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It would be fair if, before banning someone immediately, you could send one or two warnings to him, to give the culprit a chance to apologize, and constructively change their attitude toward others. Here, as in reality, it is nice, humane and fair to give another chance to those who make mistakes, isn't it?
On the grandfather of this site (GBAtemp), they give 1 or two warnings (with a specific message, and with a specific entry in the profile) before banning someone.
I have received two over the years: one for a download link of copyrighted material (which is not a crime here, It seems ?), and the other for questioning a decision of a mod.??‍♂️
You could associate this warning with a specific icon like ☠️ or ? on the user's profile, to keep an eye on a given user and inform others of the possible "danger" about him.
Moreover, I would also like to have one of these among my trophies on the "shelf" of my profile. ?
The important thing in all my speech is to give at least one chance for redemption, before an expulsion.
What do you all think?
 
This sounds very roundabout. If you agree with the site's rules, why make such a long-winded argument about agreeing with them? Why throw in "nuance" that within your own argument effects nothing?

We only know if someone is a racist by their actions. Opinions do not suddenly pop out like a sneeze. They have to deliberately choose to express such views. We can't punish people for their opinions without regards for actions because action needs to be taken for us to even know about them in the first place. "Punish actions not opinions" in this context is as meaningless as a "live, laugh, love" decoration.

And actually, yes, those who have informed opinions have every right and reason to tell those with uninformed opinions that they are wrong. Racism isn't just another opinion. It's a logical failure based in pseudoscience which gets used to harm others. It should be called out for the safety of the community, especially because its most hardcore followers have a history of destroying communities. Nobody has the right to be coddled for presenting a danger to others.

(Side note: One rule you learn if you work in bartending is that if you see any signs that a customer is a neo-Nazi — tattoos, clothes, etc — you kick him out immediately regardless of behavior. Otherwise, he'll bring more with him every time he returns, causing you to lose all your normal customers and have to shutter the business.)

As for their potential ability to contribute to the community, I'd like to share a quote from George Orwell:

Note: Orwell was talking about Salvador Dali, who he considered a good artist, but ultimately worthless because he was a fascist.
First of all, this is an online forum. Safety is not an issue. No one here can hurt you. That is an excuse people use to censor others. The proper answer to bad opinions is good arguments against it, not censorship. Yes you have the right to tell someone they're wrong; you don't have a right to tell them they can't have that opinion or that they can't speak their opinion (in general, not on a private forum like this. The mods are of course free to limit topics as they wish here)

What I meant by actions is that yes someone has to say they are racist or spout racist BS before it can be responded to. But it is an opinion and should be responded to just the same as any other disallowed topics. Whether thats an immediate ban or a warning first or whatever. My point was that I didn't think talking politics should get 3 strikes but saying you hate whites or something should be an instant ban. Treat all disallowed topics the same, otherwise you are effectively punishing someone for what their opinion is by treating it more harshly.

In response to your Orwell quote, I would say of course stop that version of Shakespeare from harming little girls. And punish his actions absolutely! But yes his art still contributes to society and I wouldn't support "canceling" his plays being taught as they are now because they are still worthwhile contributions to society. All people have good and evil in them and if they act on the evil then it should be punished and if they create something good it should be treated good.

I do agree with certain topics being off-limits on this forum. It ruins the vibe when we're discussing things like this. Racist crap has nothing to do with gaming and shouldn't be espoused here. Neither should politics or religion or probably other topics. But we should treat those topics the same, regardless of how we personally feel about them. Thats all I'm saying. Its okay if you disagree.
 
Well, you're almost right; she's merely saying not to forgive or allow his crimes simply so he can create art just because the public likes it.
 
I'm honestly sorry I got roped into this conversation.

I really like this forum and I don't come here to talk about such things as this. Its okay if you disagree with my opinions but we'll have to agree to disagree because I'm done bringing down the mood around here.
 
I'm honestly sorry I got roped into this conversation.

I really like this forum and I don't come here to talk about such things as this. Its okay if you disagree with my opinions but we'll have to agree to disagree because I'm done bringing down the mood around here.
This is why politics in general aren't allowed
 
First of all, this is an online forum. Safety is not an issue. No one here can hurt you. That is an excuse people use to censor others. The proper answer to bad opinions is good arguments against it, not censorship. Yes you have the right to tell someone they're wrong; you don't have a right to tell them they can't have that opinion or that they can't speak their opinion (in general, not on a private forum like this. The mods are of course free to limit topics as they wish here)

I wouldn't be so eager to dismiss racism or hate speech as harmless. We have an audience of different age ranges and we don't know what kind of effect those words could have on the young and impressionable. Plus, if we tolerate hate speech that is a signal to a certain type of group that this is a haven for their ilk. Pretty soon this place will be looking like another 4chan, filled with slurs and hate speech.
 
I wouldn't be so eager to dismiss racism or hate speech as harmless.
I have been on both ends of it as a younger dude. It's about the most violent thing you can do to a person without actually laying a hand on them.
 
I have been on both ends of it as a younger dude. It's about the most violent thing you can do to a person without actually laying a hand on them.
As they say, it makes you just as guilty for inaction toward injustice.

