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Message: [QUOTE="YuriSukiSan, post: 152092, member: 97866"] First off, stop talking yourself down. Don't talk yourself down. No one respects that. Not even people who legitimately hate you. It's gross, actually. Charisma (for any any reason) isn't just something you can conjure up at a whim, it takes practice and self confidence through personal growth. Before you even begin to think about anything else you need to attain self discipline. The best way of achieving that is by actually getting physically fit. Dieting, exercising, going to bed at a respectable time and just generally looking after yourself. Once you do that you can start working on bigger goals. And if it isn't obvious hygiene doesn't just mean cleaniness but being well groomed. You need to learn to crawl, walk, then run because dating is a Marathon. That means you need to love and respect yourself before you can give your love to someone else. That actually takes practice, self discipline and a mindset that is dedicated to achieving personal growth. And your first hurdle is attaining a respectable level of physical fitness and self care. And, no, even if you're joking around far too many people actually post what you do unironically across social media. So I'm going to post seriously. [/QUOTE]

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