Did you ever had a crush on someone at school?

[Xdqwerty]

Because I did. Several times in fact

 

[Stingy Perry]

Me in every grade from elementary to highschool.

 

[King Koopa's iconKing Koopa]

Yeah but I never had the confidence to initiate anything. I just expected no one to ever like me.

 

[RanmyakuIchi's iconRanmyakuIchi]

Yep, in highschool. She actually ended up approaching me and we ended up dating for 2 years. It ended pretty poorly.

 

[J.F.C]

Only in Elementary school since after that i only spent 1 year in middle school and was homeschooled for the rest of my life (greatest decision my mother ever made)

 

[Waffles's iconWaffles]

Yes, on my friend Karen (of Road Rash 3 fame) and also on Lina, the little, excitable redhead whose Crash Bandicoot and Final Fantasy devotion stirred all sorts of feelings on me.

 

[Nidoking's iconNidoking]

I had one specific crush on a girl for quite a few years that, no surprise, never went anywhere. I had a couple other smaller ones here and there, one other girl and a couple guys in particular

 

[jankusanagi]

Yes, absolutely ?

 

[AnonymousCookieMonster]

Difficult to tell if this matters.

Every time i tried to open up and try flirting or saying i liked something or someone, i'd get slapped down for even trying.

 

[LiberoVulpesLiberoVulpes's icon]

Yes, for good and for ill.

Mostly ill.

 

[Sir Auriel of Lionel]

Plenty a listless love there

 

[DoubleGulpSlurpeeCup]

One million percent yes

 

[106x]

plenty lol, currently been with my girlfriend for a year and 4 months, hoping things last seeing as ive put 3 modded handhelds together for her lol

 

[DunkeyKong]

Not sure if I can remember, a few I guess

plenty lol, currently been with my girlfriend for a year and 4 months, hoping things last seeing as ive put 3 modded handhelds together for her lol

That's crazy work bro, if she doesn't appreciate that though…honestly, even I don't know what to say to that

 

[106x]

Not sure if I can remember, a few I guess

That's crazy work bro, if she doesn't appreciate that though…honestly, even I don't know what to say to that

she heavily appreciates it thank the lord, I also put her onto the DMC series awhile back and she's obsessed, she even pulled up to one of my SSBM tournaments to support me so I don't think she's going anywhere

 

[DunkeyKong]

she heavily appreciates it thank the lord, I also put her onto the DMC series awhile back and she's obsessed, she even pulled up to one of my SSBM tournaments to support me so I don't think she's going anywhere

Oh damn, she's supportive alright. Anyway, good for you man! Hope you guys live long and well

 

[Num]

waiting for those who voted no to come in and talk about not having a single crush to make this thread a bit less one sided. closest ive ever had was childhood crushes on characters in movies like hermione

 

[RanmyakuIchi's iconRanmyakuIchi]

plenty lol, currently been with my girlfriend for a year and 4 months, hoping things last seeing as ive put 3 modded handhelds together for her lol

If I dated someone and they gifted me 3 modded handhelds I would put a ring on that so fast.

 

[DunkeyKong]

If I dated someone and they gifted me 3 modded handhelds I would put a ring on that so fast.

Same lmao, straight up making a wedding

 

[bjork]

Absolutely, then run into them years later and briefly had the same kind of feeling until my brain goes, "this is a different person, you knew them when there were 13, get to know them all over again" and that's gone okay and not okay.

 

[naizou's iconnaizou]

Unrequited love and romantic relationships are wonderful things.
You work on improving yourself for the other person, and your heart feels fulfilled.
No matter the outcome, they become experiences and memories.
Though some of my past relationships with girlfriends ended in arguments, I’m grateful for them because they’ve helped shape the person I am today.

 

[Skeetos]