Also, go back to your Dude ranch dude  ?
 
As they say, it makes you just as guilty for inaction toward injustice.
I'm just glad I had good role models who helped me move away from the absolute wreck of a person I used to be. It's still an ongoing process, however.
 
I'm just glad I had good role models who helped me move away from the absolute wreck of a person I used to be. It's still an ongoing process, however.
Ditto to that ? ?
 
I'm just glad I had good role models who helped me move away from the absolute wreck of a person I used to be. It's still an ongoing process, however.
Very commendable, this self-criticism and this humble and constructive attitude. A good example for many here. ?
Welp, I was following the debate with interest, but in a little while I have to go to sleep. ?
 
Ironically, we had better video game discussions on forums when we were teenagers. The only thing we cared about was video games!

Maybe. I'm meaning a lot of games (until you got to the PS1) didn't have the space for anything but the raw gameplay usually, with RPG's probably holding more in raw text/story than other games.

It was also a world where everything wasn't figured out and there was a lot more mystery involved.

Makes me wonder if larger space was a mistake for video games. Remember when you went from floppy disks to CD-ROM, put a game on and it's 20 Megabytes, and many companies are 'We have all this space! Let's put something there!' and you started getting tons of FMV games, a total inversion from gameplay to cinematics (and very terribly encoded ones at that).
 
Ngl; title of this thread totally baited me into thinking OP was up to some banworthy shit. ?
 
First of all, this is an online forum. Safety is not an issue. No one here can hurt you. That is an excuse people use to censor others. The proper answer to bad opinions is good arguments against it, not censorship. Yes you have the right to tell someone they're wrong; you don't have a right to tell them they can't have that opinion or that they can't speak their opinion (in general, not on a private forum like this. The mods are of course free to limit topics as they wish here)

What I meant by actions is that yes someone has to say they are racist or spout racist BS before it can be responded to. But it is an opinion and should be responded to just the same as any other disallowed topics. Whether thats an immediate ban or a warning first or whatever. My point was that I didn't think talking politics should get 3 strikes but saying you hate whites or something should be an instant ban. Treat all disallowed topics the same, otherwise you are effectively punishing someone for what their opinion is by treating it more harshly.

In response to your Orwell quote, I would say of course stop that version of Shakespeare from harming little girls. And punish his actions absolutely! But yes his art still contributes to society and I wouldn't support "canceling" his plays being taught as they are now because they are still worthwhile contributions to society. All people have good and evil in them and if they act on the evil then it should be punished and if they create something good it should be treated good.

I do agree with certain topics being off-limits on this forum. It ruins the vibe when we're discussing things like this. Racist crap has nothing to do with gaming and shouldn't be espoused here. Neither should politics or religion or probably other topics. But we should treat those topics the same, regardless of how we personally feel about them. Thats all I'm saying. Its okay if you disagree.
As others have said, it is a safety issue, both for the members and the forum itself. "Sticks and stones" is an outdated platitude that has been proven false by psychologists, political scientists, and philosophers. I posted the bartending example because it shows how an entire place can be easily destroyed just by having hatemongers there. That works the same for digital space.

Racism is not the same as general politics. Saying "I think there should be more funding for trains" is not even close to the issue that hate speech is. False equivalence is a logical fallacy, and should be avoided like any other. Weird that you argued for nuance on understanding racism but not on the way that rules should be applied.

Punishing Pedospeare would probably result in no new King Lear. You can't really direct stageplays from prison, and you can't sell tickets when nobody wants to say "wow, that Pedo guy's work is awesome." (See Ezra Miller's The Flash for a real life example of how that went.) And no, I'm not saying don't study his old work. There are lit scholars who study HP Lovecraft and boycott JK Rowling because there's a big difference between a 100+ year old problematic work and a newly published one.

Your "good and evil" argument is a baseless opinion. Literally, as you provide no argument for it other than assuming we all agree (we don't). We don't all have a racist or other cancellable person inside us. And many of us try to learn from our mistakes instead of doubling down on them, which racists tend to do.

As for discussing politics, religion, etc, that kind of depends on the game. Is it wrong to discuss socio-economics when talking about Grand Theft Auto (a satire of certain socio-economic trends in the late 20th century)? Is it wrong to discuss religion when talking about Xenoblade (a series which tends to end on fighting monotheistic deities, and not without the plot building up to it)? And there are other examples out there of games that touch on social, political, and economic concepts either on purpose or by accident. Having a conversation about them that resembles actual art discussion instead of the common consumer report-style review ("game good, graphics, good, me have fun") isn't exactly a bad thing.

Laws have varying punishments in a civil society. We shouldn't go Hammurabi on the forum just to make all rules as strict as the anti-racism rule. And we shouldn't do the opposite, either (loosening them just to give the racists leeway). That won't create a likeable community.
 
Struck out on warnings, which is extremely disappointing to me as a mod considering what this topic was all about and who started it.

Sometimes the ones who worry the most about the rules are the ones trying to break them.
 
Struck out on warnings, which is extremely disappointing to me as a mod considering what this topic was all about and who started it.
As they say, always study the track before partaking in the race.
 
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