those games because once they're completed, there is very little reason to keep playing. So I intentionally further the campaign/story at a snail's pace. Such examples being:

- Assassin's Creed Black Flag (going around just randomly pick pocketing, random brawls.)
- Dragon's Dogma
- Yakuza 5
- XCOM Enemy Within
- Ni No Kuni
- Dishonored
- Bioshock Infinite (havent touched in a long time)
- Persona 5

You'll notice that these are all 7th gen games. Yes, I still have a working PS3.
Jailbroken, yes. Well, HEN actually.
 
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For me, no. I don't have access to or the time to just try every game I think is interesting so I have to be picky. However, I do have a problem completing those games because once they're completed, there is very little reason to keep playing. So intentionally further the campaign/story at a snail's pace. Such examples being:

- Assassin's Creed Black Flag (going around just randomly pick pocketing, random brawls.)
- Dragon's Dogma
- Yakuza 5
- XCOM Enemy Within
- Ni No Kuni
- Dishonored
- Bioshock Infinite (havent touched in a long time)
- Persona 5

You'll notice that these are all 7th gen games. Yes, I still have a working PS3.
Jailbroken, yes. Well, HEN actually.
Yeah it's a pattern for most games nowadays
 
18 games currently playing according to my backloggd. But that I am actually actively playing its just 5. Idk sometimes I am just not feeling a specific game and want to start a different one, even when I am in the middle or very late into the game. I either end up returning to the game after a month or two, or realize that the game simply isn't for me and drop it. The downsides are that you kinda lose the pace and may even forget how to play. But if I stopped doing this I would probably stop playing long games altogether.
 
The ADHD is strong with me, so unless I hyper focus on it, or make a conscious effort to continue playing a game, I have a hard time being focused enough to get through most of the games I start. I find that recording my gaming sessions are a good way to not lose the plot, so to speak.
 
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yes unfortunately this is a trait that should be changed in me, but I'm trying to hold back and actually finish a game before moving on to another
 
I have a lot of games i'm currently playing, but after i reach the limit that i imposed to myself(5 games) then i only start another one if i beat or uninstall one of the games i'm currently playing. This helps me finish more games and lowers my already long backlog.
 
I have two stages of playing games.
1- Tasting the game
2- Playing the game
I usually taste any new game i get, which can take from a few minutes to at most an hour or two.
But always choose just one game to actually play, and i play it to end.
 
Well, you don't really "beat" fighting and puzzle games, do you? Unless there's a story mode and those are usually very short. I consider Tekken completed when I unlocked all characters and filled Theater Mode. Now you don't unlock much and cosmetics grind never ends, so it's just getting all endings.

But yeah I used to have a HUGE problem of restartitis, I have countless RPGs started and dropped because I want to recreate a character... or find out I missed tons of stuff before. Worst example is Bioware games, I finished KOTOR dilogy and Mass Effect trilogy multiple times, but Baldur's Gate and Icewind Dale is party creation simulators. Fallout and Dragon Age are modding toolkits with games being attached to them. So...

I got out of the cycle of endless restarts by actually picking some shorter games to just get to the end, selected more manageable games to 100%, and finally, focused on more linear RPGs without open world distracting you so much.

Like, I have a save in FF1 right before final dungeon from years ago... and FF13 in the last 20% of the game or so, but I got all tails and summons in FF4 and finished it properly, then went through the PAINFUL minigames in FFX, and on track to one-shot the last bosses like I Rikku mugged Seymour. xD Note that I am deliberately choosing the MOST linear RPGs because you get lost in more open games forever.

*** *** ***

I actually went back and finished first, original Assassin's Creed, so now I have Ezio games and Origins done 100%, same with first five Tomb Raiders and Rise... Where I need to pick up my 87% save from TR2013.

Problem with these games is you get burned out way before you can finish them, I love when you can do the post-game completion for treasure search and collectathons, most older RPGs forcing you to go back before final fight and spend hours grinding for useless items when you could have just finished the story is bad game design, no two ways around that... But thanks to post-game, Rise of the Tomb Raider is one of very few modern games I have a 100% save on, it didn't overstay its welcome. AC Origins is also well paced.

So to avoid burnout, I take breaks and switch to short arcade games. Apart from having a Retroarch setup on Steam with RetroAchievements and all, I also got a PS3 with custom firmware and some arcade ports installed, it's a really neat console where you can emulate three others natively and play Crazy Taxi or Daytona USA on breaks... or get a few rounds in Tekken TAG HD.

What this all boils down to is that to avoid being burning out between endless fighters and modern-ish games that reward you for exploring endlessly, and actually enjoy them without a feeling of "I haven't actually finished a game in years", I just go through something like Golden Axe, Contra, Metal Slug, or Final Fight, you need like what, 40 minutes for each? That's less than one Blitzball league and I went through like three or four to get ONE weapon.

And sometimes I got insane and try to 100% achievements in Civilization 5 and 6, a game series that I literally never finished a game on. There are saves that help with that. It's crazy but fun!

But overall, I just learned to stop worrying and enjoy games I can't do perfectly, and I found out letting games play even with something missed is far more enjoyable than restarting all the time and then being so OP at the end, the grind had no point to it.
 
I gave up on "trying" to finish games and chose to look at my backlog as a buffet rather than a checklist. I finish what I finish, I don't finish what I don't finish. I enjoy games least when I feel like I need to get to the end before starting something new.

One of my most pleasant surprises in my game library was Vampire: The Masquerade Bloodlines on PC. It was sitting around untouched for almost a decade after I bought it for dirt cheap after seeing how good the review score is. Knowing next to nothing about the game itself, I installed it on a whim when my current games weren't holding my attention for whatever reason, and I was hooked until the end.

There was a nagging feeling that it wasn't such a great idea to put whatever I was playing on the backburner, but after I got past all that, I discovered another new favorite game and felt utterly elated as a result.
 
All the time! Like I've tried to get through Dark Souls countless times. Not because of the difficulty, but I have SO many games on my backlog that keep grabbing my attention. I am currently on my 5th run now? So wish me luck, I'm already getting distracted with restoring my childhood game library :c playing Alan Wake 2, and others.

I also enjoy mod the hell out of a game before I really start playing it, then I end up dropping it because I took so much time modding it I get burnt out.

I have a problem :rolleyes:
 
You gotta hunt and kill that sunken cost fallacy, if the game isn't working for you, broom it and move on.

In many cases it's the other way around, restarting a game instead of finishing or going around sidequesting forever isn't because of sunk cost fallacy. It's more about destructive perfectionism.
 
I'm a one game at the time man, so my list is long, but drop game with bad gameplay, very long history,
recently ceased playing atelier totori, mechanics and gameplay are too boring and slow to me,
 

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