Do I want to talk about this? Why not.
I've had my fair share of crushes. Most never going anywhere. In fact, the one girl I had a relationship with liked me, not the other way around. But that's already going off topic. There was this one girl I really was into, like really heavy. Not the typical crush. I'll call her Sue (cant think of anything good lol) because of privacy. Sue was really cool. Smart, beautiful (much more so than any other girl I liked) and all around awesome to be around. We became friends pretty quickly. She sat next to me one day at lunch and asked me if I would let her have my lunch, I told her fuck no lol. My homie looked at me and told me that she was pregnant, so I gave her my lunch and got her information that day. After that we talked just about every day for 2 years. Even after we both graduated. But the issue was that she never really liked me that much, friend or otherwise. She has a lot of issues, issues I really hope she figures out one day. She would talk to me mainly because I have a way of explaining people's problems to them in a way that can help them figure things out, I was the emotional support guy basically. I won't get into a lot of the stuff she talked to me about in detail, but it was a lot of her trauma from a certain event in her life, her uncertainty of being a mother, her sexual escapades, anything she needed to talk to someone about she would come to me. But she never initiated conversation herself unless she wanted something. And I fell for it every time. I don't think she is a bad person, I think a lot of the things that has been done to her and things she has done weigh on her and she doesn't know how to handle it properly. I still think about her from time to time, and I feel for her deeply even to this day. But my care for her ended up becoming an obsession, one that would never pay off, and so I cut things off. She helped me through a really rough time in my life and I felt indebted to her. But it finally came to a head when I met up with her one day. It was her son's birthday and I got something for him because I knew she was struggling to get him something that year, her job cut her off and she was hurting for cash. When I got there, we got him to come over and get his present, which was really nice, her son is a cute kid. But she barely talked to me, and I didn't want to sit there for like 10 minutes with zero conversation (my autism doesn't really help in these situations either) and when I got home I realized she never thanked me. She didn't talk to me after that for a good month. And when she did talk to me finally it was to tell me about a crazy night of passion she had. So that was it. She got a hold of me not 2 months ago just to immediately start trauma dumping on me, and these days I'm not in the position to help her figure it out anymore. So I probably will never talk to her again, but I hope she is doing well and can someday figure out how to manage her pain. God I feel like a piece of dirt to this day.

 

[DunkeyKong]

Sure I had a crush or 2 as school I mean the first one I remember was a girl named Tove and I remember she was always so sweet and kind but well I was me so she was never interested I was a nerd after all.. Or when I was 15 a girl named Lisa and she actually had a crush on me on me of all people but me and my dumb stupid brain fucked that chance up BIG TIME I still hate my self for it.

But the sad fact is there where 3 girls in my class that class that liked me but oh no I was dumb and blind and only saw 1 of the girls then when I messed up and lost any chance with Lisa instead of the other 2 girls I went after another girl that was not even interested in me at all.

I was like a Typical Main chater in anime trope to stupid to see the girls that alrady liked me and went after a girl that did not even care about me. I was as stupid and dumbs as Subaru keep chasing Elisabeth when he has Rem that likes him.

Yeah fuck it I have regrets in life and always wonder what if. But well as I awlays say there is no reason to Delve in the past what´s done is done so I awlays ignore my past. And sure im happy with my partner I have now and I got 2 wonderfull kids so im not complaning but some times I just hate my own stupidity and the worst part is I grew older but still as bloody braindead as I was when I was young.

Damn that's rough, "typical main character in anime" lmao. As oblivious as you are, I'm glad you got a partner though!

 

[moonbits]

Yup!

 

[DunkeyKong]

Do I want to talk about this? Why not.
I've had my fair share of crushes. Most never going anywhere. In fact, the one girl I had a relationship with liked me, not the other way around. But that's already going off topic. There was this one girl I really was into, like really heavy. Not the typical crush. I'll call her Sue (cant think of anything good lol) because of privacy. Sue was really cool. Smart, beautiful (much more so than any other girl I liked) and all around awesome to be around. We became friends pretty quickly. She sat next to me one day at lunch and asked me if I would let her have my lunch, I told her fuck no lol. My homie looked at me and told me that she was pregnant, so I gave her my lunch and got her information that day. After that we talked just about every day for 2 years. Even after we both graduated. But the issue was that she never really liked me that much, friend or otherwise. She has a lot of issues, issues I really hope she figures out one day. She would talk to me mainly because I have a way of explaining people's problems to them in a way that can help them figure things out, I was the emotional support guy basically. I won't get into a lot of the stuff she talked to me about in detail, but it was a lot of her trauma from a certain event in her life, her uncertainty of being a mother, her sexual escapades, anything she needed to talk to someone about she would come to me. But she never initiated conversation herself unless she wanted something. And I fell for it every time. I don't think she is a bad person, I think a lot of the things that has been done to her and things she has done weigh on her and she doesn't know how to handle it properly. I still think about her from time to time, and I feel for her deeply even to this day. But my care for her ended up becoming an obsession, one that would never pay off, and so I cut things off. She helped me through a really rough time in my life and I felt indebted to her. But it finally came to a head when I met up with her one day. It was her son's birthday and I got something for him because I knew she was struggling to get him something that year, her job cut her off and she was hurting for cash. When I got there, we got him to come over and get his present, which was really nice, her son is a cute kid. But she barely talked to me, and I didn't want to sit there for like 10 minutes with zero conversation (my autism doesn't really help in these situations either) and when I got home I realized she never thanked me. She didn't talk to me after that for a good month. And when she did talk to me finally it was to tell me about a crazy night of passion she had. So that was it. She got a hold of me not 2 months ago just to immediately start trauma dumping on me, and these days I'm not in the position to help her figure it out anymore. So I probably will never talk to her again, but I hope she is doing well and can someday figure out how to manage her pain. God I feel like a piece of dirt to this day.

Damn…that's horrible man. All that just to get that kind of treatment? You deserve better man