Modern gaming has tons of issues, but so did every era of video games. If the modern era isn't doing it for someone they are fortunate enough to have thousands of games released across the decades that are worth their time. If someone points out any of the myriad of issues with the AAA side of the industry in particular I tend to understand where they are coming from since there really are countless issues holding the industry back that have been issues for 10+ years now (focus on realism, homogenized design, ballooning production values that benefit nothing, predatory live service models etc). What does bug me is when people dislike the modern state of the industry and then just refuse to open up their backlog and engage with anything that isn't ultra modern.
Gaming as a hobby/passion is something that like with any artform you could engage with 24/7 for your entire sentient life and barely scratch the surface of all worthwhile releases. You cheat nobody but yourself when you close yourself off from the vast majority of those experiences while admitting the modern state of things aren't appeasing you. Either figure out how to engage in a way that is healthy for you or find a new hobby, it is totally fine to accept you've changed out of a former passion, it happens to everyone at least once!
Fwiw while I dislike many aspects of modern gaming I find it easy enough to just focus on the handful of releases that /do/ pique my interest and focus more on my backlog. It is far more productive than just acting like the world sucks now because there are fewer modern releases per year that I look forward to or that certain devs/franchises or whatever just aren't appealing to me anymore.
(old comment sucked so I deleted it and am now posting this)