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Message: [QUOTE="Evaccaneer Doom, post: 146095, member: 41573"] [ATTACH type="full" alt="That's the neat part - Imgur's the neat part - Imgur"]47218[/ATTACH] The definition of "cool" is very vague. Don't even try it, you're more likely to alienate the ladies by trying that. Parents try it too and alienate the youngsters hence the "how do you do, fellow kids." And honestly, the idea of "being cool in front of the ladies" is a power fantasy from TV that's an incredibly unrealistic standard without being a celebrity or pop culture icon or smth. There's a reason the popular kid archetype dies after high school and that's because it only works when the people know you. As more and more people from different areas previously who don't know/care about you start becoming more and more of a norm, the clout exclusive to your community naturally gives out. And of course this peaks at college, because it's very unlikely anyone from your past will follow you there. At the same time "being yourself" won't cut it either unlike what the kids programming will tell you. You gotta be yourself AND own it. If you're an arrogant prick, be an arrogant prick. People can smell desperation and fakeness anyway. And DEFINITELY don't be one of those guys who whines about attracting no women all the time, that just makes it worse. You're not gonna have women flocking over you like the shows where the jock attracts everyone, just won't happen. -a terminally online dude in his 20s P.S.: It's also worth mentioning the people who try the hardest to be cool often become bums after high school whereas the average person or nerds tend to be the ones landing high paying jobs. [/QUOTE]

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